Hi this is my first post on IF and a bit rambling on my part. Please look upon kindly on me. š„ŗā¤ļø
Its interesting to see Jasmine's character. Right from the upbringing, she has been spoilt like anything. It is pretty evident that they never objected to her questionable behaviour in name of playfulness/childishness.
And because Tejo is the one with the duty of being 'responsible' this only pushed her to get protected from everyone without taking any responsibility for her actions.
I also think her obsession of Canada is pretty much result of her family's obsession over the same.
And the unending attention from guys added to her narcissistic and self-centered character. She feels like she is the main character and everyone else is there to aid her in fulfilling her dreams. She can have anyone she wants to.
Its interesting to see her obsession with Fateh as well. While I do think that she liked him in some sense but when her conditioning and obsession of Canada came into conflict, she obviously chose the latter one.
I also think that she loves her sister dearly but when she saw that her trope that 'she can have anyone as long as she desires' is going down the drain because fateh and tejo are now in a relationship where she cannot have fateh, she became obsessed with having him. Pretty sure she will lose interest once she will have him because it's like a toy that a child wants and they do not get.
She was almost sure that fateh would have waited for her and would have tried marrying her once he gets a job in Canada and she still believes that Fateh will leave her sister and come to her because she is the one deserving of all the attention. Since now everyone abhors her for her actions of calling of her marriage, she deep down thinks that once fateh comes to her, everyone will be back to playing their own 'side character' roles - fateh her prince charming (more like slave tbh lol), her sister always shielding her, her parents always loving her etc.
And essentially, she is projecting her frustration of not having fateh on her sister and it's the conflict of emotions again at this point between love for her sister and obsession towards fateh. At one side she cries for her sister's well being but on the other hand blames her for everything.
Also, her blaming others signifies two things: one her using denial as a coping mechanism and second that she needs to blame someone else for her actions that is why she keeps finding instances and people to blame. It is pretty same as she is dependent on someone else for fulfilment of her dreams, she is dependent on others for being responsible of her own actions. Again, because she feels she is the main character.
She will always have answers whenever it hurts her ego and would put up brave front but gets anxious deep inside. She is a character full of conflicting emotions and make her character really interesting.