NEED COUNSELLING

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Friends!
I need some proper and strong counselling. The ongoing hatred with every other bashing and mocking Udaan has made me depressed. I love the serial and every person and every thing associated with it so very much and that's why I am feeling low probably.
But this is getting over me. I am questioning myself if I should continue watching Udaan. Then I start comparing it with that stupid serial BP which airs at 9. I am losing it.
I don't want to lose it because of a stupid reason like this. Please tell me something. Explain me. I want to hear something good about udaan too. 😭

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Personally what I feel if they all think that there show is unique and have good content then they should not depend on other show for trp. And for namakaran fans they are mocking are show because of there frustration which will end within a week when show end.Regarding bepanah fans they should know that people who are saying that there show is loosing trp because of are show's late timing that they must be fool because a person who cannot judge wether he / she is watching there show or some other show must be a fool and also there show is getting its own 45 min whether it starts late or not. Who wants to watch weather show starts on its own time or not.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@shreeti,mocking and degrading and all these are common things in the new social media culture.
Either you can ignore it or can give it back to them if they are crossing limits that's it.
No need to take it to your heart.


In my opinion,there are mockers from different fandoms but i feel BP fans are sick people.
I'm not saying everyone but there are few.
They are even having issues with merger promos with Udaan.
What they are thinking about themselves and about their show or actors as above everything is rubbish.

I hope colors stick with Shakti and Udaan merger promos like before.
Shakti fans are way too much good,their both actors are popular and they are first in ratings on colors and there used to be multiple merger promos with Udaan and we beat them on ratings few times.
Then never seen any such superority complex and such low level comments from them or at least i didn't notice anything so far.

I will say this mocking groups want their show on top but frustated because of heavy fall of ratings after first week.
But mocking Udaan never help them gaining anything.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Shreeti evn I felt low observing the current bashing of udaan by both nk fans and bepannah fans but let me tell u that bpnh is a new show and I experimented with the show by watching 6 or 7epi but I cudnt connect with the characters ...maybe it has star power so whatever story it has fans wud never feel upset ...sorry for any bpnh fans here ...n nk ,I didn't watch nk and believe me their harsh words aren't going to change reality...our udaan is still safe ...but it cannot be ignored that if low rating continues our state is gonna be the same...it's strongly needed that udaan cums back to top 10 so that we can overpower the bashers...
And shreeti last thing I have seen your posts on Instagram , ur writing is awe and genuine...
But as u aren't understanding what to do , remember that that the world we live in is self created by us...we should decide which things to assimilate ,...ty
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Posted: 7 years ago
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If they don't value our opinion or respect us why should we care about what they think. We don't owe them anything and we definitely don't need their approval.
Every fan thinks their show is unique and the best but the truth is every fandom is a minority and the rest don't share their appreciation of their show, so why choose to listen to the hateful few, there are many fandoms that don't abuse us.

These fans don't realize just because their leads have huge online fandom or good PR that viewers will watch or love their shows.

Constructive criticism is always welcome but pure hatred and arrogance should only be met with disdain. If it hurts too much don't read it or if it makes you feel better respond but why should the opinion of some morons makes you change yours?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thank you so much everyone. I needed all these badly.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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About others mocking Udaan... I said yesterday to Ammu that Udaan fans probably made mistake by not responding and ignoring their mockery and provocations. It started with NK fans which we tolerated coz we sympathised with their situation and we even appreciated their earlier efforts. Later it went on Bepannaah also, from whatever reason. I'm watching BP sometimes and as much as their lead actors are good nobody can't deny that concept is too much immature although it should be really serious. I mean compared to Udaan the way they address things is totally different and can't be compared. It's not surprising that pairing two popular actors will bring lot of immature people who constantly talk only about their looks and not much about their work. Here I must say not every fan of BP is immature, there are also very mature people. When majority of shows fans is immature it's not surprising that they will do stupid things like they do with Udaan. And seeing that people are not reacting on mockery from other show they will start their own. Udaan fans again kept quit. Why? Who knows. Yesterday there was Kasam fan who also tried to abuse Udaan on twitter. Why wouldn't he. If channel is ignoring his show against all fans demanding at least he can do what other show (Bp) fans are doing. And why wouldn't he Udaan fans keep quiet anyway. Tomorrow it can be Shakti fans... Or it can be IMMJ fans or even TA fans who are already bashed by NK and in similar position where we were at start. So better not to let it.
Udaan fans especially social networks active, are in a very less number compared to other shows. It's fact that tbh sometimes makes me more optimistic then pessimistic. Why? Udaan is not everyone's cup of tea. Not everyone can understand the depth of Suraj's character or Chakor's fight for freedom. Not everyone can understand or want to accept that villians from Udaan are just like not so good copy from what happens in real life.
But inside our fandom we have two big problems. First one is that from some reason Udaan fans become very passive. Not only in the meaning of defending show or arguing with bashers but with almost every other aspect. The second problem are fights between so called VJ, Meera and Vidhi fans. It doesn't help us, and it makes every stranger who by mistake sees it more confident that something with Udaan is definetly wrong. Am not saying nobody should declare as VJ, or Meera or Vidhi fan. But we shouldn't start silly discussions and argues because of it especially on actor's profiles and posts.

Shreeti for you I will say this...
It doesn't matter whom you love. Your love is only yours. Doesn't matter for whom you fight... at the end fight is only yours.
If you are lucky enough the one you love has his own love for you also. Udaan has. If Udaan doesn't love his fans why would they do everything to impress us, to make us in on more awe moment. At the end of that love there are Meejay who proved not only their love but their respect their gratitude to fans multiple times.
When you love Shreeti you create your own beautiful world. And you really do that. Every your post is part of that world.

Close your eyes Shreeti... think about Udaan, about Sukor scenes, about Meejay segments... think about moments when you write about Udaan... everything will be fine when you open your eyes.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thank you so much krupy for this help. Thank you!!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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People alrady assuming that there may be Mahasangam with Udaan seeing a merger promo.
And they are saying they don't want it.
If it continues,we should also replay that we don't want it either.

Udaan is a sucesssful show which crossed 1k episodes and we have nothing to prove.
And we don't need to feel inferior to any new show which just started and yet to prove its worth.

And about Udaan eating their ratings,if someone really interested in a show and keen to watch, they will watch it if they are free no matter,if timing changed and is late to 10-15 minutes.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: binivenugopal

People alrady assuming that there may be Mahasangam with Udaan seeing a merger promo.

And they are saying they don't want it.
If it continues,we should also replay that we don't want it either.

Udaan is a sucesssful show which crossed 1k episodes and we have nothing to prove.
And we don't need to feel inferior to any new show which just started and yet to prove its worth.

And about Udaan eating their ratings,if someone really interested in a show and keen to watch, they will watch it if they are free no matter,if timing changed and is late to 10-15 minutes.

This remind me one one tweet which left me numb
Basically person was complaining on Bepannaah time slot and said like how Colors expect him to watch Beepanah when in 9:30 he/she has to switch channel to watch his other show.


I was like so that much about popularity of BP when it's not people's first choice!

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