IF he stripes her it won't matter does he feel guilty or not later, because not even one women deserves to live with that memory. And that is something which can't be forget no matter how much you love that person or how much that person loves you. That is how it is in real life. That is how that kind of things should be presented on television.
Chakor to be angry on Suraj and that to affect him, why would her anger affect him more then her pain and her humiliation. Isn't that egoistic? We can describe Suraj however we see him but only thing we can't say is that he is egoistic when it comes to his relation with Chakor.
What VJ said about Suraj was the same Suraj said to Chakor in today's episode. But we all saw that he is falling for her, aren't we?