Was he RIGHT or WRONG???

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hey guys,this thought has been bugging me since Friday, so wanted your views as well. 😳
as of now,we all have to assume (and which also seems the case),that KN has died.

"Antim Sanskaar" is a really mandatory thing to be done after death,that too through the son,according to Hindu customs.šŸ¤“

But KN was not someone, who deserved this in any manner...
the things he had done,according to me,his carcass should hsve been left in the open,to be devoured by scavengers😈
still after been thrown in the well,he was subjected to the sacred firešŸ˜•
and when Suraj came,he did that ritual of "Antim Sanskaar" for his same father,who killed his child,and subjected his wife to a brutal treatment.
Just a day before,Suraj himself wanted to kill his father,and when he did died,he dutifully performed the rights of a son as well.šŸ˜’

so I wanted to ask,all of you,what's your take on this act of Suraj,was he right or wrong???šŸ˜›


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Personally I also feel that KN did not deserve anything... But finally yaar I think the entire scene for Suraj was a little overwhelming... The way he witnessed everything was something which he did not expect to see...so I think he must have become bhavuk... Do you remember when they had come back from Benares and KN was trying to act goody and had folded his hands in front of chakor asking for forgiveness, it was Suraj who finally held his hands as if saying sorry... jagatmata has imbibed certain qualities in him na
Plus on Friday he had just come back from Benares...so there is a benefit of doubt that he did not know the gravity of KN's torture... It's only later that he must have come to know everything
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Rabi 😔😔 I typed everything and while I was uploading my net played havoc, so had to retype again...
Guess even the net is not happy with what I say..

If I leave aside my Hindu culture, values, humanity etc KN's body needs to be left behind in a gruesome way to be pondered and fed by the vultures and squirming worms or even worst as I may sound rude but when I read news about rape, I always wanted that rapist to be not killed or hanged but to be tied in a very very unhygienic conditions with rats around and his private part that little extra flesh which does all this nasty work to be slit everyday by one inch and added a pinch of raw chilli powder till he dies... yes the most unpardonable act on this earth I consider is rape...

Rabi you rightly said about the Hindu culture.

As per the Hindu dharam, the son has to light the pyre of the father and do the antim sanskar...that is going around the pyre with the pitcher or pot carrying the water. this is sort of repaying the debts of the deceased by the son..so that the son is relieved of any wrong karma...

And also in Hindu culture when a soul comes to the earth is pure so god ticks with a good mark and when it is dead and had to reach the abode it is again ticked as deeds are different from the soul so the soul is still pure. Also any offering to god in Hindu culture is always done through agni as no material thing can reach the abode, so unless the materialistic body is cremated or burnt the soul cannot reach the abode to be testified for its wrong deeds and sent to hell or heaven. the by doing the antim sanskar the soul reaches the abode not to return or it will be wandering in the earth.

So what Suraj did is right, but, he would not ahve done this knowing all these but in my perception,
though he had a demon as a father, he still yearned for his love and as a redeemed person he does not want to fail in his duty as a son and thus earn the evil karma.

So my respect for Suraj rose many fold in my eyes, for he understood the situation, understood the gravity of why she was pushed to do such an act, no questions asked, the pain and agony, just the affirmation form his mother and lo the man does his duty... All through those few minutes it was myrid of expressions in his face...

His eyes just emoted everything...

VJ you excelled through your eyes as without your expression I could not have felt those!

Hats off to you...

Suraj what you did is right according to humanity, culture and value and you rose many folds in my eyes.






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Posted: 7 years ago
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Whatever KN might be to the entire world..No matter how brutal his antics are..He was, is and will be a father to Suraj..Agree KN never was a responsible father..But Suraj did what a responsible son should be doing..😊 He proved yet again that he may be born to a beast but he never became one..If he would have left Kn without doing antim sanskar, there would be no difference to both..That act of Suraj was commendable..All credit goes to Chakor 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ndivyateja

Whatever KN might be to the entire world..No matter how brutal his antics are..He was, is and will be a father to Suraj..Agree KN never was a responsible father..But Suraj did what a responsible son should be doing..😊 He proved yet again that he may be born to a beast but he never became one..If he would have left Kn without doing antim sanskar, there would be no difference to both..That act of Suraj was commendable..All credit goes to Chakor 😃


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Good post rabia and great discussion everyones. Enjoyed reading everyones thought
Before the episode telecasted I had said that if suraj does kn antim sanskaar i will be okay with it because at the end of the day he is his father. Thats a fact no one can change but a part of me will be content somewhere, if he does not do it. I stick to my same thoughts.

But i want to ask do you all think he would have done his antim sanslaar if he had known the truth about kn brutal torture on chakor and killing their baby?. When he arrived at the scene he did not know how everything had happened.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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SURAJ IS SUCH A NICE HUMAN GUY SO HE DO THIS
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Posted: 7 years ago
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thanks for sharing your views guys,beautiful explanations by all😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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coming to my view on this-
undoubtedly,Suraj reached an altogether different pedestal for me in many ways,in that day.
recalled,a childhood memory,once when I was around seven,dad had gifted a diamond ring to mom,on their anniversary,and she was very happy at it,when I asked it from her,she refused saying,it's very precious,you will lose it,I did'nt understood all these,so directly asked my dad,then he explained me the thing about gemstones and why they are considered precious,he also showed me some pics of other rare gemstones,then he further explained me,that there are many more gemstones created by God,of which names are even not known to humans,those gemstones are so precious,beautiful and rare,that they never descended on earth,only the purest of souls,who will reach upto heaven after death,will get them,thats why we always should try doing good deeds,that will be enough for us to take to heaven(this way he made me promise this as well,that I will always try being good)...
SO I FEEL,THAT FOR ME SURAJ WILL ALWAYS BE THE RAREST OF RARE,PRECIOUS AND MOST BEAUTIFUL GEMSTONE,THAT NEVER REALLY DESCENDED ON EARTH,BUT AS CHAKOR IS THE PUREST SOUL,SHE HAS GOT THAT IN LIFE ONLY.


anyways,I always used to say,that Suraj is the best person,best man,best brother,best friend,best lover,bestest husband,but I never said him to be the best son,coz once he had himself conspired against his father...BUT NOW SURAJ BECAME THE BEST SON FOR ME AS WELL.
coz when I saw asking permission from his mom an doing the ritual,somewhere,there was still the same teenager,who just wanted to be loved by his father.

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