What's on her mind?? - Page 4

@Nimmi I think there's a lot of difference between bashing and criticism, the discussions that used to be cannot be judged as bashing,u guys were fair enough with respect to suraj 's character

Originally posted by: binivenugopal

If criticisms should accept with open hands.

There should be balance in it also.

If people see disappointments in Chakor's character and express it,why can't some people accept it ??

The same people who want to others accept bashing of Sooraj.

Complaints had from both sides that a particular side's POV ignoring the other side.

I commented about someone's reply because I didn't feel to agree with remarks about Sooraj.

It is a mocking for some people.

It 's wrong I can't comment about other's opinions but in the name of defending that person, they can question my opinion??

What is the difference then ?

Did I make any personal remark to say that I mocked someone ?

But I feel,I don't need to care about these, this is a public forum I can express my opinions.

this is my last post in this thread.
firstly apologies if my views and I ended up hurting or offending you bini in whatsoever way. not my intention.

i am all for both positive and negative views. but not on views upon People for having views. and this is precisely what is happening in the forum.
no one is questioning anyone's opinion to opine but if the opinions are about people then i for one think it is not right.

Chakor/Suraj is wrong. - opinion.
People can never see Suraj's pain. - opinion on people.

that my friend is the difference.
actually i wanted to post this in 'Suraj move on thread'. sweeping statements on people there too.
ended up here. multitasking sucks. sorry about that.and seen quite a few such posts earlier and quite a number of times gem being - even if Suraj dies these people will never be satisfied etc etc. who are these horrible people?

a forum should be open to both positive and negative views. but if negative people are repeatedly 'questioned' as to why they hold such and such views and that they will always find faults in only character - how fair is that?

anyways.. i started posting in this forum after a long time and ended up saying a tad too much i guess.
apologies once again. please don't take this personally. this is really not meant for one person in particular. a general statement to let people be.

Originally posted by: binivenugopal

If criticisms should accept with open hands.

There should be balance in it also.

If people see disappointments in Chakor's character and express it,why can't some people accept it ??

The same people who want to others accept bashing of Sooraj.

Complaints had from both sides that a particular side's POV ignoring the other side.

I commented about someone's reply because I didn't feel to agree with remarks about Sooraj.

It is a mocking for some people.

It 's wrong I can't comment about other's opinions but in the name of defending that person, they can question my opinion??

What is the difference then ?

Did I make any personal remark to say that I mocked someone ?

But I feel,I don't need to care about these, this is a public forum I can express my opinions.

@Aisha

For example, just go through your post in 2nd page of this thread, you had similar sentiments and you also mentioned about someone's post about Sooraj should move on.

It's not like I can't stand it but before your comment came did I ever say that oh..Suraj supporters don't see chakors side at all? Have I ever said it??..Last week on some xyz site something happened and then a post was made here that why are Suraj bashers so stone hearted and quoting you " no matter what what happens people will just find reasons to hate Suraj. They can even sympathise with Vivaan but not Suraj" something along these lines..At that time also I wrote that is it necessary to blame other people's opinions but then after that I remained quiet on this issue. Same thing happened some days back in AT also..Then also I said the same thing..Why to mock people for it? As for character bashing I have always said that is perfectly ok to criticise a character..Yes if i doesnt match my opinions I give a counter argument with proper reasons..But never did I say oh these group of people won't just understand..In short I don't judge people over it..And today also it my first cement on this thread was related to character only..Whatever i did say was so in response to your comment..

You personally quoted my name and questioned my opinion.

Ok girls..

Originally posted by: ndivyateja

Ok girls..

I actually have 2 points..

1.) In the morning when my brother left open a jar (he forgot closing it 😛)..My mom without a second thought came right to me and scolded for leaving it open I was a bit surprised and asked her why did you assume it to be me..for which she said "Because you did it before too..I know its your doing" even though I wasn't..Yes I frequently forget, but this time it wasn't my mistake at all..But still I had to face my mom's anger..😭

My point is..When Suraj was disappointed with chakor, he believed it because She did it earlier too..Be it for any reason..She did leave him once..So, its obvious he thinks she might have done it again..That's what he said too.."She might found someone in seek of her help, so she might have left"

But Chakor believed that "SURAJ WANTS TO KILL HER"..Even if it is her lovely sister saying so, there is no point in believeing it..Coz earlier in the camp, she said she trusts him more than her life..Also when he doubtes KN, he tried to kill his own Father..Why would he join hands with KN harming chakor..

2.) She herself said she wants to deliver the preg news even if he kills her..Though she is in shock, wants to save her baby and all, Suraj is her husband..its his rite to know..Why did she reveal it to her sister?? Why dont she doubt her atleast for a nano sec?? Like why??

Above post is more of a 'State of Confusion' for which I need views from Chakor's side..So that, I can understand it..Im not ignoring chakor's pain here..Just couldn't understand it..😕 The main purpose of this thread too is to get answers..Hope I get them 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

this is my last post in this thread.
firstly apologies if my views and I ended up hurting or offending you bini in whatsoever way. not my intention.

i am all for both positive and negative views. but not on views upon People for having views. and this is precisely what is happening in the forum.
no one is questioning anyone's opinion to opine but if the opinions are about people then i for one think it is not right.

Chakor/Suraj is wrong. - opinion.
People can never see Suraj's pain. - opinion on people.

that my friend is the difference.
actually i wanted to post this in 'Suraj move on thread'. sweeping statements on people there too.
ended up here. multitasking sucks. sorry about that.and seen quite a few such posts earlier and quite a number of times gem being - even if Suraj dies these people will never be satisfied etc etc. who are these horrible people?

a forum should be open to both positive and negative views. but if negative people are repeatedly 'questioned' as to why they hold such and such views and that they will always find faults in only character - how fair is that?

anyways.. i started posting in this forum after a long time and ended up saying a tad too much i guess.
apologies once again. please don't take this personally. this is really not meant for one person in particular. a general statement to let people be.