Suraj has a lot of growing up to do!

Before this nonsense track started I thought Suraj showed a lot of growth but through the latest tracks I have seen that the growth he has shown is just not enough. Suraj still behaves childishly and immature, he fails to see the impact his actions have on others. To Suraj this is all a game, one that can be easily won but it is not a game. Suraj destroyed Imli's character, Vivaan thinks his wife had an affair with his brother and there is what he did to his own wife. Suraj lied to Chakor, it is his actions that lead to divorce. Suraj has no rights over Chakor and has no rights to be so self righteous with her or anyone else. I really hope seeing Ajay and Chakor together gives Suraj a wake up call.

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

Before this nonsense track started I thought Suraj showed a lot of growth but through the latest tracks I have seen that the growth he has shown is just not enough. Suraj still behaves childishly and immature, he fails to see the impact his actions have on others. To Suraj this is all a game, one that can be easily won but it is not a game. Suraj destroyed Imli's character, Vivaan thinks his wife had an affair with his brother and there is what he did to his own wife. Suraj lied to Chakor, it is his actions that lead to divorce. Suraj has no rights over Chakor and has no rights to be so self righteous with her or anyone else. I really hope seeing Ajay and Chakor together gives Suraj a wake up call.

Amen..We can all agree that Suraj and Chakor are better off without each other. Suraj fans and those who find him unbearable at the moment will both be happy! Bring on the new story.

Originally posted by: sriarshi

@Bold : Just a small correction. Suraj didn't destroyed imli's character! After imli told about her pregnancy.. Vivan revealed his impotency.. Then he dragged her to infront of all her family and village people.. Then he told he can't become a father! Imli is pregnant with nt his child..she is kulta.. Blah.. Blah..So who really destroyed imli character??

I don't think Suraj destroyed imli character! Her character already questioned! He just stopped all accusations on her by accepting as his child! Actually here Suraj lost his self respect! Evryone got their benefits! Vivan to because he already have doubts so his doubts got cleared! Imli is living in haveli safely! Chakor gt benefit and loss..if u see her as sister side she is happy her sister saved! As a lover she gt cheated! in all these who lost everything? It is Suraj! He is paying fr that! He only created this mess! Ya he will clear up!

Vivan fr God sake evryone sympathise with him! Really! Now all forgot what he did! Suddenly he also become a hero! Wow! Actually where this prblm started? When Vivan knws he can't be a father who wil tell first? To ur wife r ur sister in law? If he should have shared that truth to that imli rather than Chakor! Now this mess won't be there!

The root cause of this nonsense started there it self! Why people n't blaming Chakor, vivan hiding d truth to imli?Imli have every right to knw d truth! What is d big reason fr hiding ? Is it just because if imli knws d truth she can't handle it right? Then what about it now? She is living happily after knowing d truth?She isn't her life destroyed? Now she is nt getting d pain?

Actually prblm started there! If Vivan told imli truth there itself she can be saved frm all this nonsense! More important Suraj won't be dragged in to this mess!

Suraj accepting and taking wrong decisions! He was bearing that pain, separation.. He got his punishment! My surprise is when chakor did same thing before it became a mahaan act! Now Suraj did it become cheating 😆 previously isn't chakor accepted her marriage with Suraj fr imli child? Didn't she lied Vivan? Why she didn't took help frm Vivan regarding Suraj balckmailing? There there is no reason fr her to nt share with Vivan! Here atleast Suraj have reasons! His name dragged in to it! He have to clear his name! Most importantly chakor believed Vivaan's reports rather than her Sister!

How many loopholes in Suraj character same r fr chakor character to! But because of Suraj past all r highlighting them more and fr chakor Mahan acts they got ignored!

Don't knw how many have remembered previous pregnancy track! When Chakor gt to knw from imli she is pregnant with Suraj child! She didn't even aksed Suraj just went to him blamed him! Forced him to accept it! Where is that Chakor? Now same situation! Imli told her Vivan father! But she trusted Vivan morethan imli! Believed his reports than imli! When I see all this i'm unable to connect with her!

Same goes fr when gun factory issue she believed Ragini and Vivaan than Suraj! Ok she was uspet with Suraj regarding imli! What is the reason fr her to not to believe Suraj in gun factory issue? Is this love? I don't think so without ounce of trust! She may be never loved him! She already told many times to Suraj she will help anyone in his place! If she loved him it is so difficult to move on! So difficult to rub off sindhoor when ur husband is Alive😡! After that scene Then I lost hope on her! No sympathy fr her!

Even yesterday she is used his name when she is haveli! Seriously? She already moved on right! Why she is nt letting him to leave in peace! I just hope Suraj also move on and care a damn about her! If she can find new friends, new mission,new tasks.. Better Suraj also move on!

Anyway Ya it will br great for her to give a chance to ajay! Actually Better fr Suraj ! May be she is great, ideal she can find her ideal guy! But world is nt so small anyway Suraj will also find his kind of girl who will respect him more without calling him with names insulting him infront of all..who can trust him even world is upside down! Who will love him unconditionally and give respect to him ! it's nt like in this world all r ideal people and didn't do any mistakes! People like Suraj also exist they can get their type of girl!

Sorry fr long post!!

I disagree, yes there were already doubts on Imli's character but what did Suraj do? He confirmed those doubts, he let everyone think Imli had an affair with her brother in law how is that helping her? How does that make Imli look in the eyes of her parents, her sister and husband? She is living in the haveli but under what circumstances? Her husband wants nothing to do with her, she is viewed as the mistress of another man!

As for Vivaan no one is forgetting what he has done, there is much for him to pay for but in this situation he is justified in being hurt and angry. What man wouldn't be? Even if Vivaan had been honest with Imli what would have changed? Imli still got pregnant and Vivaan is still under the belief he cannot have kids, the truth would have changed nothing.

As for Chakor it was not her place to tell her sister about Vivaan, she is not at fault for whatever happened. The only person responsible here is Suraj, Suraj made matters worse by lying. I would have understood his POV had he made a decision on impulse but he did not. Suraj could have easily been honest with everyone, most importantly his wife but he chose not to why? Chakor was ready to believe Suraj, she was ready to give him the benefit of doubt because she LOVED him. It is ridiculous that Suraj expects Chakor to understand him when he fails to understand the ramifications of what he has done. Life is not a game, you do not play with the lives of people and expect everything to go back to normal.

Originally posted by: ipkrr

Amen..We can all agree that Suraj and Chakor are better off without each other. Suraj fans and those who find him unbearable at the moment will both be happy! Bring on the new story.

Good luck to Suraj in finding a paragon who will understand him when he keeps Imli with him in his room. But then there are so many in this forum who are so understanding of the situation - I would not be surprised if he did. We are all so different 😊

@Mandy

Chakor always show so much authority on Sooraj,it was always there and same can apply to Sooraj too.

Originally posted by: sriarshi

@Bold : Just a small correction. Suraj didn't destroyed imli's character! After imli told about her pregnancy.. Vivan revealed his impotency.. Then he dragged her to infront of all her family and village people.. Then he told he can't become a father! Imli is pregnant with nt his child..she is kulta.. Blah.. Blah..So who really destroyed imli character??

I don't think Suraj destroyed imli character! Her character already questioned! He just stopped all accusations on her by accepting as his child! Actually here Suraj lost his self respect! Evryone got their benefits! Vivan to because he already have doubts so his doubts got cleared! Imli is living in haveli safely! Chakor gt benefit and loss..if u see her as sister side she is happy her sister saved! As a lover she gt cheated! in all these who lost everything? It is Suraj! He is paying fr that! He only created this mess! Ya he will clear up!

Vivan fr God sake evryone sympathise with him! Really! Now all forgot what he did! Suddenly he also become a hero! Wow! Actually where this prblm started? When Vivan knws he can't be a father who wil tell first? To ur wife r ur sister in law? If he should have shared that truth to that imli rather than Chakor! Now this mess won't be there!

The root cause of this nonsense started there it self! Why people n't blaming Chakor, vivan hiding d truth to imli?Imli have every right to knw d truth! What is d big reason fr hiding ? Is it just because if imli knws d truth she can't handle it right? Then what about it now? She is living happily after knowing d truth?She isn't her life destroyed? Now she is nt getting d pain?

Actually prblm started there! If Vivan told imli truth there itself she can be saved frm all this nonsense! More important Suraj won't be dragged in to this mess!

Suraj accepting and taking wrong decisions! He was bearing that pain, separation.. He got his punishment! My surprise is when chakor did same thing before it became a mahaan act! Now Suraj did it become cheating😆previously isn't chakor accepted her marriage with Suraj fr imli child? Didn't she lied Vivan? Why she didn't took help frm Vivan regarding Suraj balckmailing? There there is no reason fr her to nt share with Vivan! Here atleast Suraj have reasons! His name dragged in to it! He have to clear his name! Most importantly chakor believed Vivaan's reports rather than her Sister!

How many loopholes in Suraj character same r fr chakor character to! But because of Suraj past all r highlighting them more and fr chakor Mahan acts they got ignored!

Don't knw how many have remembered previous pregnancy track! When Chakor gt to knw from imli she is pregnant with Suraj child! She didn't even aksed Suraj just went to him blamed him! Forced him to accept it! Where is that Chakor? Now same situation! Imli told her Vivan father! But she trusted Vivan morethan imli! Believed his reports than imli! When I see all this i'm unable to connect with her!

Same goes fr when gun factory issue she believed Ragini and Vivaan than Suraj! Ok she was uspet with Suraj regarding imli! What is the reason fr her to not to believe Suraj in gun factory issue? Is this love? I don't think so without ounce of trust! She may be never loved him! She already told many times to Suraj she will help anyone in his place! If she loved him it is so difficult to move on! So difficult to rub off sindhoor when ur husband is Alive😡! After that scene Then I lost hope on her! No sympathy fr her!

Even yesterday she is used his name when she is haveli! Seriously? She already moved on right! Why she is nt letting him to leave in peace! I just hope Suraj also move on and care a damn about her! If she can find new friends, new mission,new tasks.. Better Suraj also move on!

Anyway Ya it will br great for her to give a chance to ajay! Actually Better fr Suraj ! May be she is great, ideal she can find her ideal guy! But world is nt so small anyway Suraj will also find his kind of girl who will respect him more without calling him with names insulting him infront of all..who can trust him even world is upside down! Who will love him unconditionally and give respect to him ! it's nt like in this world all r ideal people and didn't do any mistakes! People like Suraj also exist they can get theirtype of girl!

Sorry fr long post!!

very well said sri,it was vivaan who destroyed his wife's character deliberately in front of all the villagers!!because of him the villagers insulted her humiliated n threw her out..that moron deserves no sympathy!!he is an asshole n I can never feel sorry for such a pathetic n low-minded person.suraj on the other hand tried helping her out,took the blame upon himself,her character was already destroyed by her so called husband n her own people!..when they all were sending her to the mental asylum,Suraj stopped them by taking the blame,it wasn't a sensible act at all,but was there even a single person there who was going to believe imli?!..Suraj has gained nothing out of it,yet he is willing to take up the responsibility,n I love him for that.though I still consider his decision wrong in not telling his wife who deserved to know the most!moreover,there could have been other ways to help imli out,but I see it as the writers choosing the most stupid n disgusting track for sukor's separation!!..now Suraj should stop mourning n do some work or atleast try to solve imli's pregnancy issue in order to clear her n his tarnished image!

@sriarshi

@Mandy Yes Suraj needs lots of growing up do to and most importantly he needs to stop portraying himself as victim in this situation. If he is suffering then its because of his wrong decision. As of now I don't see him as the man who deserves to be called Male Lead. He needs to correct himself and his mentality about marriage & Chakor and unless that happens I think Suraj and Chakor should stay separated. Many people in our society expect a wife to carry the symbol of marriage always no matter what & a wife is expected to honour the vows of marriage even if the husband fails to do so. But when it comes to husbands rules are different. Suraj can get cozy with his ex-lover in the car's back seat, Suraj can share his room with Imli, Suraj can lie to Chakor, Suraj can claim he cheated on Chakor & made imli pregnant, Suraj can't tell the truth because of his ego, Suraj can risk his marriage to lessen his guilt, Suraj can do anything but if Chakor decides to leave him for her self-respect then her love is not true and all. Chakor trusted him unconditionally and that's why she asked him if he was lying to save Imli. But its the great Suraj who presented a disgusting picture of infidelity in front of her. Then he expects unconditional love & support from her. The whole situation has no logic. May be that's why ever other day we are getting a new reason behind his horrendous decision. Even in real life no one is perfect but I don't think this level of stupidity should be tolerated by anyone. I guess I am not among those girls who can tolerate and support her husband & stay with him if he claims repeatedly he made his ex-lover/SIL pregnant & cheated on his wife very much consciously. If Suraj needs someone who can provide unconditional support to him no matter what then IMO he does not need a wife he needs a doormat just like Imli is a doormat to Vivaan. The Imli Devi who will support her bachuva's papa no matter what he does or how he treats her.