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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks dear for this detailed post.
Few of your points are same as mine.

The problem is that will the CV bring a closure to this child topic in near future.

We all know that Chakor can help her ennemy in need, so can go to any extent for the people she loves. And she has proved these two points through Suraj.

Vivaan is someone who comes to a conclusion with the things which is presented to him and Imli know that by now.

Imli, the girl who lived with her parents for all these years.
Had few advantages being a bandhuva compared to others.
Selfish or self centred when time comes.
Was with Suraj since childhood.
Know him well but not fully.
Knowing that her relationship with Vivaan is like a dancing girl on a rope, she has to know what consequences her action can have on her married-love life.
Her feelings for her unborn child is accepted as a mother.
But talking about "how it would have been now if this & that?" is the main problem.
She has taken a decision. She is living with Vivaan after declaring her love for him...
Even after all this, she talks about 'IF & ELSE" which shows she is unstable over her decisions(lots of examples in her past life before marriage.)

Suraj love for Chakor is not just from bhandhuva track.
It started since a long before.
The place of Chakor in Suraj's life can't be replaced by anyone.
But he could have talked more maturely with Imli making her understand of their places now in each-others life by keeping a distance between them, just with friendly hugs and not more.
He has felt responsable for child death and Imli's miseries but that doesn't make him tell the exact nb of days of child age IF their child was alive, without a second of hesitation.

It is as if he is always thinking about their child.

CVs should have thought about how 2 ppl who were ex-flames should behave when alone in case like this? As their life and perspectives were different from what it is now.
I think they just want us to go crazy.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: maithu_

Thanks dear for this detailed post.

Few of your points are same as mine.

The problem is that will the CV bring a closure to this child topic in near future.

We all know that Chakor can help her ennemy in need, so can go to any extent for the people she loves. And she has proved these two points through Suraj.

Vivaan is someone who comes to a conclusion with the things which is presented to him and Imli know that by now.

Imli, the girl who lived with her parents for all these years.
Had few advantages being a bandhuva compared to others.
Selfish or self centred when time comes.
Was with Suraj since childhood.
Know him well but not fully.
Knowing that her relationship with Vivaan is like a dancing girl on a rope, she has to know what consequences her action can have on her married-love life.
Her feelings for her unborn child is accepted as a mother.
But talking about "how it would have been now if this & that?" is the main problem.
She has taken a decision. She is living with Vivaan after declaring her love for him...
Even after all this, she talks about 'IF & ELSE" which shows she is unstable over her decisions(lots of examples in her past life before marriage.)

Suraj love for Chakor is not just from bhandhuva track.
It started since a long before.
The place of Chakor in Suraj's life can't be replaced by anyone.
But he could have talked more maturely with Imli making her understand of their places now in each-others life by keeping a distance between them, just with friendly hugs and not more.
He has felt responsable for child death and Imli's miseries but that doesn't make him tell the exact nb of days of child age IF their child was alive, without a second of hesitation.

It is as if he is always thinking about their child.

CVs should have thought about how 2 ppl who were ex-flames should behave when alone in case like this? As their life and perspectives were different from what it is now.
I think they just want us to go crazy.


Sorry I don't watch this serial I don't like a male leads who are Casanovas slept with different woman and here his f**kmate is her wifes sister which is illicit while females are virgin bechari dukki maari Here imli slept with a single man then also got married this was first in television I was thinking how CVS could show a non virgin girl could be happily married no it can't be😲 while suraj is a male so sleeping increase s his experience virgin girls are students while males should be teachers u don't know .
Sleeping is so cool for men.
blaming imli for everything is not done in any case Suraj is married too . u know I don't know which ex flames sleep embracing each other is too much
about Vivian he has right to suspect and he is male too so he will bring new girls too. Dont worry Imli will be then running after suraj it won't be if suraj has showed her about their relationship one should always say no on first attempt in a polite or else don't blame others. This is an important lesson to every girls say no on first attempt dont shout be polite .U know how one becomes desperate if left by someone u love specially if ur first love is nearby. So imli running after suraj is just a wait.
Lastly , he thinks about the child he feels guilty about imli but does it mean chakor is just a rekindle or replacement of imli he lies , sleeps embracing each other. Sisters sleepmate is chakors husband simple as that so he. Should not do anything or talk about how they would have been or sleep with her in any form which will only create intimacy problems. If they feel like that then divorce chakor be happy guilty annything just live that chakor alone as it is said it is better to have peace then happiness
Edited by aamias - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#13
U r welcome I also wanted to vent out my frustration regarding infidelity and Casanova male leads specially this kind of serial after reading the written update only my blood boiled I don't know what happened to those who watched it
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: aamias

U r welcome I also wanted to vent out my frustration regarding infidelity and Casanova male leads specially this kind of serial after reading the written update only my blood boiled I don't know what happened to those who watched it


I agree with you!

I will not blame only Imli, Suraj is also at fault!

I will not say that there will be sound produced only with one stick.
Bcs to produce a sound, there should be two sticks, two objects or two elements.

Same applies to human in all conditions and circumstances.
One person can't be a reason for a problem.

I was just telling that when Imli brought the topic of their child and if-possible-marriage Suraj could have handled in a better way. That's what I mean by maturely.

Moreover it's a soap, so I will take it a little litter!
If it was someone I know in real who jumps from one sis to other I would have killed him by now even if he have repented!
Edited by maithu_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: Etna_Dia

I agree with your points, Rabia. I have found nothing improper with them discussing the baby. I regarded it as a good thing because I hated to see how they were both having fun as nothing has ever happened when their baby died just a few months ago.

The eye lock and the whole "hot" atmosphere were created to produce confusion. They are not going to tell us just like that if Suraj is the father or not. They imagine it will be fun to keep us guessing if they did the thing or not. But I don't suppose they realize how much damage they've cost to Suraj's character. If this had taken place before he would have fallen in love with Chakor, maybe it would have been acceptable, but now there is no excuse for him to be so "lovely" with his ex.

Suraj is a lost cause for me since he was the father of the first kid. And nothing else matters to me, it will not affect me if they get another hero. I hope they bring one who has been vaccinated against Imli so that he will be immune to her charms. Chakor should never allow him to come close to her sister, she is a very dangerous woman. They can try for a twin brother of Suraj, that will be fun.



I never ever wanted Suraj not to be the father of Imli's child...it never really mattered to me.for if it would have been the case,then Sukor love story also must have been under the category of "CRYSTAL CLEAR LIVES"...characters,,,😳

I AM AMONGST THE ONE WHO PREFERS A WAYWARD,ERRATIC REAL LOVE STORY WITH CONFLICTING EMOTIONS...OVER A ROUTINE SUGAR-HONEY SOAKED FAIRYTALE...😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: Khushi_Dillse

Aaahhh that's my girl...come on give me a hug darling...

I agree with your some points...I told you yesterday imli and suraj conversation (I don't like there name togather imraj 🥱) is healthy convo between two best frds dekho imli and suraj talk about satta, power, chakor, imli's vivaan, tina and child...so what kabhi kabhi wo sari baaten aap apne best friend se hi kar sakte ho jo aap apne life partner se bhi share nahi kar sakte like chakor and vivaan, vivaan shared his secret to chakor not imli k he is impotent...Or waha to chakor side Hugging him and console him...tab to kisi ne kuch nahi kaha...I know somebody say imli and suraj has past but both not love each other at the time like vivaan and chakor...I too hate there eyelock but for me imli is not smiling there she is scared and she want protection from suraj and suraj console her that's it...that's not mean I like imli I too hate her coz for ne she is most selfish character in udaan she want attention everytime from everyone...she switch her side anytime jaha use fayada lage...uss useless vivaan se bhi zyada bekar...



oh Khushi...aa jhappi paa yaar...🤗
Kya karoon,dil ke haathon majboor😳,kitna try kiya usey hate karne ka,but nahi kar paayi...


"KAMAAL KA THA WOH SHAKS,JO EK PAL MEIN ZINDAGI UJAAD GAYAA,,,,🥺
RAAZ KI BAAT HAI...DIL USSE NARAAZ HO HI NAHI PAA RAHAA.."
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: meshmesh

I didn't think they were two lovers lamenting their past, but parents of a deceased child mourning his death. If you had two divorced parents for example aren't they allowed to remember their dead child together?


There was nothing romantic not even personal about their talk, how can that be unfaithful to Chakor? What do people consider old lovers reminiscing old times? He was holding her hand because she was scared and sad, nothing else.

In one of the olvs he was going to confess to Chakor just Imli announces her pregnancy why should I doubt his intentions and feelings?

And about the new baby, it's one thing thinking he is still in love with Imli, it's a completely different thing thinking he'll sleep with a married woman. I believe in his redemption, he wouldn't do that.

Since his character turned positive, Suraj has always cared for Chakor, the only thought he had on his mind when he was tied to the tree assuming KN will kill him is to ask her to take of herself. But now when he's consoling Imli his former right hand woman and the mother of his child it's a betrayal of Chakor?

And by the way, I didn't like the eyelock or her sleeping on his shoulder but I'll need more than that to think he's still in love with Imli.

People have different views and perspectives, no problem. I'll go with the narrative of the writers without second guessing them or projecting my own assumptions on every single scene and so far I don't see that Suraj doesn't love Chakor.

I'd say the best thing is not to discuss it but to take sometime off and then watch the whole sequence including this Monday's part and then see how YOU FEEL, because if you don't feel ok with it no discussion will ever change your mind; it will just make you angrier. People will always be partial to those who share similar views. It's a positive feedback loop that just confirms your own views; the more divisive the issue, the stronger the effect.



I just loved this one...👍🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: maithu_

Thanks dear for this detailed post.

Few of your points are same as mine.

The problem is that will the CV bring a closure to this child topic in near future.

We all know that Chakor can help her ennemy in need, so can go to any extent for the people she loves. And she has proved these two points through Suraj.

Vivaan is someone who comes to a conclusion with the things which is presented to him and Imli know that by now.

Imli, the girl who lived with her parents for all these years.
Had few advantages being a bandhuva compared to others.
Selfish or self centred when time comes.
Was with Suraj since childhood.
Know him well but not fully.
Knowing that her relationship with Vivaan is like a dancing girl on a rope, she has to know what consequences her action can have on her married-love life.
Her feelings for her unborn child is accepted as a mother.
But talking about "how it would have been now if this & that?" is the main problem.
She has taken a decision. She is living with Vivaan after declaring her love for him...
Even after all this, she talks about 'IF & ELSE" which shows she is unstable over her decisions(lots of examples in her past life before marriage.)

Suraj love for Chakor is not just from bhandhuva track.
It started since a long before.
The place of Chakor in Suraj's life can't be replaced by anyone.
But he could have talked more maturely with Imli making her understand of their places now in each-others life by keeping a distance between them, just with friendly hugs and not more.
He has felt responsable for child death and Imli's miseries but that doesn't make him tell the exact nb of days of child age IF their child was alive, without a second of hesitation.

It is as if he is always thinking about their child.

CVs should have thought about how 2 ppl who were ex-flames should behave when alone in case like this? As their life and perspectives were different from what it is now.
I think they just want us to go crazy.


@bold black...
Best thing I love about Suraj...the place of Chakor in his life and his feelings regarding her...UNQUESTIONABLE...


@ITALICS...
EXACTLY MY PROBLEM...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#19
Nice post, Agree with you on some points😊
I don't find anything wrong in the whole suraj imli conversion
I started watching udaan after suraj become bandhua & the old episodes i am watching now is the marriage track, so I am not much affected by imli suraj past connection😊
I don't get involved with serial characters because at the end of the day they are just fictional characters
Bashing characters is fine but bashing actors is big no for me
In the last serial the fans bashed characters & actors to such extent that the leads quit twitter & other similar sites. I was not involved in bashing but the negativity affected me

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with your Rabia... wanted to watch today's episode first before commenting...but as i've said earlier... whatever is being shown is for the preparation of the future track... coz this track wasn't given much importance or highlight but will surely have an impact in future & i'm sure of it...

regarding the eye lock...surely the dialogue writer was finished with his dialogues so said ok let's finish the episode with imraaj staring at each other... i didn't find it a romantic stare but a guilty stare😕 looks like they kept holding each other's hand till they didn't fall asleep & that's why they ended up on each other's shoulders...🤣

just relax & forget all this until it's brought up in the future episodes to create misunderstanding between Sukor & Imvaan... all the best for your exams...

ok dear, i'll be honest now... i just kept that rofling emoticon above just like that... actually even my blood is boiling... but i'm trying my best to keep cool & just watch it for the sake of Sukor... no matter what i still love sukor together... don't know why😆

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