Originally posted by: Etna_Dia
@Sumo, I don't think that by letting Vivaan go Chakor did a big sacrifice because Vivaan was already in love with Imli, but he was afraid to tell her and break her heart. She actually did herself a favor. Who wants to be in a selfless marriage with your husband loving your sister and longing for her? It was for her own good that she let him go.
Then again with the first child, she was OK to go publicly and to announce that her husband has impregnated her sister, but now when Suraj is doing it, she is no longer OK because she is in love with Suraj? I think that we have some double standards here. Now it's about her self respect but what about Suraj's self respect back then? What if he was innocent, what proves did she had except her sister's word? She should have waited and discuss the matter in private, not wash the dirty laundry in front of all the servants. Again, she did it only to manipulate Vivaan. She tarnished the image of Vivaan, Imli and Suraj in one shot just to determine Vivaan not to go away and divorce Imli.
I still feel she was very cruel with Vivaan the way she kept on pushing and pushing him to accept Imli. OK, she was not available anymore because Suraj was blackmailing her, but Vivaan had every right to leave and rebuild his life with another girl, maybe one with no past. If Vivaan had left to London back then maybe he would have still been the good man that he was.
Yes, Chakor is suffering too much but is not like she didn't pave her road to this. She should have let Imli payed for her deeds back then, she should not have manipulated Vivaan and she shouldn't have fallen for her sister's ex without explanations from his side regarding his past and without proper apologizes for what he did to her. I feel her pain, but she also has to take a step back and look at what led to her current situation! Otherwise she will do the same mistakes over and over again. At least, this is how I see her character and her journey.
I have never really understood Vivaan's love for both the ladies.
Incase of Chakor, it didn't even take him a second to doubt Chakor for the bride swap in spite of knowing both Suraj and Chakor so well.. Yes, she forced him into accepting Imli, but he did have the option to carry on with his London plans, but out of his immense love for Chakor, he decided to stay back and give father's name to Imli's baby.
If he really loved Chakor to this extent, why was it so easy for him to move on with Imli?
If he could move on so easily, was it really love for Chakor or mere infatuation?
And if he didn't love her, how can we hold Chakor guilty of snatching his love which never existed?
Even with Imli, I am not convinced of his love for her. The confrontation had taken place a day prior, it was the next day that he had dragged his wife to the basti and humiliated her publicly. It wasn't a sudden outburst at the basti. Yes he felt betrayed, but the public humiliation was uncalled for. He could have directly dropped her at her parents place in his car, but he decided to drag her along the basti creating a scene. Would a husband who loved his wife, treat her in this manner? Is she his wife, his love? or his private property? At times it feels as if, the only person he loves is he, himself.
Yes even I never liked the scene where she publicly announced Imli's pregnancy, claiming the baby to be Suraj's, that too without verifying. She was wrong then.
The difference between the two seems, then it was self-respect at stake, now along with self respect there's love, trust, understanding and the relationship itself which is at stake.
She was wrong in blindly believing and shielding Imli as well.
She was also wrong in falling in love without clearing her insecurities.
Yes, hope she learns her lessons.
Incase of Vivaan, maybe we can agree to disagree..
Rest all agreed.. 👍🏼
CID
