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Eatifi

@Eatifi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Hello everyone,sitting ideally watching some old episodes on Voot,I struck on a random thought,few queries and confusions occupied me,thats why thought to ask everyone in the forum as well...

Some months back,when I was not a member of the forum,maybe in august,that it would be very unfair with Chakor if she ends up with Suraj...considering his character and past...[I don't exactly remember that who exactly raised this topic]

Its for all to see,that 'the bandhua track'...is getting on everybody nerves,but it is the complete 'shudhhikaran' of Suraj.

Karma is being way too harsh on him.The man is being punished for every wrong doing of him in past...in fact the poor soul is even getting punishment for things he had'nt done...

But one sin of him is still been left...'The alleged molestation of Chakor'...

We all desperately wish discussion between the two regarding this and a really heartfelt apology from Suraj...so is that expected anytime soon

This thing is a FACT that ..."YES Imli was pregnant with Suraj's child"...and friends their is really NO WAY to deny this and its high time that we also make peace with the fact rather then basking on a faint glimmer of hope that one day this thing will be shown that Suraj was not the 'bachva' daddy...

So my questions for everyone is-

1.Do you all also think that Suraj is unworthy of Chakor?

2.Is a heart felt apology regarding the rape attempt expected?

3.What if nothing,regarding this matter is discussed...Can you all forgive Suraj for that?

4.Does this fact that "Suraj once slept with a girl,which resulted in pregnancy" makes you uneasy of their love story?

5.Can you all relate with Chakor if she,knowing everything about his past continues with him?

Now I really want to know everybody opinion regarding these questions,,,,,so this one is humble request for all...PLEASE DO ANSWER...and this request especially goes out for the silent members,break your silence...😊

Edited by KUTUR - 8 years ago

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@Eatifi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Hey Guys just avoid the other post with the same name...

sorry but I am a complete 'gadbad machine"😔

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aminica

@aminica

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

I think that it is imposible to fall in love with someone who tried to rape you it is something that can not be forgiven by the victim but maybe there are some exeptations the fact that suraj sleept whit a girl snd that resulted whit a pregnancy is something that hapens and its acceptabel but the fact that it was with her sister is omg very bad i cant understand that someone can fall in love with a guy like that... But my opinion on these facts dont change the fact that i love sukor jodi i love their chemestry i and i am eagerly waiting for their love confession sorry for my english writing its bad but i hope you get what i am trying to say😊

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Yuvika

@Yuvika_15

Moderator

+ 9

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: KUTUR

So my questions for everyone is-
1.Do you all also think that Suraj is unworthy of Chakor?
2.Is a heart felt apology expected?
3.What if nothing,regarding this matter is discussed...Can you all forgive Suraj for that?
4.Does this fact that "Suraj once slept with a girl,which resulted in pregnancy" makes you uneasy of their love story?
5.Can you all relate with Chakor if she,knowing everything about his past continues with him?

Now I really want to know everybody opinion regarding these questions,,,,,so this one is humble request for all...PLEASE DO ANSWER...and this request especially goes out for the silent members,break your silence...😊

I don't think suraj is unworthy of chakor... as he's a changed man now and has supported chakor during the drug accusation track and now chakor is supporting him. They both are complete opposites which makes them a strong pair - while suraj is physically strong and thinks from his mind, chakor is someone that's mentally very strong and always makes decisions based on her heart - an example of this is how villagers have time and time again betrayed her trust by not believing in her or supporting her, but she's continued to help them in need - only because of her emotions... this is something suraj would never do. Same goes for imvaan - imli is like suraj - she uses her mind - she and suraj knew they had to play KN and ragini by using their mind and pretending to be on their side. While vivaan is someone that like chakor who makes decisions based on his feelings... if he used his mind he would play dirty and take revenge on tejaswini by not helping suraj just like she took revenge on ranjana by attacking her son, but vivaan didn't do that - he gave importance to his heart rather than his mind and helped sukor. so overall the pairings fit well as one partner's weakness is the other's strength which is why as a team they work well together.

while I am not particularly happy with the fact that imli and suraj were going to have a baby, it should not be something that continues to gain importance in their lives now... its a matter of the past and both have moved on. One thing I feel the CVs should consider going back to is Suraj's rape attempt - he owes chakor an apology for that.. it should be something the CVs approach with great sensitivity and should definitely not ignore it.

chakor falling for a man who got her sis pregnant is nothing new on TV... its been shown before in other shows and some have even gone a step further where the male lead has had kids with both sisters... its difficult to accept but here the kids unfortunately not around so with time I think the audience will forget it...

suraj and imli's so called LS was a matter of the past and it should remain that way and not affect sukor or imvaan's present or future. And personally I believe sukor LS should be acceptable since it does reflect reality in that how many couples in real life can truly say they were each other's first and true love? not many some do go through their fair share of break ups and heart breaks before finding the true one and that's what sukor would have done. having said that, going after ur sister's ex in real life would be so wrong, I mean going after ur best friend's ex seems so morally wrong that going after ur sister's ex would just mean taking it to a whole next level. But here she was deceived into marrying him so chakor's situation cannot reflect reality in that way... it would have been wrong if say she wasn't married to suraj and then fell for him after all that he did with her sister - but here the marriage brings a different angle to it, thereby making the viewers look at it from a different angle.

Edited by Yuvika_15 - 8 years ago

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: aminica
I think that it is imposible to fall in love with someone who tried to rape you it is something that can not be forgiven by the victim but maybe there are some exeptations the fact that suraj sleept whit a girl snd that resulted whit a pregnancy is something that hapens and its acceptabel but the fact that it was with her sister is omg very bad i cant understand that someone can fall in love with a guy like that... But my opinion on these facts dont change the fact that i love sukor jodi i love their chemestry i and i am eagerly waiting for their love confession sorry for my english writing its bad but i hope you get what i am trying to say😊

I do get you dear and thanks for answering...😊

welcome to the forum...🤗

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

😆

I myself forgot to answer-

1.I can never ever think that Suraj can be unworthy of Chakor,their jodi,the combination of Suraj's strenght and Chakor's brains is a combination that even their foes dread

They are made for each other,they fit into each other like Jigsaw puzzles in all aspects...

2.well nothing can be said about it coz the cvs live in an altogether another world...sometimes i think it will be shown,but then many instances have been passed on lately when the issue could have been raised between the two,but nothing discussed,as if the two don't even remember that this had happened!

3.I know after reading this everyone would like to completely thrash me but I don't know Why?...just Why?...being a girl myself I cant hate him for that,and I have already forgiven him for that,months back...!

4.No,this fact never really bothered me and I have said this many a times before that for me this fact is real,intense and very deep beautification of their story...

5.I can completely relate with Chakor,even it was not a fiction,it was for real...

Its would be very unfair if anyone's choice would be judged liked that,a relation between two persons can only be understood by THE TWO and no one,I repeat no one...what she seeks and gets in him,can only be felt and understood by her,ONLY HER...

Edited by KUTUR - 8 years ago

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Yuvika_15

I don't think suraj is unworthy of chakor... as he's a changed man now and has supported chakor during the drug accusation track and now chakor is supporting him. They both are complete opposites which makes them a strong pair - while suraj is physically strong and thinks from his mind, chakor is someone that's mentally very strong and always makes decisions based on her heart - an example of this is how villagers have time and time again betrayed her trust by not believing in her or supporting her, but she's continued to help them in need - only because of her emotions... this is something suraj would never do. Same goes for imvaan - imli is like suraj - she uses her mind - she and suraj knew they had to play KN and ragini by using their mind and pretending to be on their side. While vivaan is someone that like chakor who makes decisions based on his feelings... if he used his mind he would play dirty and take revenge on tejaswini by not helping suraj just like she took revenge on ranjana by attacking her son, but vivaan didn't do that - he gave importance to his heart rather than his mind and helped sukor. so overall the pairings fit well as one partner's weakness is the other's strength which is why as a team they work well together.

while I am not particularly happy with the fact that imli and suraj were going to have a baby, it should not be something that continues to gain importance in their lives now... its a matter of the past and both have moved on. One thing I feel the CVs should consider going back to is Suraj's rape attempt - he owes chakor an apology for that.. it should be something the CVs approach with great sensitivity and should definitely not ignore it.

chakor falling for a man who got her sis pregnant is nothing new on TV... its been shown before in other shows and some have even gone a step further where the male lead has had kids with both sisters... its difficult to accept but here the kids unfortunately not around so with time I think the audience will forget it...

suraj and imli's so called LS was a matter of the past and it should remain that way and not affect sukor or imvaan's present or future. And personally I believe sukor LS should be acceptable since it does reflect reality in that how many couples in real life can truly say they were each other's first and true love? not many some do go through their fair share of break ups and heart breaks before finding the true one and that's what sukor would have done. having said that, going after ur sister's ex in real life would be so wrong, I mean going after ur best friend's ex seems so morally wrong that going after ur sister's ex would just mean taking it to a whole next level. But here she was deceived into marrying him so chakor's situation cannot reflect reality in that way... it would have been wrong if say she wasn't married to suraj and then fell for him after all that he did with her sister - but here the marriage brings a different angle to it, thereby making the viewers look at it from a different angle.

Thanx for answering..😊

Completely agree with every word of yours👍🏼

yes Suraj's rape attempt must be dealt sensitively...

well one question,i did'nt get that,Which other show have showed the male lead having kids with other women,I can't remember any...?🤔

Edited by KUTUR - 8 years ago

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FatedSoulMates

@FatedSoulMates

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

1.Do you all also think that Suraj is unworthy of Chakor?
Suraj was completely wrong for Chakor in the past yess coz he was a very bad person but not anymore so no I don't think he is unworthy of Chakor. Also as long as Chakor does not think like that its okay 😆

2.Is a heart felt apology expected?
A heartfelt apology need not always be just that word 'Sorry'. I choose to believe everytime Chakor chooses to run into Surajs' arms now to feel safe or for comfort is her having forgiven him & that came about after he showed her that he could be trusted. Also Suraj willing to move heaven & earth for Chakor's izzat is a sorry too. So no I don't really want or expect a full fledged scene with him begging for forgiveness baaki CV babas ki marzi

3.What if nothing,regarding this matter is discussed...Can you all forgive Suraj for that?
I already have due to the above given reasons. Also in the show itself Chakor was never shown to be really pissed at Suraj for this abhorrent act of his. The next day the fool gives her a bouquet saying sorry meri nayee naveli dulhan & she shows him chaaku that he better keep his distance.. bas ho gaya. Its the makers dimag ka locha that they used such a serious issue such as molestation or attempted rape for no solid reason in the show

4.Does this fact that "Suraj once slept with a girl,which resulted in pregnancy" makes you uneasy of their love story?
I think I might be the only one or 1 of the few that is not bothered by the whole Imli/pregnancy issue. It was sheer torture to watch that track coz of the stupid way in which it was all put forth but it still does not bother me. But biology cracking its silly jokes with unwanted pregnancies in TV shows is just that silly. It would've made me uneasy if Suraj had set out to seduce Imli for revenge or for fun but it was 2 idiots getting drunk & landing up where?? of course on THE GHAAS.. THE place to be in Udaan for romance 😆

5.Can you all relate with Chakor if she,knowing everything about his past continues with him?
I try not to relate with anything that happens in TV shows coz I am no Jagat Maata & Suraj would've been dead 10 times over if it were up to me or I would have smacked every single bastiwala on the head at least once.. God forbid if I ever even looked at a selfish dude like Vivaan. But as far as seeing it as a viewer.. LOVING SuKor so yeah I am fine with it coz Surajs' past is just that his past

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Sruti

@vs215blooms

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

1. I don't think suraj is unworthy to chakor. Suraj supports chakor and taking care of her always, suraj changed a lot. He is not the one who hates chakor and bully her. Suraj is ready to bear all humiliation to protect chakor. They are strong in their own ways and having own attitude.

2. Yes it is. Suraj must apology chakor. He tries to molest chakor. We can't go easy with it. It is better cvs clear this means. Bt nowadays suraj reaction towards chakor makes me wow.. He values her more than his own life.

3. I can't forgive him. But jagatmata forgive him. Everything is possible in telly world.

4. All 4 peoples are moved on their life. Imvaan are happily living their life. Imli doesn't have issue on the bachua matter and moved on with vivaan. Then why can't sukor move on their life. Really it is wrong in real life. It seems like suraj and imli forget about that even cvs forget. We fans only always discuss this things. If cvs clear this bachua issue means am very happy with sukor love story. If that bachua is not suraj's it would be amazing. There is no boundary for sukor love story. Cvs please consider this.

-sruthi

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nimmi

@Banjaaran25

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

#10

in real life all the men that i root for in my fantasy land - would be in jail.
from my Dutta to my Sanskaar to my Suraj.
the stories i connect to; the ships i sail in; the men i fall in love with have not connect whatsoever with my real life.
#disclaimer.

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1.Do you all also think that Suraj is unworthy of Chakor?

No! he is yang of her yin.
the way he completes her no one else will.
same goes for her.

2.Is a heart felt apology expected?

Yes.
actions speaks more than words.
but sometimes.. words are needed. they are healers; they are beautiful.. and they last a lifetime... if you mean them.

3.What if nothing,regarding this matter is discussed...Can you all forgive Suraj for that?

He is not mine to forgive. he is chakor's.😆. but yeah.. i would be tad disappointed. *crying like a rudaali*.

4.Does this fact that "Suraj once slept with a girl,which resulted in pregnancy" makes you uneasy of their love story?

my definition and guidelines of morality is slightly twisted. rigid at times. but mostly twisted. i can forgive physical closeness not emotional one.
and the emotional connect he shares with Chakor is priceless. and one of a kind. and that connect is something he shares ONLY with her.

5.Can you all relate with Chakor if she,knowing everything about his past continues with him?

#My disclaimer in the beginning.
i don't relate to any characters. i either love them.
or hate them.
or ff through them.😳

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