Was ayushman mistakes that bad ?

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Was ayushman mistake that bad that pakhi left him ... I think it wasn't that bad

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Posted: 11 years ago
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It may not look that bad, but it's definitely some interesting story telling. What Anshuman did.. has hurt Paakhi's aatma, her soul. A soul is what gives a person their unique identity, their emotions, and it defines their character. By calling her bachalan, and characterless, he has left Pakhi's soul disturbed.


While Pakhi has tried to forgive him with her heart, her soul is not letting her. All the sentiments of forgiveness and acts that he has done reached Pakhi's heart, but not her soul. He has to reach Pakhi's soul for forgiveness. It's a very hard thing to do to reach one's soul.


Pakhi herself is battling her own battle, between her heart and her soul. She wants to go back to her child, but she is not able to. She wants to forgive Anshuman, but she is not able to. It's now up to Anshuman to reach Pakhi's soul and ask it for forgiveness and show his true love and trust for her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shlokandastha

Was ayushman mistake that bad that pakhi left him ... I think it wasn't that bad

I agree But it depends on individuals how he or she takes it.
Life is very strange sometimes a small word can give a lasting impact.
In the present case pakhi very well know that anshuman was victim of circumstances of yesterday and today.
she is in a dilemma and on crossroads. then if somebody comes and pushes you to the other side.u go that side. pakhi was in a vulnerable state . so she made her decision according to anujas advice.

even though the gravity of anshuman's words and behaviour at that particular day was quite unpardonable., But the fact that he lost no time to redeem and commiting to right the wrong makes it not that bad at all.
However the story has taken a turn and it will be interesting to see pakhi's change of stand
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anshuman not only accused her of being badchalan but also put question marks on her whole life and her love by saying she did all that just to defeat him,she wasnt waiting for him but was waiting for revenge.
but Anshuamn really repents what he has done. I understand that Pakhi's hurt, her soul is tormented but why do others have to accuse him so much too. like what anuja did in yesterday's episode. She wasnt even there when Anshuman was growing up to help him come out of his Baba's parchhai but was very quick in putting blame on him that he is like him!! What Anshuman did was due the circumstances present at the moment! Didnt Pakhi herself say that what one does can be due to what a person is going thru!! That explains a women's behavior but not man's????Anshuman needs to work for Pakhi's forgiveness and he will! but till that time, others shud support him and not just make him feel more guilty when he already is!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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to be honest what what he did was wrong I agree but lets see one P made him jealous on this rohan..he was wrong but anshuman reacted the same as any man would..he got this guy coming out from his house had pregnancy report in his hand...ok lets put that aside too he should have trusted her but their relationship was not even concrete

as soon he realised his mistake he was there begging for mercy he got hit almost killed by P brother P ran away, he came to delhi she ran...now to Singapore..come on don't tell me she will raise ayaan by webcam(Anuja was forcing her to do the same mistake as her but making her to move on..)

Anuja yesterday too. she has not met anshuman for 20 years did she ask why, did Pakhi tell her what actually happened, did she tell she made up rohan(who now we find is a real person), made her husband jealous, did she tell anuja how anshuman begged for mercy how his brother hit him, did she tell anuja that Tanya actually planted all this..

I just find.Paakhi did give pareeksha for sure but meaningless(real pareksha is when the going gets tough and to stand ur ground) she decided to come back to the house to prove that tanya was unsuitable.

to be honest, yes anshuman was at fault for sure but so is paakhi she is not some maha devi doing some godly deed, she is a human being who actually messed up as much as anshuman did...and now they both need to work together what is annoying me to heights is all the blame on anshuman's shoulder..try clapping with one hand...doesnt work LOL

The whole anuja blaming anshuman for being his dad and not having his mum's love but come on you were not there to bring him up so ofcourse he will influenced by his father...the whole guilt scenario from the family everyone we meet on anshuman come on already enough of it

as for the soul..it is paakhi self pride that is stopping her from accepting an apology from anshuman..

sorrry for the rant no offence meant but and I do adore these two together and this anshuman guilty long chain of people 😆 phew time to calm down and eat some jalebis😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyZaib

to be honest what what he did was wrong I agree but lets see one P made him jealous on this rohan..he was wrong but anshuman reacted the same as any man would..he got this guy coming out from his house had pregnancy report in his hand...ok lets put that aside too he should have trusted her but their relationship was not even concrete

as soon he realised his mistake he was there begging for mercy he got hit almost killed by P brother P ran away, he came to delhi she ran...now to Singapore..come on don't tell me she will raise ayaan by webcam(Anuja was forcing her to do the same mistake as her but making her to move on..)

Anuja yesterday too. she has not met anshuman for 20 years did she ask why, did Pakhi tell her what actually happened, did she tell she made up rohan(who now we find is a real person), made her husband jealous, did she tell anuja how anshuman begged for mercy how his brother hit him, did she tell anuja that Tanya actually planted all this...

Exactly!Everyone is behaving as if Anshuman is the only one at fault here!They forget to realize that he was a victim of Tanya's conspiracy too!He lost his love as soon he found it and is still begging for her to return, begging not just to her but to everyone!!!The poor guy is trying to make himself now "worth Pakhi" and still doesnt feel good enough!!!Us bechare ke self confidence ki to dhajjiyaan ud rahi hai!!!

I just find.Paakhi did give pareeksha for sure but meaningless(real pareksha is when the going gets tough and to stand ur ground) she decided to come back to the house to prove that tanya was unsuitable.

to be honest, yes anshuman was at fault for sure but so is paakhi she is not some maha devi doing some godly deed, she is a human being who actually messed up as much as anshuman did...and now they both need to work together what is annoying me to heights is all the blame on anshuman's shoulder..try clapping with one hand...doesnt work LOL

The whole anuja blaming anshuman for being his dad and not having his mum's love but come on you were not there to bring him up so ofcourse he will influenced by his father...the whole guilt scenario from the family everyone we meet on anshuman come on already enough of it
My point exactly!!Thank u!!I thot i was the only one thinking that!

as for the soul..it is paakhi self pride that is stopping her from accepting an apology from anshuman..

sorrry for the rant no offence meant but and I do adore these two together and this anshuman guilty long chain of people 😆 phew time to calm down and eat some jalebis😆

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anuja have met only Pakhi and saw her suffering and knew what kind of person she is as she has gone through rough life to reach this point in her Life . Any self respecting woman will react the way Pakhi did . What not she went through in that hoise , was not aware of Anshuman,s intentions and his so called friend Tanya ,whom he has planned to marry . Paakhi came in to his life accidentally . Yes slowly he was being influenced by her selflessness and not ever asking anything in return . Any person will be broken . She went on forgiving him and Anshuman did not know the meaning of love , trust . He is gentleman and was no doubt about that but he only used his mind and very easily Tanya went on manipulating him with guilt factor . When you take a look at past episodes , you find that Anshuman ,s inner conscious was making him low whenever he lied .
As for me ,not an easy job to forgive a person easily whom you have made the center of your universe .
Anuja ,s immediate reaction was that he behaved like his father and anybody will think that , she does not know what Anshuman also gone through the same pain after accusing Pakhi . His crying for Pakhi and telling his mother , ready to do anything to get Pakhi back , convinced Anuja that he is not his father .

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