What is Love?? - Page 6

Here I go with some more lessons on love.......................................

1. I believe that, in a good relationship, partners change and grow together.

2. I believe love is a constant process of discovery and growth.

3. I believe that beginning a relationship is like starting a new journey that promises to be both exciting and challenging.

4. I believe relationships need to be nourished constantly to help weather the ups and downs of life.

5. I believe that in a romantic relationship, just as in a job, both partners should perform their duties and responsibilities according to their "job description".

6. I think it is more interesting to argue than to compromise.

7. I think frequent arguments help bring conflictive issues into the open and keep the relationship healthy.

8. I think taking a relationship too seriously can spoil it; that's why I like partners who have a sense of humor.

Finally my sweetoes........There is no fixed solution for this love-marriage problem, like chemistry everyone has to find their own solutions.Everyone has to understand on their own, what they want & how they are going to handle it.

I can deal with everything but if u r being cheated then tho maar bhagao

Usne mujhse bewafai ke, shayad usme kisi aur ke liye wafa chupi ho, jo dard usne mujhe diya hai usme shayad kisi aur ke liye dawa Chupi ho

Originally posted by: vidya0906

Mink a very good analysis on true love. Pyaar ke baare mein advice koi tumse puche.

Well love is also:

Jaadu hai nasha hai, madhoshiyaan hai, tujko bhulake ab jaaoo kaha,

dekthi hai jis tarah se teri nazare muje, main khud ko chupaao kaha

Jaadu hai nasha hai.............

👏👏👏

Beautiful, my dear Mink 👏 I agree with your views but I think the problem comes in when only partner understands these and the other doesn't. What to do then?! 😕

Oh and another thing about love -

When poverty comes knocking on the Door
Love flies out of the window !!

I'm afraid this is more true in this highly commercialised world than the love shown between the 2 Ds. But then they do say never say die.... so please do continue living in hope!

Gulabo, If the other partner does not understand then he or she is not compatible to you forget & move on.

Couples usually start out being physically attracted and having similar interests and values. But eventually, they may notice something missing in the relationship. That something is usually story compatibility. A couple whose stories don't match is like two characters on one stage acting out different plays--they may look right at first glance, but there is an underlying lack of coordination to their interaction. Best ex Disha & Inder, they thought they loved each other but ??? We all know the ans. to this.

Two people may have similar outlooks, but if one longs to be rescued like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman and the other wants a partnership like the lawyers on the television show The Practice, the relationship may not go very far. In contrast, two people with a war story like the bickering spouses in Who's Afraid of Virginia Wolf may seem wildly incompatible to their friends, but their shared need for combat may be what keeps their love alive. There goes Dk & D's love story!!

Marriage or relationship requires three elements: intimacy, passion and commitment. Different loving relationships have different combinations of these elements. Complete love requires all three elements. Most important to a healthy, happy relationship is that both partners have compatible stories--that is, compatible expectations. People complain that they keep ending up with the same kind of bad partner, that they are unlucky in love. In reality, luck has nothing to do with it: They are subconsciously finding people to play out their love stories, or foisting their stories on the people they meet.

No one story guarantees success, our treating symptoms rather than causes. If we're dissatisfied with our partner, we should look not at his or her faults, but at how he or she fits into our expectations.

Enough abt love,😉

Mink

Woah..that's some pretty deep stuff you've written 👏

Originally posted by: mink

Here I go with some more lessons on love.......................................

1. I believe that, in a good relationship, partners change and grow together.

2. I believe love is a constant process of discovery and growth.

3. I believe that beginning a relationship is like starting a new journey that promises to be both exciting and challenging.

4. I believe relationships need to be nourished constantly to help weather the ups and downs of life.

5. I believe that in a romantic relationship, just as in a job, both partners should perform their duties and responsibilities according to their "job description".

6. I think it is more interesting to argue than to compromise.

7. I think frequent arguments help bring conflictive issues into the open and keep the relationship healthy.

8. I think taking a relationship too seriously can spoil it; that's why I like partners who have a sense of humor.

👏 👏

mink wrote:If the other partner does not understand then he or she is not compatible to you forget & move on...

but mink this what will occure many times becoz it is very difficult to find someone who understands that ... so how many times should we leave and move on ... it would become like shopping ... kharid liya .. try kiya .. pasand nahin ayi tho wapas kar diya ... is that the meaning of a marriage or love realationship...😉

mink wrote: People complain that they keep ending up with the same kind of bad partner, that they are unlucky in love. In reality, luck has nothing to do with it: They are subconsciously finding people to play out their love stories, or foisting their stories on the people they meet.

totally agree in that physical relationship might be a beautiful part of a relationship but it should not become the main part and least not be the cause for the break up ... and i think if the ppl really love each other then they certainly will find a way how to make their physical relation more intersting for each other 😉...

love, sakina😊

Originally posted by: mink

Gulabo, If the other partner does not understand then he or she is not compatible to you forget & move on.

Even if you're married?! 😕 Shouldn't you try to work something out? What to do if you're married and stuck like this??

Originally posted by: nikkitherealist

Oh and another thing about love -

When poverty comes knocking on the Door
Love flies out of the window !!

I'm afraid this is more true in this highly commercialised world than the love shown between the 2 Ds. But then they do say never say die.... so please do continue living in hope!

👏👏 fabulous once again Nikki. So true really.

And Mink 👏 wonderful, now be prepared to be bombarded with PM's by the unmarried girls for more tips 😃😆😉