What is Love??

Which one of us doesnt want DK and Disha to get back together? None I am sure. Why? Cos there is true love between them...or so we believe. Because its such a rare commodity, And we saw the way Disha has been missing and pining for Dk even after she agreed to marry Ved & same with Dk. Things were wrong between them, but finally they fell in love. What is love according to our 3 characters???

Dk's Love……Disha was the only one who stood up to DK, screamed and yelled at him, made him see counterpoints to every point he had. And DK noticed. He got attracted to her, got obsessed with her, and fell in love with her. The bottomline, she refused to bow in front of him rather challenged him for all his actions, in other words broke his huge elephant size ego. Which was a totally novel experience for Dk. Without his knowledge he started depending & taking her opinion on everything fr business to his Mom.

Disha's Love…….Disha married Dk to take revenge but fell in love with this man instead. Falling in love with DK was a gradual process for Disha. But when her dream to be with Dk for all her life was going to come true then Mata Sum became alright but she did not recognize her true bahu & the saga of confusion & misconception continued. When D finally accepted & announced her LOVE and said that she also had been in love with DK for sometime, and it couldn't have been better for her. But that very moment was thrown out of the house. Love can really torture us as well.

Ved's Love……..Ved's, love for D was wrong from the word go. It was not love it was just coz of the circumstances he kind of got attracted towards D. Ved's love can be summed up in these words…

tum paas aa'e, yuu.n muskaraa'e
tum ne na jaane kya, sapane dikhaa'e (jadoo kiya)
ab to mera dil, jaage na sota hai
kya karuu.n haa'e, kuch kuch hota hai..." Bas ved ko kuch kuch hota hai D ko dekh kar but no love no chemistry.

He was the person who knew about the 2d's real feeling for one another then how could he come in b/w them & further how did he agree to marry D, knowing fully well that she is his SIL. But then love is blind rite!!

Looking at 2D's we can say that the pleasure of love lasts for a moment, but the pain of love lasts for a long time but yet gives us a strange satisfaction, a strange happiness which is why we hold it so dear to ourselves all our life. Because that is all some people have left after they have loved…..PAIN. Important thing is that 2D's have loved truly & purely & that is something very few people do. The best thing about loving and being hurt is that you get to know what true love really is. For as gold is tested in fire and so will Love be Perfected in Pain….YES.

Now tell me what do u guys feel??

Mink

Hi

I agree mink once again wonderful thoughts it is true that true love path is something that is not easy to walk on and these testing times but two D's have been through some of the tougest phases in their lives but still emerged as winners and still very much in love...Disha's learnt how to love with Indy i think she wasn't in love maybe it was somewhere is between love and friendship but with DK she developed true love and with this love came alot of pain and hurt which has tested both their love.

Many love stories have sad ends becos path of love is full of tests and turbulations and only the people with good kisment will come together in the end their love for each other will bring them together. DK neer believed in love from the word go but he fell madly and deeply in love with Disha even before Disha ws in love with DK it shows what DK's love was he went through metamorphsis for his D and really showed Disha his love for her is true that is why Disha with time fell in love with him she saw the love he had for her, she meant the world to him..

Vedant i have no comments other than please don't give love a bad name by doing this as he was a true friend and now even that friendship is showing cracks and it is looking more and more negative..

Sorry for going on i guess DK and Disha's love i can go on and on...

Samy

Mink a very good analysis on true love. Pyaar ke baare mein advice koi tumse puche.

Well love is also:

Jaadu hai nasha hai, madhoshiyaan hai, tujko bhulake ab jaaoo kaha,

dekthi hai jis tarah se teri nazare muje, main khud ko chupaao kaha

Jaadu hai nasha hai.............

Hi Vidi, Really Pyar jadu hai nasha hai…………wonderful words!!

For me……Love is like swallowing hot chocolate before it has cooled off. It takes you by surprise at first but keeps you warm for a long time.

Vidya, you have been married for a long time so what say buddy?? 😉

👏👏Wonderful Mink and Samy and Vidya too.

Yeh Ishq hain, ek aag ka dariyaa hain, aur doobke jaana hain.......😳😃

Bahut Kathin Hai Dagar Panghat Ki 😳😛

les c wha l0ve really means, i think............ L0ve, like a river, it will cut a new path whenever it meets an obstacle, Dish n DK can relate to this az their l0ve no matter wht da circumstances has stood tall n strong, n their iz no power dat can budge true love.

Their iz only one happiness in life, to love and be loved, another point dat da 2D'z can relate to, no matter how much pain they r in, just a sight of each other brings unmeasurable pleasure to their life.

You know u r in love when u see the world in her eyes, and her eyes everwhere in the world, this goez 2 DK az everywhere he looks he only tries 2 find Disha'z face, this iz wht tru l0ve iz.

t0 l0ve and be l0ved iz to feel da sun frm both sidez, Ved can possibly relate to this az hiz l0v 4 Dish haz alwayz been 0ne sided, but still even 0ne sided l0ve has pleasure in its own.

l0ve iz a rare feeling, all of us feel it atleast once in our lives, f0r me even after g0in out wit a couple of people, i still haven't felt it!!

0ne Luv

"BIG J"

Wow, Vidya! nice that you try to keep the magic alive.👏 😳Wonderful, it is so very important to make your partner feel special for a few days. We have a lot of learning to do from you. As couples, individuals are 2 different people coming from different backgrounds so we have to understand see & appreciate each others' PERSPECTIVES. One should never try to change his or her partner. Surely we can agree to disagree but not change then the flavor goes. In my case my hubby is into sports…….. Kayaking, river rafting, skiing, para sailing & Golf , me only skiing, reading, writing & listening to classical music, piano & ghazals, he hates ghazals but we both accompany each other (in ghazal concert he sleeps most of the time that is ok) but we never disappoint. Love ke liye kuch bhi karega but then we both respect our space & time.😊

Wow Mink & Samy..how beautifully you've summarised the love between D & D..perfect analysis

Id like to add my thoughts..

Call me old fashioned ..but Ive always believed that no-one experiences true love before marriage. Ive always had faith in the fact that once a couple enter the sacred institution of marriage, Allah / Bhagwaan / God Installs the real eternal love in the hearts of the couple; the mercy and compassion between the two; that ehsaas which brings the two together in such a way that they accept each other despite their flaws. That deep feeling off belonging in which the two will argue etc but will not stand any one else saying ek lafz against their beloved..

Any 'feelings' we have before marriage is really lust..there is no real bond

Pata nahi whether u guys agree

'saat phero se bandha janmon ka yeh bandhan, pyaar se jora he Rab ne preet ka daman' sach..a bonding of hearts..