What is Love?? - Page 8

Hey Twine, What, u don't believe in love?? Then why do you want Dk & D to reunite??

Well, it is not just a 4 letter word, we are all in this world coz of LOVE, whether we like it or not! Maybe you don't believe in romance. Love & Romance are 2 different things. Romance is not an emotion, it's more of an action in love. And romance is just a part of love but definitely isn't love!

Love for me is Strength & Power to forge ahead in life. I am a total loveatic (a word coined by Nitica in KYPH gr) hence I go more with real feelings than reasoning and logic. Heart gives me strength and believing in it gives me hope to keep going happily. Love is deep, and cannot be compared with anything. The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved ones.

There is a saying that when someone else has a problem, use your head to help and when you have one, permit your heart to guide you through. This is exactly, what I believe & till today have followed it.

Sumayya, I'm not trying to educate and sermonize about Love; I'm just trying to put my point across. You can call it, enigmatic musing of a lovatic mind!😳

Mink

PS: Lata, if I think fr logical point then even parents love is also not unconditional love coz they want (or hope) that their kids take care of them, when they are old!

Minku Sahiba, M.L. (Masters in Love) kisiki majaal jo aapse Love jaise topic ke baare mein argue kare. Like you say, love in all its forms is conditional, whether it is parents' love for their children or the children's love for their parents, sibling love, marital love, love between friends or love between lovers. We subconsciously expect something in return for the love, which we shower on our loved ones. Rare cases may be there where there is just unconditional love.

But God's love for all of us is unconditional. God is always there for us as long as we have faith in God's presence.

Hi Vidya,

I really like the way you present your views................very precise, concise and extremely lucid! Unconditional Love, that is what I believe in & have been trying to convey but I think the logical people believe in conditional love. This might seem like a strange statement, but not everybody is ready to love unconditionally. Some people want to hang on to their judgments, their blame, their anger, and their resentment. Some people want to continue feeling like a victim to their lives and to others instead of taking responsibility for their lives. Some people don't feel happy unless they are complaining about others and/or about the events and circumstances of their lives. And it's generally easier to blame someone or something else.

But, as I have found out………..If we don't change our perspectives on things, nothing in our lives changes either.

On the other hand…………When we change our perspectives then we learn how to love unconditionally--everything around us changes, as if by magic!

Seeing one side of things (duality) is wounding, seeing all sides of things (unity) is healing! In short when we HEAL, we see things from the eyes of LOVE (GOD). Such is the ultimate gift in the WOUND. Surely, this is a journey worth pursuing.

Mink thinks that the story of life is the journey of loving, wounding & healing!!

PS: No more enigmatic musing from my side abt love.😉

wow Mink too deep ho gaya yaar 😆😆 I used to think I was a 'loveatic' but after reading your post, I don't think I will ever call myself a 'loveatic' ever again 😆

BTW I'm still waiting for that munda 😉

Masters in Love indeed! 👍🏼

Acha..this love business is getting way too much for me to digest 😆

Im taking a break from Love! 😉