Originally posted by: GAYATHRINAYAR
Ha saas di Maine kaha that na hook or crook he doesn't mind. He want kallu away from this family circus. Even kallu doesn't seems to believe that she has potential to do something great but malhar beleives he doesn't want her to end up as another anupriya. Even Anu has talent she weav s sarees well but everyone kept her confined to the limits of AN and her timid nature left her as an yet another ordinary agyakari bahu. Malhar doesn't want that I believe he won't let her be contented with a small time job.he wants her to achieve greater heights isliye confessy bhi too ke rakha he. Many asks how can this be a distraction but Mein bol sakthi hu it is . Beacuse Mei khud ke example bolthe hu as all know mere liye Shaadi ki rishta doond rahi he parents and mere masters chal rahi he. But jab bhi kuch rishthe ke baath athe he ya phir aise koi dekhne as rahi hotha he and all bahuth distraction hotha. Ye pakki hogayi toh Kya hoga. Nahi huyi toh Kya hoga.so malhar feels that even his love and a family life will lead to her loosing focus voh sahi bhi he.
Earlier they were all alone he could do household chores and help her support her but in a joint family with people like baapji it is not easy. He can't always stay here and keep watch and his parents treats bahu like a naukrani he can't throw them away also so he decided to go for hostel despite it will be diffcult for him personally.
I think sarurat nahi padengi beacuse ranes will be behind bars with this track.even if swara stays she will only be a help to kallu and Anu. But I don't know why I feel even sarthak Kaka will be arrested and anuyani will have to do some jugaad to get him out.
For Kalyani, love will be very distracting for her at the moment. Ever since she found out she is an illegitimate child, I have observed she has been overcompensating by proving that she is the best daughter, the best wife, and the best mother. She has hardly ever cared about herself. Think about how many times she has given up her studies for Malhar, Anu or even Pillu. Malhar doesn't want that for her. Unfortunately, he, Anu and Kaka are the only ones that care about her studies, and AnuSar are not even in a position to do much.
Malhar's position is hard as well - he can't treat her like a kid nor can he fully treat her as his wife. When they were by themselves, they managed everything. But like you said, with the addition of his parents, they are making her life hell and she is SO SO determined to prove that she is the best bahu ever that she doesn't care what all this is doing to her studies. Now this job hunt is yet another distraction cause these Ranes have got it into her head that she shouldn't be financially dependent on Malhar. Objectively speaking, the hostel idea is not the worst idea ever.