Poor Vrinda this must be so hard...

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Isha

@lil_isha15

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Posted: 16 years ago

I really feel bad for Vrinda right now... i mean she is at a point where has to choose btw two rights...like two ppl who she could happliy live with...a deicsion that break one of their hearts that intially in the end she'll have to do. i mean i hate balaji for doin this i mean it was stupid of me to think balaji would have a striaght show for once but this reminds me of hum dil de chuke sanam same stuff happened there n ash ended up with ajay lolz..so unless we have the normal balaji twist have Raj die then we can have our two ppl together but yeahh also sort of remids me of kasturi but yeah let's hope for the best n hope our couple come together but really feel we should not crictize vrinda for all that are

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Isha

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Neetu2825

@Neetu2825

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Posted: 16 years ago

I'm sorry but I will have to disagree.

I feel no sympathy for Vrinda...in fact, I'm furious at her!

How could she do this to Yug? and yes, even RB?

Heck, that girl just needs to make a damn decision already.

If she wants Yug, she should stop FLIRTING with RB and if she wants the latter, tell Yug its over. She's a very selfish person. She can't have her cake and eat it too. Yet, that is exactly what she wants.

And plz people, don't give me the "she's confused" cra*....a person, no matter how confused, knows what's right from wrong. The fact that she is stringing 2 guys along is plain and simple WRONG.

She gets no sympathy from me. I'm starting to hate her.

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Priyanka

@Mana26

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Posted: 16 years ago

@ neetu yepp ur rightt yaar, i even havee begun to despisee Vrinda's character.. she hass lost her thought off ethicss and the stuff about confusedd iss all bull ****.. shee iss actingg selfish, shess playing two guyss att oncee andd itts simplyy not ethical.. i dontt feel fOr herr anymoree, shee simplyy shouldd havee madee up her mindd from thee beginning.. i dontt even think shee lovess YUG , i mean they hardly tlk one on one anymoree.. & yeshh i agree on this issuee with you... shee cantt keep thee cakee andd nott eat itt... shee doesntt even get pity from mee.. shess destroyingg 3 lifess & i hatee too watch itt.. butt unfortunatelyy im a yugaholicc soo i still watch thee serial , to watchh a shatteredd YUG..

@lil_isha15 itss a greatt topicc you'vee startedd butt unfortunatelyy likee neetu i cannot agree...

vrindaa shouldd choosee noww, otherwisee thee more timee that passess, thee moree complicationnss will ariseee.. soo bestt of luck to Vrindaa becausee shess really got too choosee, cuz itss now or never...

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Kanzy

@pwincess kanzi

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Posted: 16 years ago

Vrinda: I totally agree wid u! i mean lke wats her fault?. I don't feel vrinda is at fault for this mess at all. what could she do? she had no option. she did try to run away with Yug, but she culdn't. she even went at his house, that showed her love for Yug clearly. DB and preeto found a guy for her. Did they even ask for her opinion or agreement? However the generation might have change, but things are still not changed alot in the vilages and being in the village, she had no right to say anything. Anyways if she had said something would they have even listened? her engagement and marriage were done so quickly and her and RB didn't even talk, infact she didn't even showed us RB. did they? After getting married, she was completely trutfull and honest to her husband and told her the truth, her family hid. I felt she did really good by telling him the truth, she atleast didn't betray him, like her family did. Yes, i agree this temproray thing of 6 months is wrong, but she'd ask to go right then. Infact what was her fault in saying she wished to go? she was just fully and deeply in love with Yug, that all she could think of is Yug. All she felt to do, be is to be with Yug. She did what her heart told her to do. is it wrong? True, now 2 families honour is in Vrinda's hand. Ofcourse she would be confused, i wouldn't blame her, even i would be confused. What can she do? go to Yug or stay with RB? If she goes to Yug, then RB's life is ruined and both familes honour. Yes her family's honour will come back and they will forgive her eventually, but what about RB's? If she stays with RB, then what about Yug? He has clearly said he will wait for her. And everyone knows the consequence if she don't go back to him, his life will be ruined to. What can she do? Infact keeping myself in her position even i am confused. She is just stuck between the two, what is her fault? shhe was dragged into this, despite everyone clearly knowing how much she loves Yug.

Edited by pwincess kanzi - 16 years ago

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*Reemz*

@*Reemz*

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Posted: 16 years ago

Ofcourse its fair to say Vrinda is in a difficult position! More so than RB or Yug! So what if she doesn't love RB? Doesn't mean she forgets shes married and runs back to Yug. She's not stringing anyone along. The truth is that she cannot just leave RB like that because not only does she have his family to face but also her own and even her conscious will come in the way.

I don't really like what they've done to her character either but shes not at fault and I did feel for her when she told Yug 'Do you or RB even understand what I'm going through?'. Shes not the criminal here, shes also a victim in the story.

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Vienna

@Vienna

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Posted: 16 years ago

i think shes victim in this situation but just now i dont feel pity for her..

she shud mk her mind now. she is the one who can clear the cloud now, shes in the position to tk decision..she cant act this weak all time.. she has to decide ..her heart or family..whatever she prefers... it cud be hard for her i agree but so what, shes in the situation where she cant stay quietly waching what rb n yug are doing for her..

Y'day she said 'Kaash rajbirji aap main ek bhi kami hoti to mujhe bahana mil jaata' it seems just now rb's goodness is the major reason shes not going back to yug.. she dont think of family or enmity .. so go girl go with rb .. u hv to suffer so u decide which way its less , choice is urs.. but dont act confused, even if u r confused u hv to decide one day rite then why to dragg others in miseries with u

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Priyanka

@Mana26

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Posted: 16 years ago

@ anjali- thankss forr explainingg it soo much better, that point you madee aboutt the fact that shess eventually going too choose is correct! i dontt likee the way shess draggin thee situationn andd nott saying sumthing or doingg sumthing, shee seems to just agree with what both RB and YUG aree doingg, but maybee she shouldd try to put her own inititativee, shess a smart girl ndd i hatee too see that shes just standingg on thee sidelinees! pleasee vrindaa takee sum intiativee becausee u haveethee potential!

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Neetu2825
I'm sorry but I will have to disagree.
I feel no sympathy for Vrinda...in fact, I'm furious at her!

How could she do this to Yug? and yes, even RB?

Heck, that girl just needs to make a damn decision already.

If she wants Yug, she should stop FLIRTING with RB and if she wants the latter, tell Yug its over. She's a very selfish person. She can't have her cake and eat it too. Yet, that is exactly what she wants.

And plz people, don't give me the "she's confused" cra*....a person, no matter how confused, knows what's right from wrong. The fact that she is stringing 2 guys along is plain and simple WRONG.

She gets no sympathy from me. I'm starting to hate her.

You are very right. But I'll contradict with you on one aspect that she is flirting with RB. She has been a very sophisticated character and has been nice to each and every person. She is neither confused nor in dilemma. If you talk to a person with open heart or advocate something true about a person's character, that doesn't mean you are in love.

She loves Yug and Yug only, thats the reason she narated everything to RB on the first night . She is only giving time to RB because of his Ammu, whom she knows has cancer for sure. And as she told Yug that she is as eager to come back to him as he is to have her back.

But I feel all these could have been avoided by Vrinda and Vrinda only. If she had become adamant or did something so that she did not have to marry RB or told him all these before marriage only, then RB would have denied the proposal himself hopefully.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: *Reemz*
Ofcourse its fair to say Vrinda is in a difficult position! More so than RB or Yug! So what if she doesn't love RB? Doesn't mean she forgets shes married and runs back to Yug. She's not stringing anyone along. The truth is that she cannot just leave RB like that because not only does she have his family to face but also her own and even her conscious will come in the way.

I don't really like what they've done to her character either but shes not at fault and I did feel for her when she told Yug 'Do you or RB even understand what I'm going through?'. Shes not the criminal here, shes also a victim in the story.

You are very logical. She is behaving exactly in a way which a selfless person can do.

She loves Yug (thats her personal issue) but she cannot also see that everybody starts hating RB for no fault of his. One cannot blame RB as he married Vrinda without knowing anything about her past and also six months are not over and he hasn't gone back on his promise. RB did express his feelings while drunk, but he is trying his level best to unite them after committing that mistake. Vrinda is not blind to see all these. If she appreciates RB's goodness, that doesn't mean she is head over heels in love with him. And Vrinda is the best person to judge his character and thats the reason even Yug met Vrinda to ask her how exactly RB is as a person.

Had she been any other girl, she would have left RB and gone for Yug, giving a damn to her family as well as RB's mother's health.

But her character cannot be understood unless we see it from a neutral human point of view.

Edited by Omshanti1111 - 16 years ago

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Neetu2825

@Neetu2825

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

You are very right. But I'll contradict with you on one aspect that she is flirting with RB. She has been a very sophisticated character and has been nice to each and every person. She is neither confused nor in dilemma. If you talk to a person with open heart or advocate something true about a person's character, that doesn't mean you are in love.

She loves Yug and Yug only, thats the reason she narated everything to RB on the first night . She is only giving time to RB because of his Ammu, whom she knows has cancer for sure. And as she told Yug that she is as eager to come back to him as he is to have her back.

But I feel all these could have been avoided by Vrinda and Vrinda only. If she had become adamant or did something so that she did not have to marry RB or told him all these before marriage only, then RB would have denied the proposal himself hopefully.

The reason I say that she is "flirting" with RB is because THIS Vrinda is not the same Vrinda that told RB the truth on their wedding night. This Vrinda has changed. I don't think it is wrong of her to see RB's goodness but where she is wrong is in her treatment of Yug. In the past, she had never allowed Yug to be near her...even after she confessed her love for him. Her confession of love to Yug came out as something she was ashamed off....something she felt guilty about because she didn't have her family's acceptance of their relationship. Fine...I get that to a point. Yet, there was never an easiness between Yug&Vrinda that Vrinda herself advocated. It was always Yug trying to ease her pain, her misery, trying to make her happy while she rarely arose to the same occasion.

Yet, now we see a Vrinda who is laughing...letting RB hold and nurse her hand....holding onto him...etc...etc...while she rarely flashed Yug her smiles....and even rarely (if ever) let him come near her before she moved away. This is what I mean by "flirting".

Now, someone may argue that RB is her husband....again, I get that. But, so what? Yug was the guy she loved and the guy she supposedly thinks of as her "husband"....yet, he never had the same open relationship that Vrinda is having with her supposed "only friend and not husband" RB.

I also have to disagree with you on the point that I do think she is confused. I know it would be easier to characterize as she doesn't want to hurt RB's family and her family and so forth. Fine she doesn't. But I think its more about the fact that she feels guilty to leave RB...and this has become more central in her reasons not to leave than her family and his family. If she does decide to stay with RB, she may use the whole "family izzat" thing as a reason, but I think the real reason will be her feelings for RB...the guilt she would feel in leaving RB.

She may have loved Yug once....but right now, I don't see her "love" portrayed for him very well. Its not just Yug, I'm even starting to doubt her faithfulness and commitment to him. 😕 She is always around RB and never, ever even for a moment gives the time of day to Yug. I don't suggest they meet in secret or nothing, but if they are in pleasant company...least she can do is smile at him. No one is suddenly going to start pointing fingers on her character if she SMILES...its a bloody smile for goodness sake. Yet, everytime she see's him I see an eagerness in her to avoid him. I don't know if you guys noticed but when her family came home and told her and RB that they were invited to dinner at Yug's house that night...Vrinda got this look on her face. A look that spoke volumes of her desire not to attend. Now, some may argue that it is because she didnt want to put RB in a uncomfortable position like that or so forth, but I think our Vrinda is slowly changing. She herself is trying to distance herself from Yug. She is thinking more and more about what RB wants like a wife does and less and less about how much she is hurting Yug. This does not sound like a girl who loves Yug. So, I disagree with you omshanti1111. I don't think Vrinda is as commited to Yug as she use to be.

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