what would yu guys do in her shoes? - Page 2

Originally posted by: shab83

off course she WAS forced. just coz she went along with it doesnt mean otherwise. like you have just said and like i have said before, just coz she could walk and talk and wasnt tied up doesnt mean she was of a stable mind. she was getting harrassed, bullied and blackmiled form her family, and she didnt know where yug was, she had no support. she was cornered and she gave in to them. and no matter what any one else says..just because she HAD to give in to them doesnt mean she wasnt forced !

Originally posted by: Binky

yeah she was not physically forced but definitely mentally remember what Bebe said

Coming to your question to tell you the truth I have no Idea about what I would do and thats my honest answer

Originally posted by: soni2004

i don't know what i would do...RB is a really super person who only gives love.....

Because it concerned the life of his mother or whatever...I would probably stay...I would not be able to live a happy life with someone else if had began with the death of another for which I knew I could have done something about that.

The other thing...Vrinda did what her parents wanted to do...in todays and age mangal sutar and sindoor is still a big power and should not be messed about with...I honestly think she will (perhaps unwillingly) fall in love with RB....adn then when the time comes Yug will see that that love is not in Vrinda's eyes anymore...!!!

Originally posted by: -alimabi-

yeah i agree that it is a sacred thing but then why does ekta make a joke of it in her seriel case she follows her own laws she doesnt really knw what marriage or love means otherwise she would do what she does to her heroines. so ita a big thing in reality but in her seriels cases if she sees it as a joke then why should we see it as a serious situation

Originally posted by: shab83

im not saying that marriage isnt sacred,off course it is, but like ekta people in the real world also treat it as a joke aswel............that doesnt mean though, that the girl (or it could be a boy) has to suffer and stick with it!

most religeons...not all but most only accept divorce,but as a last resort, the final option. but if that option cannot be used in these kind of circumstnaces, then when can it be used. is it only a last resort for women who are battered and bullied???? not for women who have been mentally abused and made to feel they have to marry even though it is not their wish. what kind of a society do we live in people????

Originally posted by: -alimabi-

yeah i agree that it is a sacred thing but then why does ekta make a joke of it in her seriel case she follows her own laws she doesnt really knw what marriage or love means otherwise she would do what she does to her heroines. so ita a big thing in reality but in her seriels cases if she sees it as a joke then why should we see it as a serious situation

WOW if my parents did that to me they would have another thing coming, I would go mental probably have the biggest arguement of my life and in my house everyone says what they feel so that should be the end of it but my parents love me and would never do that to me even if they were unhappy about my decision.

Originally posted by: soni2004

ekta is using a modus operandi that always works...marriages of coveniences where the couple eventually fall in love despite knowing why they are staying married works as an audience attention grabber around the world :)... mopvies, soaps, dramas...harlequin books! you name it.

Originally posted by: -alimabi-

[its was okay the first couple of times but knw its just gettin boring and shes makin love ot be baquwas