Why uma want to be progressive why it happened.
Because he felt that he lived with snakes but he cannot identify it until kanak came and she tried many tricks and at last she tried to massi and massi feed poison to uma at the stage only he came to know.
Which was first step he faced the reality that people also their who can do anything to get money by showing fakeness. And at same time he came to know kanak can go to any extend to save him so this first realisation of our uma.
Next at bangkok uma was in anger mode taking rash decisions and kanak managed him and said this is not the right time to show anger that is second.
And next when burried them in coffin that is one which make uma to think that if he know the world how it was then massi might not made him as puppet and not made him follow wrong dharam.
These all things made him to thing about to change him to progreesive thinking person and some hiw it hurts his ego also as the head of the family he can't take care of his family.
And in this mind he said to kanak that in 12days i will change myself and give you a new uma ok i understand what uma wants.
But i felt kanak silence made him to think that kanak also think that only she need a new uma so he made his mind.
And some how i felt when expressing what he did and asking sorry at that time also kanak was silent.
She didn't said anything at that time.
If she said this is not at all needed and i like you as you only and no need to change yourself.
If that happened means we all had peaceful days and we might enjoyed our show. But last two episode and uma's change making me think in negative only. In future we have to se many difference of opinion will arrive to our kanum.
Sorry for makking this stupid post friends i think to share if this happened then these kind changes not happened in our uma.