What makes Kanak a better wife for Uma than Palomi

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Here is a short comparison between Kanak and Palomi. This will prove what makes Kanak a better wife for Uma than Palomi.
Kanak: She followed every instructions by Uma for the Dasi test. The feet water thing was actually ridiculous. She cooks good food and gave an awesome idea to save Uma's money. She can give excellent advises to Uma. She is brave enough to point out his mistakes and also tell him how to solve it. She can be patient if she determines to be.
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Palomi: She is already Uma's Dasi for years. She will not even refuse to drink Uma's feetwater. She can follow Masisa and cook good food. She can give advises on how to save money. But she is not someone Uma needs. Uma needs someone to point out his faults and tell him ways on how to correct them. Palomi will never be able to do that because she does not see any mistakes in Uma. Kanak only can do that.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Frankly I think Palomi would make an ideal wife for Uma.
They both can sit together and discuss their extreme version of religion...while Uma sips on tap water and Palomi on the water she washed Uma's feet with. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Kanak has self respect n a brain...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree Uma would b much happier with Palomi, unfortunately he is not attracted by her.
Uma is a wrong husband for Kanak, it is impossible to live in real,life with such a strict and possessive husband, sheer hell, possessiveness. Sounds very romantic in movies and serials and books, but in real life it is a deal breaker, and tough for the partner
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: manj

Agree Uma would b much happier with Palomi, unfortunately he is not attracted by her.

Uma is a wrong husband for Kanak, it is impossible to live in real,life with such a strict and possessive husband, sheer hell, possessiveness. Sounds very romantic in movies and serials and books, but in real life it is a deal breaker, and tough for the partner


@bold: Absolutely true! 👍🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I also feel Palomi is better suited to Uma but Kanak is the opposite and most importantly it comes down to attraction and Uma is attracted to Kanak therefore he will always prefer her over Palomi.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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opposite pole attract .

palomi is like doormat , blind follower of uma . uses her mind to do stupid things like keeping eye on uma- kanak .palomi is so boing n serious always .

1)kanak is god gift from shiva as uma thinks .
2)she is confident n fearless to give her opinion to uma n his family even though there is diffenece in opinion .
3)she follows most of dharma customs in the house . when it comes to her self respect she denied to act eg. to drink feet water of uma .
4)as kanak takes decision by heart , in short period, she has created loving bond with child shiv , uma's ma kaushalya , masisa .
5) even when she got the chance to get property , money when masisa ask her wish , he chosen shiv . which shows she is not money minded .
6) kanak is so mischiveous , funny . she always keep teasing uma about his dharmic antics..uma likes it to have positive enrgy like her around .
7) she argues with uma , gives him suggestions .may be uma feels kanak as his friend .
8) she is brave n can risk her like to save family , as she saved kaushalya ma from fire.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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There is no comparison between kanak and palomi... Palomi is living with uma's family for so many years...still she isn't attached (except suman,) with them like kanak . She is doing all seva for her uma only. She doesn't even have guts to tell uma that she luv her. She is also using suman . She doesn't have a self respect...she blindly following uma.
Kanak is fearless...she doesn't lose her dignity, self esteem during dasi tasks . Whenever she is seeing the things which is wrong...she raise her voice. Even though she doesn't consider uma her husband still she emotionally attached with everyone in the family, specially kaushalya ma, shiv, masi sa even Payal.
She will always support uma in good and bad phase of life...in future want to see that.

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