17/07 The recipe!!

Hey there all the lovely people!!!
Apologies for being extremely late. But late than never is better I guess.



Wisdom doesn't come with age or numbers...simple words become wisdom, said and done at the right opportune moment... it's all about perspective people have, the way they perceive things. Some are so consumed in the daily grind that they although being mature and much more mentally developed fail to understand the cause of chaos. The road to achieve the goal might be treacherous, slippery and difficult, but when two people who have to reach that destination... they can do it two ways - 1) pushing each other out of the view, complaining, berating and undermining each other. 2) being civilized and practical that a journey which needs utmost care can only be done support and care from each other.

Shiv was a mirror today, that showed Uma, the all gyani another way to handle things. He could be more encouraging, caring and supporting towards his wife, so that she achieves the goal. Uma would be perfect husband material for everyone else, but for that little kid he is the one who always punishes his wife and is always upset with her. -- could it get any more clearer than this. US looked thoughtful when shiv said this to him maybe it's a start from his side now... a start towards being more present, sympathetic and supportive to Kanak.

Kanak tries emotional drama, sings a song says sorry, but Massi refuses to share the recipe. -- thought how did Massi know Kanak was singing a song from a movie?? -- anyways Kanak following Massi instructions cooks up a shakar roll. Even the method to me gave insight on how to make things work. Flour and water should be balanced perfectly, neither hard nor soft... excess of anything would ruin the recipe. Flour n water can be two people together. How well the mix up together to be dough 😆. How the addition of oil is necessary, oil gives it a stretchy texture... oil can be anything the humor, the lighter side of life, threads which can be pulled up on to enjoy life. The roti is to be cooked medium flames, temperatures high or low, might signify the 'saubhav' nature of a person. Anger or submission both can be harmful to the roti, the product, the relationship of the two people.

People I am insane. Thanks for bearing me.

Ola smurf...wow so much thought into the recipe...did not realize that, question when did maasima share the recipe, they do not show that right?

I am still debating on her character, is she good or bad or too much Dharm based...😛

Good discussion between US and Shiv, if a little kid can see it, then the whole household can see it...

Not much thoughts today to share

Great analogy
Shiv uma convo was so much needed...
Spc after kanaks outburst
It was like loha garam hai hathoda mardo

Kanaks efforts were genuine but she again lied to masi sa. And masi sa knows how filmy kanak is so her guess was also right 😆
Dont know how and when masisa shared the recipe with her after saying no.
I feel kanak will win the task

Uma don't want to lose kanak now but if she fails he will leave her without any thought and that's why he said not to rush for shop registration
And after kanak said we can never meet that line must have had impact on him

I do not think she lied, she side stepped the answer, which maasisa caught on...and she told the statement, now I am thinking if I shd share the recipe with u or not...

When masi asked if she is doing all this for uma
She said yes but in mind said for my bhabho' shop Isn't that lying?

Originally posted by: foram.

When masi asked if she is doing all this for uma
She said yes but in mind said for my bhabho' shop Isn't that lying?

Originally posted by: Snoowfall

Ola smurf...wow so much thought into the recipe...did not realize that, question when did maasima share the recipe, they do not show that right?

I am still debating on her character, is she good or bad or too much Dharm based...😛

Good discussion between US and Shiv, if a little kid can see it, then the whole household can see it...

Not much thoughts today to share

Hey there snow.
I just look too much into everything. For me everything happens for a reason. But that's just me.
Massi must have shared the recipe somehow her voiceover was very clear. She must have convinced Massi, it will be revealed later. No worries.

Massi is an experienced old hag, who is a bit of everything good bad evil dharmic, she tried to use the situation to know more about Kanak. Kanak did speak the truth, but it was a bit twisted. That she caught... because Kanak hesitated for a second and got trapped.

Shiv was amazing as an eye opener today. That how he sees the 'perfect husband' US is. The one who is always upset with his wife. I doubt the household would see it that way. Shiv is an exception because he is young mind, with a fresh perspective.

Hi Blue - Thanks for the the great analogy of the Shakkar rot and married couples. I never looked at a cooking recipe like that before. I am bothered about one thing though, how come there was no shakkar in the shakkar rot😕? Kanak added flour, water and ghee to make the dough, but no sugar😕

G8 analysis Blue! The way she had to mold the dough she has to mould her relationship too with perfect amount of ingredients😉. Consistency is important. The discussion bet.Shiv n Uma was a gud one. Cute shiv used his wisdom because of janeau... was cute. Had skipped golu n Rani as usual.

@Rani - hey there thank you for the wonderful comment.

- I myself had never thought of this particular analogy... it just came while writing. That's why I call myself insane k Kuch bhi in my mind. 😳 i have no idea what a Shakar roll is. So no idea about the ingredients either. Let's see what happens tomorrow why Uma had had face, was it of surprise or disappointment. Was it lack of sugar 😆

- it was indeed a kind of filler episode. Kanak and Uma rarely happen in that house. They need to go out to even talk two minutes. They need screen time together desperately...

- Palomi is ... Uma had asked Kanak to make it, how dare she get in between and make the dish herself. Why does everything has to be a competition for Kanak, be it against Payal or Palomi. Why is she not enough to be there, a stand alone performer. Why can't Kanak have Uma for herself for a few minutes atleast. Why does she have to have contrast and comparisons situation all the time.

- I am super annoyed with Rani Golu track. I fail to find the humor in it.