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Hey there all the lovely people.
I am conflicted at the episode, I don't know whether to call it a filler or to dissect it precisely to reveal the underlying human condition, the absence of love, trust and judgement. Dalai Lama once said " love is the absence of judgment". One doesn't judge the other person in love. Love is not only for a couple, partner of soul mates. Love is an unconditional feeling of giving to any other human be it sister mother brother, friend anyone. Love just happens there is no price tag for it, and if someone has to prove or earn for love then it's not love. It's the approval we are buying not the love.
Denial is the word of discussion today.
Denial to accept that Kanak has left, denial to accept that Bhabho sold her shop, denial to accept that Bhabho can't leave them. What these humans don't understand is that love care concern respect is to be for other humans rather than things. Things do not bind people and relationships, it's their time attention and concern.
US stares ahead in silence, reminiscing about time spent with Kanak. He doesn't utter a word when massi and duo walks in, inquiring that Kanak has left. US says that this relationship was made by God, it can't be broken. The ladies look on.
Palomi has her share of self thought -- she laments that she can't console him, even when she is apni... but US feels more for prayai Kanak. ---- rolling my eyes at the audacity of this stupid lady. Somebody please explain me the existence of her.
Arvind although proves that shop papers are legally US' but if Bhabho doesn't lie, then the papers have been usurped very smartly... and they need proof to get US to court. Arvind - thankfully to our respite states that Kanak is like a sister to him, and gives her ticket for passage to Pushkar. --- thank you very much Arvind for being a brother to Kanak and even sowing doubts in her head for US... you for once couldn't give US benefit of doubt that maybe even US was outsmarted by someone 😳 -- buts that's me thinking logically...
Kanak has a delusional dream in which Bhabho instigates her by belittling her mission and efforts to get the shop back and getting Bhabho's love, she calls Kanak worthy of hate only --- I felt pity on the naivety of Kanak, that despite being a smart lady, craving for love, doesn't understand love. Love is not a thing. It cannot be bought... there is no price tag for it. You were unloved since childhood, you above all should have known that love cannot be bought ... but maybe your longing for Bhabho's love made you think that love can be bought, be it in form of her shop. -- the statement made by Bhabho that shop is the last 'nishani' of suraj Sandy is soo materialistic.. their three live kids are in front of your eyes. Yet you ignore them and pine for a shop... living people are less important than a four walled shop.
Kanak even dreams of US, he comes forward saying that their bond is for seven janam , he shows her the gadbandhan but Kanak sees them as shackles. She screams that she doesn't believe in all this, she screams that US underrate women, and she is suffocating by living with him. Kanak comes out of her dream when US places the chains around her and is strangling her --- this is Kanak's perspective of US, she hasn't taken a minute step towards him or their relationship, for her it's a life sentence in jail.. where there are numerous rules and regulations and she would suffocate in there. Although she abhors US but still a place of her mind accepts him as her jailer, she ran away not only for the papers but from the life sentence.. it's her version of prison break.
On the other hand Rathi family brings Bhabho to her shop, they all plead and pray her to get up. Golu's like that 'app ki kasam if he would have stayed kunwara all his life, if he had known" - Golu is getting his space amongst all. Everyone goes into the shop to make it lively, Baba sa says to Bhabho that seee that only our house has partitioned, the hearts are still united. He also places importance on the shop that ties them all --- ain't they all abnormally attached to a material thing. Bhabho places more importance on a shop related to dead people rather than people who are alive. It's all about handling grief and placing your priorities in the right place. Investing in people rather than things.
Precap - US is darkly silent.. Massi calls gabba saa to get their ghar ki beendni back. Kanak goes to land registration office and they tell her about cctv footage.
P.s -- I am not a gyani Baba in love - I just tend to get off track sometimes.
Apologies for anything I might have said out of line.
Love Friendship Dating and Relationships
Bindi
