Are we actually supposed to like Uma Shankar?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't watch this show very often. Used to love Diya aur Bati but slowly lost interest in the last phase. But I've caught this new show a few times.
Initially I thought Uma Shankar was decent. I mean he's proponent of patriarchal ideals, which I am not, but I felt that's going to be his character growth on the show with the Kanak being more empowered.

But the forced marriage thing? I feel it went too far to really be redeemable. I know the makers are bringing up the fact that Sandhya initially wasn't happy about her marriage to Sooraj as way to mirror the event in the two shows. But Sooraj never forced her into a relationship... if anything attempted to break the relationship for her happiness. He gave her choice.

But how do we redeem Uma Shankar out of all this? I mean even if later he chooses to let Kanak go... and Kanak chooses to stay, its not quite the same. Its almost like Stockholm syndrome.. where the victim falls in love with her captor

The writers could've just let Kanak think the whole thing was a drama... and have her go through with the wedding unknowingly. It would've brought the show to the same point without the ML doing something that is actually criminal.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I was thinking the same . They could have let her marry
Unknowingly nevertheless I'm still rooting for uma Shankar
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kairos

I was thinking the same . They could have let her marry
Unknowingly nevertheless I'm still rooting for uma Shankar
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I want to root for him.. but right now I just want Kanak to run back to Pushkar. The only advantage of this track is that hopefully Bhabho will feel sorry for her. Then Uma Shankar can come and live with them in Pushkar. 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: malikakas



I want to root for him.. but right now I just want Kanak to run back to Pushkar. The only advantage of this track is that hopefully Bhabho will feel sorry for her. Then Uma Shankar can come and live with them in Pushkar.😆


I Agree.
Didn't Like The Forced Marriage Either.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I habe to agree with your assessment. I would also have preferred if Kanak would have been under the drama misunderstanding. For me tjere is almost no redeeming Uma at this point.
Why was this gunshot wedding necessary? Why did the makers need to show it this way? And why did they try and draw a parallel between them and Suraj-Sandhya? Their situation was completely different.

I guess Uma's redemption will be the bring Kanak and Bhabho closer? But will that be redemption enough?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I definitely do no like US at this point. What he did was barbaric!
His character has been assassinated so badly, is it even reedemable?

All he said was ap nahi jasakhti because meine apni chunn log hai. Chunn liya my foot! If the other party doesn't agree it isnt a marriage! And the way US's men treated her, tied her up and all! So pathetic.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mary78613

I definitely do no like US at this point. What he did was barbaric!

His character has been assassinated so badly, is it even reedemable?

All he said was ap nahi jasakhti because meine apni chunn log hai. Chunn liya my foot! If the other party doesn't agree it isnt a marriage! And the way US's men treated her, tied her up and all! So pathetic.


True Hate US.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well Uma is definetly not likable at this point. He has to redeem himself a lot for any of us to even think of liking him. Its some serious character assasination at this point. I dont see anyone in ladno even close to driving some sense in that guy. Not sure when and how he will realize what a grave mistake he did in the name of God.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Allyson

I habe to agree with your assessment. I would also have preferred if Kanak would have been under the drama misunderstanding. For me tjere is almost no redeeming Uma at this point.

Why was this gunshot wedding necessary? Why did the makers need to show it this way? And why did they try and draw a parallel between them and Suraj-Sandhya? Their situation was completely different.

I guess Uma's redemption will be the bring Kanak and Bhabho closer? But will that be redemption enough?


Exactly! Why draw a parallel to Suraj and Sandhya? I mean yeah they became Diya aur Bati, even though Sandy was unhappy with the marriage. But that's because Suraj was a gentleman.

That's why I am sort of confused.. after writing a character like Suraj do the writers actually think we should be liking a ML that would force a woman into marriage like this? It seems odd to me.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mary78613

I definitely do no like US at this point. What he did was barbaric!

His character has been assassinated so badly, is it even reedemable?

All he said was ap nahi jasakhti because meine apni chunn log hai. Chunn liya my foot! If the other party doesn't agree it isnt a marriage! And the way US's men treated her, tied her up and all! So pathetic.


Yeah I know right! I like the fact that she told him.. so what about all the other guys that liked me?Should I have married them too?😆

The last show I watched where the ML did this was a pak drama called Gul E Rana. But there it was clear that we were supposed to think that guy was a douche. But here I don't know what the writers were smoking?!

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