Is Bani Even Thinking What the Kids Feel

I am all for Bani taking revenge and having her kids back but she seems to have lost all maternal instincts. Has her revenge become more important than her children's mental wellbeing. She is seeing how attached the kids are to their father and how miserable they are. How can she ven think about moving to the US and permanantly seperating the kids from their father and traumatizing them like this. JW did something awful 5 years ago but he did it under duress, but what cumpulsion does Bani have to traumatize her kids like this. I just don't understand this woman anymore. Has her revneg become more important than the well being of her children.

Where the hell does AD get of trying to become the kids father. God today Bani and AD made me so mad. Those poor kids are so miserable and they are planning happy family without giving one thought to what is good for the kids. AD wants to take Bani away from JW, and so he is not thinking what is right for the kids. But hell Bani you are the mother, you atleast should think what this seperation will do to your kids.

Megs, Bani is thinking about her Kasam to Bhootji 😡🤢 and Bhootji is thinking about endless nights of blowing hair of Bani's face 😳🤢. Kids? What kids? Kasams and Adhbhoot romance takes precedence over everything, na 😡😡.

Sonia.

Originally posted by: m3ghna

I am all for Bani taking revenge and having her kids back but she seems to have lost all maternal instincts. Has her revenge become more important than her children's mental wellbeing. She is seeing how attached the kids are to their father and how miserable they are. How can she ven think about moving to the US and permanantly seperating the kids from their father and traumatizing them like this. JW did something awful 5 years ago but he did it under duress, but what cumpulsion does Bani have to traumatize her kids like this. I just don't understand this woman anymore. Has her revneg become more important than the well being of her children.

do u honestly think they will be well with JW, i dont think so. And what is wrong in getting back to JW, just a little reminder, didnot JW do the same wiht bani, draging like a half day old kids from mother. Isnt that criminal, in the moral court? So if he has done that, all bani knows is that day, she did the same to JW. Every minute she is with them , when they talk about things that Jai knows and she doesnot know, what will she be going through as mother, that she doesnot know them, why doesnt she know, what is the reason a mother doesnot know what her own child wants? Have you thought about that ? Do you honestly think that it is wrong for a mother to take it out on the man who made her kids stranger to her? I thought for the first time bani showed some human traits.

Where the hell does AD get of trying to become the kids father. God today Bani and AD made me so mad. Those poor kids are so miserable and they are planning happy family without giving one thought to what is good for the kids.

hmm nobody really gave anythought to them, if bani didnot think about the kids, would she have happyly married AD why the h*** should she have come back and marry JW again. The poor kids are miserable today becoz there father decided to intervene with their mother life without her conscent, now she is just returning favour.

AD wants to take Bani away from JW, and so he is not thinking what is right for the kids. But hell Bani you are the mother, you atleast should think what this seperation will do to your kids.

hmm honestly megs, i think bani is right, if they learn to live without mum, why cannot they live withoutfather, when they can think rano to be their mum why cannot they think Ad to be the father?

I just dont get why you are mad at Bani, i think she is doing the right thing as any woman in her situation, what do you want her to do, tell

oh you sent me to MA, took my kids away from me, tried to marry my sister twice almost slept with her twice, well i am sure you had good reasons for seperating my kids from me and trying to sleep with my sister. Worse you dont even try to talk to me about it. I will forget everything and pretend to live wiht u forever. How is it even possible? nothing will be the same megs, KS has lost its track long time ago.

i am mad at JW, who is doing his penance without any knowledge of others.He sent her to MA, she is not sending to Jail or MA right, so i think she is much more better than JW.

Reg

Anju

P.S. Didnot mean to come out like that, its just that i love bani too much 😃. Had to defend her. Didnot mean to hurt ur feelings 😔 or anybody elses

Originally posted by: milkey007

i really don't blame Bani for all that.i do feel sad for kids but bani also doesn't know the truth.so how can she understand JW's pain.
Why is JW Quite.
it seems that JW cares about kids not Bani.the announcement of AD-Bani marriage doesn't affect him much .
why is JW excepting anything from Bani ,even Bani doesn't know anything

Why should the kids pay for someone else's msitake. i agree what happened to bani was awful, but how does permanatly seperating the kids from JW get Bani justice. JW has already given her the kids to redress the injustice done to her, but taking those kids to US and never to see their father again is plain inhuman and cruel to them. What is their fault? Even if Bani does not know the truth, does that justify her traumatizing her kids like this.

Originally posted by: red_chile

Anju nowhere in my post have i said that Bani should go back to JW. What happened to her 5 years ago was awful and she can take whatever revenge she wants on JW. But why should the kids suffer. It is very unfair to say that they will forget their father eventually so let them be miserable and heartbroken now 3000 miles aways from their father and never see him again. This is not fair to them. Why do they have to pay penance for a sin they did not commit. Just because what JW did, bani should make her children suffer. JW has already given her back the kids, why can't she stay in mumbai and whatever the hell family she wants so that the kids can see their father once in a while and not be traumatized. Once you are a mother the children's feeling should matter, it's not just about be ra ra me woman, hear me roar. What wrong did the kids do that they have to loose the father they know and love and have to adjust to a new father.

Originally posted by: m3ghna

Why should the kids pay for someone else's msitake. i agree what happened to bani was awful, but how does permanatly seperating the kids from JW get Bani justice. JW has already given her the kids to redress the injustice done to her, but taking those kids to US and never to see their father again is plain inhuman and cruel to them. What is their fault? Even if Bani does not know the truth, does that justify her traumatizing her kids like this.

Originally posted by: m3ghna

Anju nowhere in my post have i said that Bani should go back to JW. What happened to her 5 years ago was awful and she can take whatever revenge she wants on JW. But why should the kids suffer. It is very unfair to say that they will forget their father eventually so let them be miserable and heartbroken now 3000 miles aways from their father and never see him again.

Right i see your point, but what i am trying to tell you wasnt their father the one , who decided that they are better off with mum in MA, Is it fair for them to grow up without the mother? Whose sins were they paying then?

This is not fair to them

it is defintely sad, but well life is never fair, too bad the poor kid ( so far) had the fate to be only iwth one parent at a time

. Why do they have to pay penance for a sin they did not commit. Just because what JW did, bani should make her children suffer. JW has already given her back the kids, why can't she stay in mumbai and whatever the hell family she wants so that the kids can see their father once in a while and not be traumatized.

ofcourse he did all that we know it, does bani know, everytime JW does something stupid and pushes bani away from him. And whose fautl it is, that JW cannot communicate with his wife ? but megs, bani doesnot even know about moving to USA, AD decided it , she is going with it as she is scared of losing her kid to the father ?

Once you are a mother the children's feeling should matter, it's not just about be ra ra me woman, hear me roar. What wrong did the kids do that they have to loose the father they know and love and have to adjust to a new father.

well thats correct, a mother always puts kids before her, that is why she bothered to come back didnot she, for her kids, JW is in no position to take care of them, he cannot feed himself what will he do about the kids, well all i am saying is, it is definitely unfair on the kids, but thats what happens to kids whose parents are messed up. thats how life works 😭. They dealt with losing one parent, now they will deal with another.

But see the brighter side, they alteast have parents who want to take care of them, fight for them, unlike the kid veer, who has nobody😭