Originally posted by: Blueeeee
Pakhi was literally groomed and beaten by Adhik. She is a brat but the victim blaming to justify a minor browbeating two adults into a marriage is astounding. Good lord.
You cherry pick on point 4 but points 1-3 have nothing to do with Pakhi and Adhik's relationship
1. Anupama gave up her first Udaan because she was pregnant with Pakhi. Yet I never seen her constantly bring this up to Pakhi and remind her how she sacrificed her Udaan for her
But on the flip side Adhya must be constantly reminded how Anupama made a great sacrifice for her by not leaving for America the second time. Why? Why this bias between 2 daughters. Neither Pakhi nor Adhya asked Anupama to sacrifice for them.
If one is not constantly forced to acknowledge her unknowing role in mother's so called Udaan why is the other? Doesn't seem fair.
2. When Adhya was initially brought to Shah house she received less than a good welcome. It's fine. They were all shocked we brush it away. Baa constantly abused her verbally. But that's fine, she was just wordy in expressing her views. I guess we'll brush that away too. Pakhi has forever looked on Adhya with a jealous eye. But I guess that's fine too. She was the youngest of her house until she suddenly wasn't because mom got a new little girl. So naturally she took it out on the little girl and we're just going to forget that right. Because gives a crap about how any of this might have affected a little girl who came with the hope that the new family will accept her. Right?
3. Pakhi has thrown some epic tantrums. Cried and demanded her parents not divorce. That they stay in the same house even if they are separated. Despite her father living in with his mistress when the divorce is not final yet. Essentially continuing to cheat on her mother. She plotted with Baa to try and get them back together. But we will call all of it the acts of a child wanting her life to remain as it was. For the family to remain as it was.
On the flip side if Adhya asks Anuj to stay with Shruti because she feels that is her family now. Because she relates to Shruti and wants her to be there. If she does not want Anupama in their life again and tries to keep Anuj and Anupama separate. She is a two bit scheming ungrateful brat? A child with no sense of respect?
Has not Pakhi said far worse to Anupama but it's never brought up again? Yet if Adhya says one word against Anupama she will be constantly reminded of it over and over. Be called ganda khoon by the Bhakts and what not
Why this bias between similar actions of two daughters? Why understand one's trauma but vilify the other's?
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