Both Anuj and Anupama blaming Aadhya for their seperation

Anuj indirectly blaming Aadhya for getting in relationship with Shruti and staying away from anupama 

Anupama also blamed Adhya for separating with Anuj .instead of making efforts and try to solve problems between her and Adhya she kept running away from her ..

But they don’t blame Crinjal who is the root cause of this mess! Hadd Hai!

yeah 9 year old kid said to anupama to leave house and run away instead of answering anuj questions 

and anupama is so mahaan who never listened to even her sweetudi pakhi or baa and toshu and gave divorce to vanraj will shiver for CA and gave divorce to anuj and ran off from kapadiya house 

9 year old said go every day to ex hubby house and dance and make him coffeee tea and to his parents and enjoy jhula jhuloing with him and hug him when you get news of becoming grandparent etc 

anuj is a shameless man first to get married to anupama he left malvika with bhediya vanraj and ran off behind anupama 

than he thretened malvika to take back vanraj in kapadiya empire so that he can marry anupama smoothly 

and now hes blaming 8 year old kid for staying in live in with shruti 

adhya said stay in one house and enjoy shruti free services for me 

will 9 year old kid know whats a live in too poor thing 

this criminal anuj wanted a woman to enjoy his lust ONS like before in anupama absence and a nanny to take care of his 9 year old kid and home

both are liars and criminal parents and anuj is criminal brother of highest order 

there is somehow a concentrated efforts to make girls who are kapadiya family to look villan 

First it was malvika whom they choose to make vanraj rich and hence tried to spoil her image by linking her as having liking to vanraj but of course full anupama fandom shouted in SM how can malvika have relation with vanraj as shes anuj sister and very young almost toshu age? So writer immediately stopped this drama nad sent her off to US permanently 

Than they tried to marry off samr and sara agin fandom said hows that possible they are related bec anupama is aunty to sara and mom to samar so it cannot marry close relationship again sara disappeared to usa

Now to whitewash anupama and anuj sins they are trying to blame a 12 year old kid who no way has any clue whats a live in relationship at 9 years or told anuj to have one or told anupama to leave anuj and kapadiya house and run off as she could not answer why shes more close to shahs than anuj and ca and kapadiyas 

both anuj and anaupam are meeti churi in front they act victims and behind back stab own kid by lying that because of her anuj had live in with shruti and anupam ran off leaving anuj and ca alone for 5 years 

can there be a bigger lie and balsphemy told by anuj and anupama ever 

and kinjal thinks shruti cannot love adhya more than anupama - crazy woman who could never recognize rakhi love can recognize others love for child 

Did they actually do that?

If they did, Makers need a standing ovation for butchering the concept of Adoption. Absolutely Ridiculous.

Did Choti Anu aka Adhya ask Anuj-Anupama to adopt her?

Bechare Anuj-Anupama, unhe adoption ka matlab hi kaha malum tha. Unke hisaab se yeh bhi ek forgotten Charity Project tha like the false promises of a Restaurant by Housewives, Old age home etc.

9 + 5 = 12?

Anyhow,  Anuj has obsessive tendencies and has dealt with Adhya's parenting at all. She is entitled and obsessive due to her trauma being unaddressed and all her demands being met instead of having tough conversations with her.

Now not only Anuj, a man in his fifties, is a manipulating a woman who doesn't want to live with him but he has messed up his minor kid so much that she'd feel right to not only to interfere in completely adult decisions but would do absolutely everything to have her way. And the 50-something adults would comply.

Originally posted by: Historia

Anuj indirectly blaming Aadhya for getting in relationship with Shruti and staying away from anupama 

Anupama also blamed Adhya for separating with Anuj .instead of making efforts and try to solve problems between her and Adhya she kept running away from her ..

This smells strongly like another major multi trauma phases for Aadhya. 

Poor Aadhya

Choti se bani Aadhya

Her dear papa is indirectly blaming her for being the main reason for his separation from his soulmate. 

Her dear papa is doing the ultimate sacrifice for her. Correction. Her dear papa showed her that he has been doing a huge sacrifice by letting go of his love but deep down, he can't resist his Anu and he is still standing where he was 5 yrs ago. Anu ki Anuj. His identity is just this. 

Her dear papa is torn between love for his daughter n his adoration for his soulmate. 

Five years Aadhya took the lead in the tug of war. 

But fact is: Anuj toh Anu ki hai. 

pallu boy. 

Shayari boy.

The emotional blackmail can go two ways. 

If Anuj starts to emo blackmail Aadhya, then?

If she learns that her dear papa wants to reunite with mummy 1.0, then?

If she learns that even Shruti acknowledged that mummy 1.0 is irreplaceable in dearest papa's heart, then?

If she learns that even mummy 1.0 is indirectly holding her responsible for her 2nd marriage epic failure, then?

When it dawns on her that she, an adoptive girl, actually made two lovers apart? Two lovers who chose her in an orphanage to complete their family? A family that unwillingly choti Anu is being bkamed to have destroyed?

Koz come on, Maa never erred. 

She was always right. Always. 

So, trauma ki baarish aane wali hai bechari Aadhya pe. 

Kya pata, trauma aur sadma ki wajah, she recalls that its better to be back to being Choti Anu. 

Originally posted by: mehr05

This smells strongly like another major multi trauma phases for Aadhya. 

Poor Aadhya

Choti se bani Aadhya

Her dear papa is indirectly blaming her for being the main reason for his separation from his soulmate. 

Her dear papa is doing the ultimate sacrifice for her. Correction. Her dear papa showed her that he has been doing a huge sacrifice by letting go of his love but deep down, he can't resist his Anu and he is still standing where he was 5 yrs ago. Anu ki Anuj. His identity is just this. 

Her dear papa is torn between love for his daughter n his adoration for his soulmate. 

Five years Aadhya took the lead in the tug of war. 

But fact is: Anuj toh Anu ki hai. 

pallu boy. 

Shayari boy.

The emotional blackmail can go two ways. 

If Anuj starts to emo blackmail Aadhya, then?

If she learns that her dear papa wants to reunite with mummy 1.0, then?

If she learns that even Shruti acknowledged that mummy 1.0 is irreplaceable in dearest papa's heart, then?

If she learns that even mummy 1.0 is indirectly holding her responsible for her 2nd marriage epic failure, then?

When it dawns on her that she, an adoptive girl, actually made two lovers apart? Two lovers who chose her in an orphanage to complete their family? A family that unwillingly choti Anu is being bkamed to have destroyed?

Koz come on, Maa never erred. 

She was always right. Always. 

So, trauma ki baarish aane wali hai bechari Aadhya pe. 

Kya pata, trauma aur sadma ki wajah, she recalls that its better to be back to being Choti Anu. 

Did you not know that already?:

1. If an udaan is stalled sue to pregnancy thats destiny but if the udaan is voluntarily renounced because of a momentary sense of conscience (only to be forgotten almost immediately) thats a monumental sacrifice.

2. if overgrown, adult, married biological children get jealous of a new baby sibling, thats normal sibling behaviour but a 9 year old adopted child getting jealous and making it known to her mother, is a sin.

3. If a 19 year old biological daughter tries to convince her parents to live under a roof even though the father would re-marry, go live with her father and his fiancee in a bid to convince her father to return, is a noble effort but a traumatized (traumatized by the abandonment of the adopted mother) adopted child wanting her divorced parents to remain separate in a bid to avoid the recurrence of the past trauma and protect her and her father, is obsessive, interfering in adult decisions and manipulative.

4. If a biological daughter (adult and married) made unreasonable demands, mistreating her husband, thats depression but an actual traumatized adopted child asking reasonable questions and showing the mirror is demanding 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Originally posted by: mehr05

This smells strongly like another major multi trauma phases for Aadhya. 

Poor Aadhya

Choti se bani Aadhya

Her dear papa is indirectly blaming her for being the main reason for his separation from his soulmate. 

Her dear papa is doing the ultimate sacrifice for her. Correction. Her dear papa showed her that he has been doing a huge sacrifice by letting go of his love but deep down, he can't resist his Anu and he is still standing where he was 5 yrs ago. Anu ki Anuj. His identity is just this. 

Her dear papa is torn between love for his daughter n his adoration for his soulmate. 

Five years Aadhya took the lead in the tug of war. 

But fact is: Anuj toh Anu ki hai. 

pallu boy. 

Shayari boy.

The emotional blackmail can go two ways. 

If Anuj starts to emo blackmail Aadhya, then?

If she learns that her dear papa wants to reunite with mummy 1.0, then?

If she learns that even Shruti acknowledged that mummy 1.0 is irreplaceable in dearest papa's heart, then?

If she learns that even mummy 1.0 is indirectly holding her responsible for her 2nd marriage epic failure, then?

When it dawns on her that she, an adoptive girl, actually made two lovers apart? Two lovers who chose her in an orphanage to complete their family? A family that unwillingly choti Anu is being bkamed to have destroyed?

Koz come on, Maa never erred. 

She was always right. Always. 

So, trauma ki baarish aane wali hai bechari Aadhya pe. 

Kya pata, trauma aur sadma ki wajah, she recalls that its better to be back to being Choti Anu. 

How is daughter's love being pitted against a wife's love? How is that practical or even moral to expect a person to cater their romantic inclinations according to their child? Precocious bacche ne bola Shruti se shaadi kar lo toh bhai kar lo as if she's a toy to please the baby. Aur agar kal bacchi ko Shruti pasand nahi aayi (since teenager's are famous for the consistency of their feelings) toh... another promise to a kid on how he'd lead his romantic life and the same obsessive behaviour for former pyarwali ex and dostiwali ex while some other woman does free ka nannying. 

You 'loved' someone, called them a mistake after they went through a literal car accident. Good, you realised they were a 'mistake.' Be a 40+ privileged adult that you are and go to therapy. Don't dump your shitty love life on a kid.

Now wtf does this dude want? For Anupamaa to come back to him so that Adhya can make her life hell, and then Shruti can manage Adhya's good feelings? And he does what? Obsess over the idea of a woman and put unrealistic expectations on her. 

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Did you not know that already?:

1. If an udaan is stalled sue to pregnancy thats destiny but if the udaan is voluntarily renounced because of a momentary sense of conscience (only to be forgotten almost immediately) thats a monumental sacrifice.

2. if overgrown, adult, married biological children get jealous of a new baby sibling, thats normal sibling behaviour but a 9 year old adopted child getting jealous and making it known to her mother, is a sin.

3. If a 19 year old biological daughter tries to convince her parents to live under a roof even though the father would re-marry, go live with her father and his fiancee in a bid to convince her father to return, is a noble effort but a traumatized (traumatized by the abandonment of the adopted mother) adopted child wanting her divorced parents to remain separate in a bid to avoid the recurrence of the past trauma and protect her and her father, is obsessive, interfering in adult decisions and manipulative.

4. If a biological daughter (adult and married) made unreasonable demands, mistreating her husband, thats depression but an actual traumatized adopted child asking reasonable questions and showing the mirror is demanding 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Pakhi was literally groomed and beaten by Adhik. She is a brat but the victim blaming to justify a minor browbeating two adults into a marriage is astounding. Good lord.

Anuj is holding on to his obsession for Anupama so dearly that he can't see beyond that. And Anupama is holding on her being victim so dearly that she can't see beyond that.

Both of them need therapist seriously. They both act so abnormal and unreasonable with each other. And among these two poor Aadya is mistreated, blamed on and became a reason for their separation.utter nonsense!