Deepika was always redflagistan - Millenial Memories🫡
I met DP when she was a fresh newbie, desperately trying to get into a hip and happening Bandra group of elite kids of professionals who had solid connections in films. She had solid modeling work, but as she said she always moves on to a higher pedestal. She scored an invite to a birthday bash via Nihar where she desperately sucked up to every elite SoBo kid in sight, except your truly who wasnt up to her mark.
She zeroed in on Nihar due to his parents connections to film stars thanks to a relative who was Bollywood plastic surgeon on speed dial. She moved in with him in a week and laid a FULL abla ladki in the bad city schtick on his parents who started being her ambassadors and PAYING FOR HER LIVING EXPENSES.
Then, once she got her introduction with Red Chillies, Farah and signed Om Shanti Om, she moved to a HIGHER bedpost at the speed of light. As an old news article someone shared on this sub revealed - she ACTUALLY got Ranbir to the home she was sharing with Nihar, that his parents were paying for and told Nihar to leave them alone to do whatever she wanted to do with him.
Obviously this episode became the talk of Bandra and by extension Worli crowd that Nihar was a part of, many of whom had been extensively buttered up by this uppity Bangalore girl with no elite connections or even friends. She got dumped by them but then she PULLED the SAME thing with Ranbir and sucked in ALL of his friends and industry connections, becoming overnight langotiya yaars with them. This was regaled by Nihar to his circle and by extension the whole suburban crowd of Bandra and Worli for years until he healed and settled down himself.
Then, imagine if you can, the sheer NARCISSISTIC self delusion, that the abla nari discovers that Ranbir was as genuine about her and she was as disposable and interchangeable to him, as Nihar was to her. When Ranbir had been clear that they were dating casually, I mean he was barely a film old and very young too.
Imagine the kind of red flag warehouse you have to be, to be bitter about losing a meal ticket and prize catch for a DECADE plus. Ranbir was her endgame, his being devoted to her or marrying her would have given her the Bollywood legitimacy and clout it has taken her years to achieve and was never guaranteed in the first place. It was never about money though, to be clear, this is strictly about power and narcissism. Narcissists NEED to acquire objects and relationships that glorify them, you will never see a narcissistic woman in a relationship where the man does not exceed her clout and doesn’t worship her for existing. JLo, Kim K, Liz Taylor and many many celeb couples mirror DP patterns.
There is nothing wrong with casual sex, open relationships or marriages or even extra marital affairs if the partner is aware and consents. There is also NOTHING wrong with women choosing to use the casting couch as long as they are consenting adults.
There is everything wrong with leading people on, using them, faking love and friendships or even faking that you mean well to latch onto them for your goals. With treating people like they have no feelings.
I mean, what DP did to Nihar meets definitions of sociopathic behavior even. Nihar was in therapy for a while and battled with depression and anxiety.
How do you go from that to trusting a woman again?
Like literally, DP reputation after the Nihar and Ranbir debacle, followed by cuddling and dumping two cricket stars in quick succession, one of who’s mother gave blazing blurbs about being her son being used like Nihar in BT and Mid Day, DP’s public image was about as garbage and problematic as the debacle this week.
It’s just that she wasn’t that well known and social media wasn’t as widespread to reveal her.
The fact that she was a PAID girlfriend to boost Sid Mallya’s profile was also open secret and as widely whispered about as this weeks KWK episode. To skirt paying tax, she was awarded an apartment by the Kingfisher group as a gift on paper. Back then Kingfisher was flying high and Sid Mallya Prince Charming with his own Cricket team and private jet, not only did it glorify her like being with Ranbir in print and her head, she got paid well. So no victims here, self growth ki Jai ho 🥲
There were and are still persistent rumors that Sid Mallya was gay/bi. Again, nothing wrong with that now or then but no business magnate - celeb in India can be openly or rumored gay and have the brand that was Vijay and Sid Mallya before their bankruptcy.
Then, when bankruptcy came for Prince Charming, DP terminated her agreement and left Sid to pay a hefty dinner bill he asked her to split on.
Being a millennial who has lived through this drama, I am amazed at people on this sub and real life, acting like that they have JUST met DP 😂
Would any of you look at a woman or a man with this kind of behavioral history with money/power and relationship patterns and NOT find more red flags than China?
Which is also what Ranveer was pre SLB and still is, behind the charade of devoted husband. A friend who works as a Bolly stylist occasionally has pegged him as India ka highest body count made up of fans, assistants, staff, randos and whoever will take it.
This truly is a love story.
They are soulmates.
They met at a do or die junction of their careers with garbage public perception when it came to their personal lives or even just basic goodness as a person. Neither of them was like able and you can’t be India’s sweethearts like SRK or Ash or PZ unless you are LIKED and perceived as someone who everyone would fantasize about being their lovers, friends, spouses, sons as Adi Chopra told SRK.
They’ve been grifting and clowning and pretending since the day they decided to join forces and help each other achieve their goals.
Ram Milaye Jodi,
Ek Andha aur ek Kodhi 🙏🏼
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