Anuj does not love Chhoti Anu

Most people agree that AnupaMaa does not prioritize/Love Chhoti-  Shah family is number 1 for her- Chhoti is last priority.

 I feel like Anuj also does not love Chhoti either.   He's just being selfish.  

Why?   He has left his entire business to his brother and wife only to walk on the streets barefoot and live in his friend's house to be near his daughter.   It's very irresponsible of him to do this.   Let's say he somehow got an opportunity to be in Chhoti's life again.  How will he provide for her?  He has no money/job/business anymore.  Shouldn't providing for your child be a priority?

Anuj also has brought stress to CA by showing up at her doorstep, without Anupama.  She is a very sensitive and intuitive girl, and she immediately knows her parents are fighting.  She already feels bad that they fought because of her, now she will possibly feel worse. 

And then in the most recent scene where Maya come to the apartment and tells him that CA has gone for a school trip- He gets upset and demanding that he wanted CA with him.  So, as a father you are stopping her from experiencing life, just so she can make you feel better?  Stopping her from living a normal life with friends and going on a school trip- something that makes her happy? Selfish.

He is only thinking of him and his attachment to her.  He's not at ALL thinking of her, Chhoti, as a person.  He has destroyed the family she loved, and he has no way of taking care of her.   He didn't think of her, even an iota. He's just lost in his own emotional issues.  

Also side note: Chhoti Anu loves her family-- Anupama and Anuj together.  Not separate.  Together.  She was happy living with "Maan"       Again let's say somehow, some way there is an opportunity for CA to come back into their lives.  Anuj has ruined it.  He completely shattered the relationship with AnupaMaa-- The life that CA loved and longs for (Living with Anuj/Anupmaa) No longer exists.  He ended any hope of CA ever being able to live with her "Mummy Papa" again.  

In that way, Anupama WAS really the only person who had CA in mind when she realized that they would have to give up and let her go to Maaya.

Thoughts?

Refreshing to see another POV here. Anuj has been behaving like a jerk throughout this track!

To begin with, even after Anupama gave up on fighting to keep CA, and him throwing her out of his life, he could have still pursued a legal battle with Maaya if he really wanted to go that way. But he did not and became a devdas. If he was confident that he wud win CA's custody even after choti chose Maaya her biological mother why didnt he fight for her by himself? He kept telling Anupama that she did not fight for CA why did he not continue that fight with or without her?Its like making Anupama a scapegoat to take the blame of something that was inevitable. 

And its not just Anupama's thing to start from scratch everytime looks like he also is a fan of living this way. First he gave everything to Mukku andd started from scratch and then he again threw all that away and ran away. I mean what ram milayi jodi this is! Both are equally stupid.

And what kind of an empire he runs without a board or a ceo or cfo or any other key positions that nobody tries to contact him and his bhabhi could take everything over who was not even a key position holder in the company!

Its a joke!

Edited by sillibilli - 1 years ago

Originally posted by: PJFan777

Most people agree that AnupaMaa does not prioritize/Love Chhoti-  Shah family is number 1 for her- Chhoti is last priority.

 I feel like Anuj also does not love Chhoti either.   He's just being selfish.  

Why?   He has left his entire business to his brother and wife only to walk on the streets barefoot and live in his friend's house to be near his daughter.   

in this show nobody loves anyone in my honest opinion..they all are obsessed with eo in weird twisted ways 🤣 

Anuj's depression and all made sense to me until he left the house...us k baad to seeing him behave like a clown i lost all the sympathy 🤡 

Like dude why did you even come to live with your daughter when all you are doing is spending energy on thinking about your wife and being sasta Kabir singh 😕 

Waha tha to he was crying over CA and yaha aa gaya to he is sulking over anupa..shayad is ko bhi sab sab sab chahiye just like his lover😆 

Anuj loves based on convinence 

First he loved Malvika like CA only than abondoned her

GK he wanted only till anupam acame in life

Anupama he was crazy till CA came 

Now hes after CA 

After sometime he will move back to anupama etc cycle repeats 

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Anuj loves based on convinence 

First he loved Malvika like CA only than abondoned her

GK he wanted only till anupam acame in life

Anupama he was crazy till CA came 

Now hes after CA 

After sometime he will move back to anupama etc cycle repeats 

So true.

The only true Love on the show is Anupama's love for Shahs.

Point is the whole show is a hype for Anupama who ever comes in her way would be ruined ,not only her ex or present ones but all the characters .