Ajay doesn’t even know his anniversary date?

It’s a big red flag for me

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ya right as if you remember yours 

some people are just bad with dates …it’s not a red flag imo

I mean there was a guy who tattooed his wedding date on his arm (chay) as a sign of ultimate commitment and we know how that went 

Date bhool jaaye, that's ok, shaadi ho gayi hai, yeh bhool jaaye, woh red flag hai

Eh a lot of people are bad with dates and remembering stuff especially if someone's married for so long, doesn't mean they love their significant others any less. Not making a case for Ajay here, stating just in general. 

His whole behaviour towards Kajol is a big red flag but till the the time she finds it very funny (like she does publicly) wtf cares. If he was my husband, I would’ve run for the hills. It isn’t even the anniversary date, that’s as much of a RF, as his whole dismissive attitude towards her. 

I forgot my own parents anniversary this year. I hope that is not a red flag ? 

Because it isnt important for him.. If I read the gossips right, I think he dont even remembers that he is married or he has a wife.. 

Some men just don’t pay attention because they’ve never been made to.  A lot of men don’t remember their anniversary, wife’s birthday, even children’s birthdays.  The running joke in America is that teachers and/or doctors shouldn’t even bother checking with dads because they don’t know anything.  They are still good fathers and husbands, unfortunately they’ve never been made to pay attention to dates.  There’s also a generational angle to this.  

Ajay not knowing his anniversary isn’t a big deal. The way he can be dismissive of Kajol at times is though. But the impression I have is that Kajol is getting what she wants out of her marriage and isn’t concerned with anything else.  

Originally posted by: IAmLuvBolly

Some men just don’t pay attention because they’ve never been made to.  A lot of men don’t remember their anniversary, wife’s birthday, even children’s birthdays.  The running joke in America is that teachers and/or doctors shouldn’t even bother checking with dads because they don’t know anything.  They are still good fathers and husbands, unfortunately they’ve never been made to pay attention to dates.  There’s also a generational angle to this.  

Ajay not knowing his anniversary isn’t a big deal. The way he can be dismissive of Kajol at times is though. But the impression I have is that Kajol is getting what she wants out of her marriage and isn’t concerned with anything else.  

What does she want out of her marriage?