It was always about Consent all along - Page 5

Originally posted by: tellyme

Great post... I was  thinking on same line these days... how the earlier force marriage and how the same people are denying that marriage and how these same people are forcing him on similar thing for similar consequences.. I think the makers have reached to this point intentionally...  and that's why people like us are pondering to that thought .. 

here we can also see the contrast between the 2 ladies... Imlie was not worried about her reputation and did o into it to save Adi where as other has created such scenario for herself and is forcing herself on Adi giving the Izzat duhai... we can clearly see how progressive Imlie is and how regressive the other one is... 

Thanks, tellyme :)

Yes, I think it's very much intentional that the makers have brought things to this point to highlight the contrast of consent. 

Imlie has been accused and denigrated for so long of claiming to have "trapped" Adi or having "forced" herself into his life via the forced marriage....but the contrast is now very clearly being shown that Malini is the one to use traps and force to manipulate people without their consent. 

And yes, the hypocrisy is being highlighted too.....the great lengths to which people went to label one forced marriage incident as invalid and now they are willing to make any excuse to label a different forced molestation event as perfectly valid between "husband-wife"🤪.

People call the PD villagers criminal for forcing that marriage onto Adi-Imlie....lol but somehow Delhi waale are perfectly within their rights to force their son to accept a relationship that doesn't have his consent anymore😕😆......Adi-Imlie evolved into their marriage and never DEFENDED how it happened....they called it what it was - a forced event. But here, everyone is trying to COVER UP a forced molestation/possible rape....which is far uglier than a forced marriage. 

Some throwbacks to the various times that consent aka MARZI was noted in Adi-Imlie scenes.....

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Some throwbacks to the various times that consent aka MARZI was noted in Adi-Imlie scenes.....

It has been a constant  thing adi has been so vocal about it since forever that imlie is his marzi his wish nobody has been forcing it on him.. he wants it from his dil he is here caz his marzi and  he will forever pick imlie..ahhh

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Thanks, tellyme :)

Yes, I think it's very much intentional that the makers have brought things to this point to highlight the contrast of consent. 

Imlie has been accused and denigrated for so long of claiming to have "trapped" Adi or having "forced" herself into his life via the forced marriage....but the contrast is now very clearly being shown that Malini is the one to use traps and force to manipulate people without their consent. 

And yes, the hypocrisy is being highlighted too.....the great lengths to which people went to label one forced marriage incident as invalid and now they are willing to make any excuse to label a different forced molestation event as perfectly valid between "husband-wife"🤪.

People call the PD villagers criminal for forcing that marriage onto Adi-Imlie....lol but somehow Delhi waale are perfectly within their rights to force their son to accept a relationship that doesn't have his consent anymore😕😆......Adi-Imlie evolved into their marriage and never DEFENDED how it happened....they called it what it was - a forced event. But here, everyone is trying to COVER UP a forced molestation/possible rape....which is far uglier than a forced marriage. 

It is too much for the bailbuddhis  to understand..yehi log have issues ke shaadi saamne nahi hui toh hui hi nahi when adi imlie has told them.enough times ke they have been married and how and beforehand..yeh woh  jahilpanna  hai in many ways ke waise toh progressive ban jao but waise apni soch thopo  and be the problematic af.

Again  when adi has been making it so obvious and telling ke uski marzi hi nahi hai na thi  toh it being called oh pati 0atni ke beech ki baat but jab imlie and adi kuch kehte hain toh she is evil witch amazing 🤔these guys have seen it from their own eyes what imlir has done could do and still doing yet she is the bad one in any situation caz the poor girl did one wrong thing of hiding it for so long..

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

It has been a constant  thing adi has been so vocal about it since forever that imlie is his marzi his wish nobody has been forcing it on him.. he wants it from his dil he is here caz his marzi and  he will forever pick imlie..ahhh

The most touching part has been the EVOLUTION of this consent....this marzi. That phase where he was confused about WHY this was his marzi but phir bhi he was SURE that this IS his marzi😆....such an adorable layering. 

Along with consent has come conviction....and now they are intertwined so deeply that you cannot tell them apart. 

The basis of this consent is a complete acceptance of TRUTH....that is why it holds so strong. The truth that Imlie was always his true wife as decreed by destiny. The truth that he wronged her but didn't want to face what he did. The truth that she understood him even when he didn't give her any understanding. The truth that she humbled him by barely lifting a finger.....all of this came together to form this consent, this marzi in all its totality. 

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

It is too much for the bailbuddhis  to understand..yehi log have issues ke shaadi saamne nahi hui toh hui hi nahi when adi imlie has told them.enough times ke they have been married and how and beforehand..yeh woh  jahilpanna  hai in many ways ke waise toh progressive ban jao but waise apni soch thopo  and be the problematic af.

Again  when adi has been making it so obvious and telling ke uski marzi hi nahi hai na thi  toh it being called oh pati 0atni ke beech ki baat but jab imlie and adi kuch kehte hain toh she is evil witch amazing 🤔these guys have seen it from their own eyes what imlir has done could do and still doing yet she is the bad one in any situation caz the poor girl did one wrong thing of hiding it for so long..

LOL yes, yeh special brand of "progressiveness" hai jahaan do logon ka mutual consent holds no weight😆. 

The two people who are married have made it more than clear that the marriage has their consent, that they love each other but puri duniya around them is acting like they have the theka to decide the status of their marriage FOR them? 😕😆

Anyways we all know this is basically Adi's punishment for not prioritizing the divorce.....lol ab baith ke bhugto bhayaanak consequences of how people twist the idea of your consent against you simply cuz a woman can claim she is married to you on paper. 

Baaki in the case of Imlie toh it's very clear that people can't bear "inferior" ladki getting the respect and regard that is owed to her as Adi's rightful first wife. The original truth is starting to prevail toh logon se bardaasht nahin ho raha that false idols like Kalini ji are being unmasked with their true face....and that is why these lame arguments are being resurrected of how supposedly she alone was hurt in all this....as if all the trauma that Adi-Imlie went through in the forced marriage was halwa.....lol 

Originally posted by: AreYaar

*Bump* 

Thanks  for this..again this very BASIC THING is being forgotten by many here..they have made  special case around it I this whole track by literally spelling it out too ke CONSENT is everything and adi's CONSENT was not there that night but sure he is still the one who will enjoy the fruits  of that night even if it is a lie  according according some Go FIGURE 

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Thanks  for this..again this very BASIC THING is being forgotten by many here..they have made  special case around it I this whole track by literally spelling it out too ke CONSENT is everything and adi's CONSENT was not there that night but sure he is still the one who will enjoy the fruits  of that night even if it is a lie  according according some Go FIGURE 

BASIC things are sometimes the hardest for people to understand....cuz I guess most of the world runs on shallowness and shallow claims only🤔. 

That said, I feel yeh consent ka aspect has taken a backseat in the smear campaign that started in court against Adi....so I hope they loop it back to the main issue whenever the final testimonies and judgement are done in the court. The proof of Adi's innocence needs to be linked with the fact that his consent was violated by a cheap and desperate woman. 

Originally posted by: AreYaar

BASIC things are sometimes the hardest for people to understand....cuz I guess most of the world runs on shallowness and shallow claims only🤔. 

That said, I feel yeh consent ka aspect has taken a backseat in the smear campaign that started in court against Adi....so I hope they loop it back to the main issue whenever the final testimonies and judgement are done in the court. The proof of Adi's innocence needs to be linked with the fact that his consent was violated by a cheap and desperate woman. 

Ofcourse that needs to come to forth ke not only are their direct hits at his honor and painting him as a criminal but a violation of his space and his CONSENT  and that Is the ultimate when he has told didi NO a 100 times it means NO and this isn't  the first time she has made repeated attacks at his izzat since her comeback kabhi bed main ghusso kabhi party main attack karo and kabhi rape hi kar daalo 

It is belatedly hitting me that not only now even when she was his wife  she crossed her lines in terms of getting physical  too and always scared him remember that night after PD zor ka jhatka one..always went against his wishes attacked him .. and no that is not normal between pati patni even if she wanted to cuddle she was being creepy about it and  uske baad the night she planned bacha on her daadi ka advice lmao no wonder adi pakdooed kona🤣