Story of senapati mother anupama and her useless 2 sons

I know anupama has some psychological issue that’s why she feels extremely overwhelming in every next situation.

Today also did anyone notice how she was acting! She was like she has to work more and more to repay rakhi’s loan single handledly !!!

She has 2 adult sons and her both the sons are looking useless when mother blabbers like she will take numerous extra classes single handledly to repay rakhi’s loan!!!

Isn’t it shameful parenting where in the presence of 2 adult sons, mother behaves like she has no support system and has to repay loan by doing numerous extra classes all alone and feels extremely overwhelming while speaking this!!!!

Are the both sons really useless or is it like mother wants to manage everything single handledly???!

I had no hopes from Paritosh anyways but Samar is still so selfish and pathetic that even in a sacrificial sense, he is not offering to go for the abroad assignment.

I don't find him any different from Pakhi when it comes to an unhealthy attachment to his mother. He didn't even recommend any new ideas to his mother, just said that he will do whatever she asks him to.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

I had no hopes from Paritosh anyways but Samar is still so selfish and pathetic that even in a sacrificial sense, he is not offering to go for the abroad assignment.

I don't find him any different from Pakhi when it comes to an unhealthy attachment to his mother. He didn't even recommend any new ideas to his mother, just said that he will do whatever she asks him to.

I feel like I want to slap her both the adult sons .

Just like you I had no hopes from Paritosh and I always felt samar is like badi badi baate vadapav khate and only chamcha son.

In the presence of 2 adult sons, mother was acting like she has no support system . As you said samar is still so selfish and pathetic that even in sacrificial sense, he didn’t say he will take abroad project . All he is good in doing mummy-mummy jaap

I am seeing no difference in Samar and Paritosh when it comes to helping anupama financially when she is blabbering to take more and more classes and expressing her desire to manage everything single handledly 🤢

You are forgetting here that Samar was the one jisne anupama ko dance academy ka sapna dikhaaya aur use sach karne ke liye poora poora saath diya.If not Samar,anupamaa wouldn't even have thought about the academy...and regarding Samar not accepting the international offer,I agree he should take it up.And anupamaa was telling I will take extra classes and all,she was saying it in the panic,if she thinks with a calm mind and decide a way out,I am sure Samar will put in his life to fulfill it,Toshu se tho ummeed hi nahi hain,he is working in such a big company,can't he help instead of sitting and blaming Anupamaa??

Originally posted by: vismaya

You are forgetting here that Samar was the one jisne anupama ko dance academy ka sapna dikhaaya aur use sach karne ke liye poora poora saath diya.If not Samar,anupamaa wouldn't even have thought about the academy...and regarding Samar not accepting the international offer,I agree he should take it up.And anupamaa was telling I will take extra classes and all,she was saying it in the panic,if she thinks with a calm mind and decide a way out,I am sure Samar will put in his life to fulfill it,Toshu se tho ummeed hi nahi hain,he is working in such a big company,can't he help instead of sitting and blaming Anupamaa??

I am not forgetting anything. Emotional support is not everything in the time of crisis .

Here sons must know that their mother has some psychological issue and that’s why she feels overwhelming in every next situation . Today her psychological issue was on surface when she was saying that she needs to take more and more dance sessions and was emphasising that she will pay loan single handledly.

Samar was listening all this but he didn’t said that your sons are adult and I will also arrange money so don’t go in panic mode!

If someone has psychological issue then that person can never act sanely in the time of crisis so it was adult son’s responsibility to not just calm her down but also should actively participate in arranging money as adult sons of mother.

Must say anuraj’s parenting is extremely poor and both adult sons are looking more useless that’s why their mother with psychological issue is arranging money all alone in the presence of 2 adult sons.

as i can see Samar is a v lazy person he does not want to do any hardworking to achieve any thing in his life yes he sports his mom because she is the one who sported him not to study because she never pushed him or make him realise the value of education .

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I know anupama has some psychological issue that’s why she feels extremely overwhelming in every next situation.

Today also did anyone notice how she was acting! She was like she has to work more and more to repay rakhi’s loan single handledly !!!

She has 2 adult sons and her both the sons are looking useless when mother blabbers like she will take numerous extra classes single handledly to repay rakhi’s loan!!!

Isn’t it shameful parenting where in the presence of 2 adult sons, mother behaves like she has no support system and has to repay loan by doing numerous extra classes all alone and feels extremely overwhelming while speaking this!!!!

Are the both sons really useless or is it like mother wants to manage everything single handledly???!

Even after so much has happened, nobody in the family, not one single person has a plan to repay the loan. The next day, everyone is going about their own business. There is no family discussion about how to get out of this.

The onus is entirely only on the mahaan Anupama. How ridiculous is this? I am not sure why they showed Samar getting that offer. He is not shown to think about it at all. Toshu, the less said the better. He lives as if none of them are related to him in the household!

Bapuji's lecture to Vanraj was again useless, singing the same tune - "Anupama sahi hai..." 😕

Bapuji feeling sad, thinking about kharkhana about how colorful his past was (rang bharna) etc...

agar sapne itne rangeen the, toh tax kyon nahi bhara? Bewakoof!😲

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Her convo with Samar & Nandini was laughable. Is it a joke that she thinks she can repay the loan with adding more dance lessons? The loan is in 10's of lakhs, not in 100s or 1000s that she can repay it by taking extra classes.

Even after so much has happened, nobody in the family, not one single person has a plan to repay the loan. The next day, everyone is going about their own business. There is no family discussion about how to get out of this.

The onus is entirely only on the mahaan Anupama. How ridiculous is this? I am not sure why they showed Samar getting that offer. He is not shown to think about it at all. Toshu, the less said the better. He lives as if none of them are related to him in the household!

Bapuji's lecture to Vanraj was again useless, singing the same tune - "Anupama sahi hai..." 😕

Bapuji feeling sad, thinking about kharkhana about how colorful his past was (rang bharna) etc...

agar sapne itne rangeen the, toh tax kyon nahi bhara? Bewakoof!😲

Even I am not sure why they showed samar getting that offer?! What was the purpose of showing that? Neither samar is serious for his career nor he has any willingness to explore anything new. Is it like they showed only to show how much samar is anupama’s son with zero logical brain ??! 😲

My mother in law was like kya nikkame bacche hai iss anupama ke ! 2-2 jawan bete hai par 1 rupiya bhi maa ko nahi de sakte !! 🤢

Seriously yar! Kaisa Parwarish diya hai baccho ko ! Samar uski maa ko yeh tak nahi bola ki mai kuch arrangement karuga paiso ka! Aise toh bada gyan deta hai sabko !

Bapuji character is here just to cover anupama’s blunders otherwise Bapuji has no brain. I had the same thought about him that if your karkhaana is so precious to you then why you never paid tax belongs to your property?!

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Even I am not sure why they showed samar getting that offer?! What was the purpose of showing that? Neither samar is serious for his career nor he has any willingness to explore anything new. Is it like they showed only to show how much samar is anupama’s son with zero logical brain ??! 😲

My mother in law was like kya nikkame bacche hai iss anupama ke ! 2-2 jawan bete hai par 1 rupiya bhi maa ko nahi de sakte !! 🤢

Seriously yar! Kaisa Parwarish diya hai baccho ko ! Samar uski maa ko yeh tak nahi bola ki mai kuch arrangement karuga paiso ka! Aise toh bada gyan deta hai sabko !

Bapuji character is here just to cover anupama’s blunders otherwise Bapuji has no brain. I had the same thought about him that if your karkhaana is so precious to you then why you never paid tax belongs to your property?!

Nandini's is another waste. At this rate, everyone is useless in the huge family.... except the one & only Anupama! 😊

In such a tension ppl will get a heartache with 40 lakh debt.

Paritosh is totally useless. And samar should better accept the offer and make some good money. Because till u have money nothing can happen to u.