Originally posted by: Talis
He had control over his life and body to use a condom or get himself snipped or not have sex. After that his choices impact another life. He doesn't have to marry her, but yes he's financially and emotionally responsible for the support of the child.
See there would be no problem if couples just use protection, we all know that and that's what I mentioned in my main post as well.
I was talking about what should a couple do in case of an unwanted pregnancy, i.e, after they have done the mistake.
And sorry, I don't agree that a guy is responsible for the child in any way if he wanted the girl to abort but she didn't listen.
It was her choice to keep the baby, now deal with that decision.
She didn't listen to him and he should listen to her. That's not how it works.
Originally posted by: blue-ice.1
How about men having control over their zips....if they can't do that .....how about using protection....aur woh bhi nahi....matlab he is an irresponsible idiot...then he doesn't need to become a father unless he is responsible enough...
All this applies to the women as well. She could've avoided having sex. She could've asked him to use protection. Otherwise she's an irresponsible idiot and should definitely abort because she's not ready to become a mother.
Originally posted by: HearMeRoar
I have no idea what the Hindi bit means.
@Bold. You mean to say the women mind-controlled the men into having unprotected sex.
If not, daddy-to-be is equally responsible, bud. He doesn't have to marry the baby mama. But he does have to support the kid. Don't want to do the time? Don't do the crime.
Having unprotected sex doesn't equal to wanting children. Couple wanted to have fun. They had fun.
Now when she's pregnant, she had the option to abort but she didn't despite the guy telling her otherwise.
She choose to become a parent. The guy didn't because he asked her to abort. Now if she wants him to support the child, then she wants to control his life.
Guy doesn't have any obligation to marry her or support the kid in anyway because he didn't want the kid in the first place.
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