Originally posted by: aryapdane
I totally agree with every point you have raised. As always, you have made a very articulate post that is also very thought provoking.
It is time to question the content that we are being served everyday. There is not one single story on TV today that doesn't push forward a problematic narrative. And this show has been the leader in showing problematic content (the only place where it was a success). Every single track is filled with elements that made me want to scream out in frustration or outrage. You have brilliantly illustrated Anurag's saviour complex that kicks in and makes this show such a difficult thing to tolerate. It seems this season the show makers diverted from the age old formula of TV where the female lead is the captain of the ship. Coz Prerna is definitely not in charge here, Anurag is. His actions moves the plot forward. He is centre-stage and Prerna is a bystander to everything. Since day one, Prerna has allowed things to happen to her. And that is something that seems quite a lazy thing to do on part of the writers of this show. Especially in this day and age. i completely agree here. even if the makers wanted Anu to steer the ship they could have shown the story in a new, thought provoking way with a postive message of love...but instead they took the lazy route & failed miserably 🙄
Prerna is a 21st century woman. Are you seriously telling me that she has no dreams, no aspirations outside getting married and having a family? And man is she obsessed with marriage! Her response to every problem in her life is to marry it.
To think that the first time where she decided to take matters into her own hand and not wait for Anurag to save the day is the Sautan track, it's just shameful. The only purpose of her character was that she's supposed to be the love interest of Anurag. She has no identity outside that. this is the crux of the problem, Pre in AnuPre or PreRish, whichever you root for, doesn't really matter. she isn't empathised or sympathised with. her feelings, aspirations & dreams are reduced to who deserves or loves her more 😒 she's just a pretty doll that looks good with one or the other. the evidence, like you pointed out before, it's her vilification that took place for daring to question Anu's love & intentions 😒
Which brings me to the second point that you raised. Should content creators be held accountable for their role in moulding impressionable minds? We cannot say that what we watch doesn't affect our thinking in any manner because whatever we see, whether we like it or not becomes a part of us. Our mind is a collection of thoughts that we have acquired throughout our lives. So, is it really alright if every show on TV is trying to shape our perceptions of love? And it's not just the perception of love, is it? It's the narrative that you have to be a certain kind of female to be deserving of 'true' and 'ideal' love. And I know people say that the audience demands regressive content and that is why we get it. But I think that people have to stop blaming the audience now. The argument that we love watching women getting slapped by their husbands and lovers or even their mother-in-laws, being treated like an object is just not good enough. What is wrong, is wrong. It needs to be called out. No matter how normal it seems. No matter how often it happens. We cannot say, "well, that is how our societies function" and walk away. Otherwise, we'd still be burning widows on the pyres of their departed husbands. And people who are writers, directors and so on play a huge role in holding a mirror to the faults of the society. Let's not forget that it was the thinkers and writers of France who laid the foundation for the French Revolution. love your thoughts & reasons here. it's supply & demand, where one feeds of the other. the industry is a business & they'll supply whatever's demanded, whatever sells. to paraphrase something i heard here is 'jo bikhta hai wo hi dikta hai'. as long as viewers watch & support content like this, makers will keep selling it. further evidence of this is EK's top shows, that all have MLs displaying misogynistic, humiliating & abusing behaviour towards the FL, constantly have high ratings. their actions are always justified & the FL is expected to always forgive & forget. by watching regressive content like this, viewers are justifiying the MLs behaviour 😔 some responsibility should be taken by the viewers.
however makers do have some responsibility to provide shows with better content & social messages. everyone has a small responsibility towards communities, the greater your influence the greater the responsibility should be. I'm glad some makers & channels do make social dramas with a message, different content based shows & even some with a strong FL. it's such a shame that these are few & far between & not the norm 🤔
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