Why Bajaj distanced himself from Kukki - Page 2

Originally posted by: WaqtZaya

So Bajaj has sort of isolated himself even more from receiving love and affection.

The fact that he has isolated himself even more from receiving love and affection is only because he feels responsible for not being able to save sneha. He was a parent too who cares about sneha, which is why he had named property on her name.

It is how he mourns, unable to express his feelings 💔

As per Kuki, she is already 16/18 she has been a single child for so long. Already how her father is distant with her affects her, now with Sneha it will intensity.

Bill to Bajju pe hi phatega. 🥺😆

His inability to express his love and affection has just got deeper over the years and that’s so heartbreaking. He deserves so much love😭 My heart aches seeing him so selfless about everything when it comes to Prerna.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I understand what you are trying to say but I have a different take on Bajaj's relationship with Kuki

Mr. Bajaj is a man who doesn't believe in gestures which can not be purchased by money, you won't see him gifting handmade cards, spending family time etc. His form of affection comes from things he can get for people he loves, he can spend crores on them that's how he functions

Kuki's form of affection is someone who spends time with her, hugs her, kisses her etc Even when she was a child, Bajaj always got things like Teddy to make her feel better, a child was happy with these things and he would ask kisses and kiss her in return but now that she has grown up Bajaj can't ask her for kisses or kiss her, there's a boundary respecting personal space between teenage girl and their fathers.

Bajaj is still the same, minus hugs and kisses, he understands she wants to go to India, he gave huge donation for her admission, that's his way of showing love and affection but Kuki has changed, she expects a friend in her father, which Bajaj is not, he is not comfortable with letting his guard down in front of anyone, he reads people but he is afraid of people knowing him too much

The change in relationship is inevitable as Kuki is a grown up and Bajaj's approach towards her is as it was when she was a child

That's my father too, He would get anything for us, we could buy anything we want but he wouldn't know what was my major in college, we didn't really share relationship like friendship. In fact in most Indian households this is the case, I remember my friend's father would come home at 2 and we used to play video games on her computer, the moment we would hear his car, we would hide our game under the bed 😂 Kuki - Bajaj relationship is very normal for me and my background

Every word of this. 💯

Just things to add is that when Bajaj does the same with Sneha, she will blast 😆

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I understand what you are trying to say but I have a different take on Bajaj's relationship with Kuki

Mr. Bajaj is a man who doesn't believe in gestures which can not be purchased by money, you won't see him gifting handmade cards, spending family time etc. His form of affection comes from things he can get for people he loves, he can spend crores on them that's how he functions

Kuki's form of affection is someone who spends time with her, hugs her, kisses her etc Even when she was a child, Bajaj always got things like Teddy to make her feel better, a child was happy with these things and he would ask kisses and kiss her in return but now that she has grown up Bajaj can't ask her for kisses or kiss her, there's a boundary respecting personal space between teenage girl and their fathers.

Bajaj is still the same, minus hugs and kisses, he understands she wants to go to India, he gave huge donation for her admission, that's his way of showing love and affection but Kuki has changed, she expects a friend in her father, which Bajaj is not, he is not comfortable with letting his guard down in front of anyone, he reads people but he is afraid of people knowing him too much

The change in relationship is inevitable as Kuki is a grown up and Bajaj's approach towards her is as it was when she was a child

That's my father too, He would get anything for us, we could buy anything we want but he wouldn't know what was my major in college, we didn't really share relationship like friendship. In fact in most Indian households this is the case, I remember my friend's father would come home at 2 and we used to play video games on her computer, the moment we would hear his car, we would hide our game under the bed 😂 Kuki - Bajaj relationship is very normal for me and my background

My father is the same too, I think most fathers are like that tbh. The only reason why Kukki-Bajaj’s scenario sounds slightly different is because Kukki herself says ‘kuch toh baat hai jo mujhe pata nahi’ which implies that there is more to the matter than him being a typical dad.

Originally posted by: WaqtZaya

This. This. This.

Every word of this. 💯

Just things to add is that when Bajaj does the same with Sneha, she will blast 😆

I was wondering if he is going to USA to meet Sneha, her track will start soon and what's the reason for Bajaj leaving India

Originally posted by: Reemz11

My father is the same too, I think most fathers are like that tbh. The only reason why Kukki-Bajaj’s scenario sounds slightly different is because Kukki herself says ‘kuch toh baat hai jo mujhe pata nahi’ which implies that there is more to the matter than him being a typical dad.

Yes, I found this ambiguous as well, my interpretation was that Bajaj is taking care of Sneha too that's why he is not able to spend as much time as he used to

I feel, bajaj has been busy so he may have got distanced from kuki.

Initially kukki just had him, so he gave her extra attention, plus she had a speech disability, therefore he gave her extra attention.

Now things are different, kukki has prerna now, bajaj kukki are no longer alone, so bajaj can afford to distance himself from her.

Kukki has got used to exclusive love and attention of prerna and bajaj.

Lets see how kukki adjusts when sneha comes in picture and she has to share prerna and bajaj with her.

After todays kukki pre conversation even I feel that sneha bajaj bond will form.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I understand what you are trying to say but I have a different take on Bajaj's relationship with Kuki

Mr. Bajaj is a man who doesn't believe in gestures which can not be purchased by money, you won't see him gifting handmade cards, spending family time etc. His form of affection comes from things he can get for people he loves, he can spend crores on them that's how he functions

Kuki's form of affection is someone who spends time with her, hugs her, kisses her etc Even when she was a child, Bajaj always got things like Teddy to make her feel better, a child was happy with these things and he would ask kisses and kiss her in return but now that she has grown up Bajaj can't ask her for kisses or kiss her, there's a boundary respecting personal space between teenage girl and their fathers.

Bajaj is still the same, minus hugs and kisses, he understands she wants to go to India, he gave huge donation for her admission, that's his way of showing love and affection but Kuki has changed, she expects a friend in her father, which Bajaj is not, he is not comfortable with letting his guard down in front of anyone, he reads people but he is afraid of people knowing him too much

The change in relationship is inevitable as Kuki is a grown up and Bajaj's approach towards her is as it was when she was a child

That's my father too, He would get anything for us, we could buy anything we want but he wouldn't know what was my major in college, we didn't really share relationship like friendship. In fact in most Indian households this is the case, I remember my friend's father would come home at 2 and we used to play video games on her computer, the moment we would hear his car, we would hide our game under the bed 😂 Kuki - Bajaj relationship is very normal for me and my background

This post perfectly describes the relationship I have with my father. I totally agree to everything you said!!! There was a time, specifically my teenage years when I hardly used to talk to my Dad but the underlying respect and love was always there from both sides. My Dad also can't express himself. So I can identify with Bajju here. Parental expression of love changes over a period of time. It can't be the same when the kid is 5 and 17/18.

Originally posted by: Wistfulness

Putting it all aside, I'm actually delighted to behold Kuki craving RB's attention. 😈

As I scroll , the first comment of u shruti and that's bang on ..

Kya sadistic relief hai humara 😈

A small conversation on screen and so many interpretations, thankfully with logic, acceptable and relatable in real life. You guys are amazing, all of you. I always have had problem understanding scenes especially KZK2, but threads like these make it so much easy to atleast get an idea of whats happening and where all this might lead to. Baki CVs ki ramayan to wahi jante hain.

I think while trying to emotionally support Prerna, trying to take care of a mother who just lost her child by getting her closer to Kukki, he has lost that bond with her daughter. This isn’t good. I wish he had tried doing so without tampering with that bond. This will get even worse once Sneha comes into picture. Kukki will then feel totally unloved, right now she just knows that Bajaj loves her, but there’s some reason keeping him away from her. Or who knows, maybe he’s just unable to express his love to her. I can’t imagine him being all lovey-dovey father to Kukki, tbh. He gave her extra attendance and love when she was young because obviously, she was a kid and had speech problems. That kind of love can’t be expressed to a 18 year old teen. Love changes, but it doesn’t go away.