Originally posted by: Npdeepa
He has a old school mentality like mother (oops step mother) like son. He wouldn’t have given a damn because the rejection was from the groom side.
Exactly 😆 moni I replied there but realised that thread reached the page limit so replying here
First of all my point was very simple here , I am not going into what would have happened if this and that n all ...m strictly analysing what happened and what was shown in the story and what was the reason behind it
There were two points that we were discussing
1. You said abir didnt want to get married at all
2. You said he wanted to get kunal married first
I just said that's not the case , at that point of time in his life he was busy finding some answers that marriage thing was on a back seat for him plus he believed in the idea of falling in love and was never an arrange marriage material , so not wanting to get married or getting kunal married first was never a thought for him
Yes in this journey to find baba , he found mishti and he connected with her like the way you explained, in first few meetings only that started connecting on a different level, more on an emotional level because both of them were suffering from deep abandonment issues, so their pain was something that connected them
may be in sub conscious level when he said that "samajh le yeh teri bhabhi ka hai " ...it was more a casual statement...because if he had realised it on a conscious level that he would have never been so keen for kunal mishti alliance...he only realised consciously that he loves mishti when he made that painting ...and that moment came after a long time ...so him telling teri bhabhi ka hai was just a casual statement for me ..nothing more nothing less
Yes that's what I said....directly and indirectly mishti became answers to his questions and vice versa , both of them were able to find a "home" in each other where they could express their pain and slowly the growing friendship made them realise that they are meant for each other...yes universe made them meet because that was their destiny after all
I never said shwet and kunal were in love, I still believe that even with kuhu , kunal is yet to realise the depth of love, I only said that kunal was "left by shwet" means he got rejected and that thing didnt go down well with him , there was a scene between abinal where kunal says " ladko ko bhi utna hi bura lagta hai jitna ladkiyon ko lagta hai , ek baar reject ho chuka hun , dobara nahi hona chahta" clearly he fears rejection ...the reason can be anything...like you said meenu made him a spoilt brat ....and somewhere he stopped sharing his emotional feelings and went into robot zone , inspite of having a father figure like abir , he never opened up about it and so I believe abir thought may be a friend , a new relationship will help him get over it , and that's why he was very keen with the alliance there
I was just explaining abir's thought process here nothing else
I am just making a point that it not like abir was not open for marriage or relationships but at that time there were certain things going on in his life thats all
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