@bold: I agree with you about what this new version of Babita would have done if she was still living in Ashok's house.....the lesson she seems to have learnt from all this is to hold on harder to her marriage and husband.
The reason she is unable to think about Mini's betterment right now is because the choices have changed.....all her life she's otherwise spent thinking of Mini only....pati toh tha hi nahin saath mein. Ab pati mil gaya hai and she's struggling with how to hold on to him and she wants Mini to fit into a box neatly and not create any trouble for her.....she's trying to be "assertive" in her own way but she's going about it all the wrong way.
In trying to stand up for herself, she has started brushing away all other viewpoints......and it may not have been an issue so much if her stance wasn't incorrect.....but she sadly doesn't see it right now.....khushfehmi hai as NB said.
As for HS ki helplessness....I've sort of reconciled myself to this character trait of his now.....whatever Babita he fell in love with, he doesn't have it in him to really keep the empowerment going post marriage....he fears if he tries to explain things to her now, she will take it the wrong way and throw away their whole marriage over it.......his "her life, her wish" philosophy has ultimately culminated like this.....he doesn't view marriage as a partnership to that extent.....he views marriage as "keep your wife happy at any cost...let her do whatever she wants".
@bold this is it... I guess he doesn't want to keep fighting to get her to that level because he sees her limitations too. I remember writing sometime back that I didn't think Babita was at his level of maturity and that it would take a long time for her to get to the point where she could be his confidante and real partner. Well, I guess the writers are trying to show that she won't ever get there and that HS will have to accept it and live with it.
It's a shame but I guess that's the compromise he's decided to make just so that he doesn't rock the boat and the two of them can live in peace. I don't know how long it'll be before he feels suffocated but I guess he will just stop having the same kind of zest for life, especially with Minnie leaving on bad terms. Having said that, when the baby is born it will give him a sense of purpose and dare I say a distraction from Babita. Sure, he will have a void in his heart but he might think it better than living all alone. What he had with Imarti was it... He won't get that again and I don't think he expects to.
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