Originally posted by: Stardust91
He did promise to trust her but he was also very aware of his feelings from the first day; he knew that he had fallen for Bella and he did everything he could for her. At the wedding he said he would never let anything bad happen to her.
He did what he did because he wanted to; he wanted to marry her; he WANTED to trust her; he did keep saying to Bella that he trusts her and he will do anything for her but did she ask him that -- NOT until she realised that something was there and that she had fallen for him; when fake Yuvi vivaah was on ; Bela had already fallen for Mahir and his good ehart and his kindness and his love for her
He followed her around like a puppy dog; YES, in future we may realise that it was his powers that would lead him to Bella but till now all we see is a lovelorn guy promising his wife everything
Bella was going to come clean wasn't she -- she was scared he would leave her and he did exactly that -- he walked off; yes he was hurt but she was scared; he heard that she was molested and yet he said OH I WILL ASK Pratham
I am not saying that Bella is right and Mahirji is wrong; I am just saying that I need Mahirji to stand up for his love and realise that Bella was not wrong ebcause she did what she thought was justice in HER world; that is why she said that courts and the law are for normal humns not for her;
Was he upset that he had married a Naagin? I mean she is a Naagin but unlike Nagini she is not a Maledictus; All we see is a Bella trying and a Maahir hating her so to us it is as if he has forgotten her
She has cried and begged fr forgiveness and he did not want to hear💔
That's the thing.
She wanted to come clean but she was "scared". Wasn't it her CHOICE here just like how it was Mahir's to trust her? She made a "Choice" based on her fears, insecurities and experiences. If we can't fault Bela for the "choices" she made based on her life lessons how can we fault Mahir for taking the blow this way, because they also came from his deep-rooted fears and experiences.
He is scared of being cheated upon. He is scared of "other person" in the life of the partner. And Bela KNOWS about these fears. Since he knew that she knew he was SURE she wouldn't hurt him there. And what does he come to know?! She kept her ex-lover KNOWINGLY under his nose all along. What would the trigger of a person be who was emotionally damaged in this area?!
And we've always seen Mahir's coping mechanism towards emotional crisis or cheating is his mind shuts down for sometime till he processes it slowly and properly. Even during Bela's wrong confession he blew up and shut his mind and ears to her pleas, he had to run away, take time off, process the whole thing, then he came back to fight for her. That is exactly how he reacted here too... She was full of half-truths and lies all along, she MURDERED people, this is something AGAINST his moral compass, do you think he would even THINK of Bela as murderer and hoped to keep up his promises in the face of such truths?!
His reflex action was to be the "Fair guy". He took all her information as JUST information and judged it fairly. Why should he take her words at face value?! On what basis?! There are too many emotions overpowering, before he could feel rage at the deeds of his brothers, he was immediately hit with the fact that he was already punished for it in the form of death by this very person!
Any sane human being would need TIME to process all this... above that he gets hit by truth of her "different" world. This is BRAND NEW information for HIM, we knew she was Naagin, but he doesn't. How would he immediately jump to understanding things in her Naagin POV?!
Imagine if Mahir turned out a supernatural creature who faked memory loss coz he had to hide his identity for some reason & killed Nmom, would you blame Bela for getting angry initially for hiding it from her?! Even if he told her that Nmom was harmful/fake? Wouldn't Bela want to find it out about her mom n be shaken that Mahir lied such a huge thing?! And here half of his family is wiped out... Innocents like Bultu's GF and ACP were dead. And above all, the guy for whom she apparently killed is alive n his very house with her knowledge. What would any SANE person do?!
You know, you can make promises and vouch to live by them, but they should COMPLY with your MORAL compass. Mahir TRUSTED Bela is not someone who would challenge his MORALS and PRINCIPLES! If you have to go against them to keep your promises, then one would make sure it is worth it by reasoning about it.
Edited by crusty - 6 years ago
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