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I loved Arjun today. I would say the highlight of the episode was the last part between Adhi and Arjun where Arjun asked Adhi to move on. Instead of thinking about his friend, he has to think about himself. He has to wash away his pain for allowing love to come in.
Yes it is the truth. He has to close the past. His relation with Pooja. He has to understand they were never meant to be.They were not even real friends as they never understood what the other wanted.They were in school got together and maybe Pooja was Adhi's coping mechanism for what happened in his teenage. He got used to her, to get over his loneliness with the family.
In nutshell when his parents didnt meet his expectations he stopped them giving the respect of being a parent especially his mom, where he placed Sakshi Pooja's mom above her.
Arjun told there are two sides of any issue.But I would say there are three sides. One your perspective, one the other person's perspective, third the truth which lies somewhere between these two perspectives.
I always say life is not black or white. It is grey. You just need to decide which side of the grey you are. Dusk or Dawn. Dusk that destroys as night comes with it or dawn that lightens up your day. Dusk looks pleasant and dawn dark. If you go by looks you end up with dusk and self destruction. If you feel, you will understand dawn and follow it for a new brighter day.
And Arjun told the most important point today. We are humans. Mistakes happen to us. We have to stop treating humans as Gods. Whether it is mother,father, teacher everyone is human and can make mistakes.Only difference is how they deal with their mistakes. Do they accept it or do they cover it up. That attitude makes them God or devil. A human cannot be God by birth, by position, by wealth, by role, by words. He can only become God or devil through actions.
And the most important criterion for God is deliver on the trust of the person who holds your hand. Go any extend to protect that trust.
When Ram crossed the ocean and waged the war, he was delivering on Sita's trust. When Krishna created the illusion of sunset on 14th day he was delivering on the trust of Arjun who chose him and not his power.
Adhi has to undertake this journey.For that he has to forgive Pooja for whatever she has done. She chose the wrong path whatever be her motive and whatever Sakshi try to establish, Pooja might have had problems with Adi but whatever she did with him was not right. She didnt even tell him once she was unhappy in the marriage, she cannot go on like this. Not even once giving Adhi the false security.
But for Adhi to move forward he was to forgive. Kyunki shayad insaan maaf nahi kar saktha, par bhagvan maaf kar saaktha hai and I feel he will when he gets that love.
Bade Achhe Lagte Hain
Anupamaa
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
