The curious case of Aru's ill-timed joke 27.7.17

Really i cudnt get the rhyme or reason behind Aru's such ill-timed joke on Mukhi..

I am utterly confused as for the most part, for me it looked seriously real.. Aru's tears looked real.. her concern looked real.. damn.. that background music too made it luk so real.. tht i was compelled to think tht it might jst b Mukhi's petrified dream.. as it seemed so out of place in course of day before yesterday's epi events..🤔

bt to my utter bafflement.. it wasnt the case..😆 in fact.. till she threatened and turned to go i was damn sure she wasnt acting all fake.. and something did really happen.. bt tht our logic said it cudnt have been Mukhi.. and also the facts ( 1. His open clothes.. 2. She was on top of him 3. She closed in on him for a kiss on his cheeks) pointed tht the culprit cud b Aru.. (tho thr was equal probability of happening as Aru had suggested later 😳 )

bt the way she accused Mukhi i thot may b the recording didnt record the whole thing.. bt i cannot fathom who in the CVs team got this absurd/weird idea of making it all a joke out of a serious situation.. Was it bcoz the track was changed overnight from an intimate-make-out scene to nothing-doing scene bcoz of the 7 p.m. slot? And hence thy vainly tried to salvage the scene and situation? Or really something happened betn the two and Mukhi really did something naughty tht Aru was really upset abt.. bt tht his heartfelt apology melted her heart and she cudnt blame mukhi for doing something which deep down his heart had desired (we saw tht in the kiss scene yesterday 😆) bt he didnt actually mean to do it..

Somehow thy made a total mess of the logic behind tht scene tho the saving grace was how it was ended and everyone cud forget and forgive CVs and Aru for the mess/confusion thy created..

Well.. All's well that ends well. So let the peace prevail..😆

Now coming back to the issue of accusations and mistrust by Aru.. well i didnt feel that bad for Mukhi becoz 1. The accusations werent one way. He too did accuse her. so thy were on equal grounds for me and i have no complaints abt it 😆 2. Mukhi did instigate Aru in thinking on tht line by imprudently and prematurely talking abt the jhumkas right after the much affecting dori scene.. 😆 which clearly set Aru's mind running in tht direction and dbting Mukhiji's intentions.. coz deep down he is a man and a husband and the way he was staring at his beautiful wife getting ready, talking abt jhumkas, stroking her back.. it cast an instant fear in Aru's mind tht her husband was trying to jump into things too soon and invoke a consent out of her by using such indirect tactics 😆.. cant believe Aru's mind ran in superspeed in tht direction 😆😆 bt at least we shud give Aru credit tht she thot tht her husband was capable enuf of having such ashleel thots abt his own wife..😆😆


so as i said, initially tho it all started in a good spirited light hearted fight, it did end up being a serious thing for Mukhi (and us) and Aru's (and Niyati's) annoying (and not so cute) antics didnt help the matter in making the scene look light hearted and fun as Mukhi (and Eijaz) had made it sound..

OMG his dialogues were so hilarious in th day before yesterday's epis.. (barring tht cringeworthy thumka and mukhi's ghonghat mein sharmana) tht i cudnt stop laughing even on rewatch.. so the epi was overall good except of course the end scene.. which i had completely dismissed tht day thinking tht it was just mukhi's very bad dream..😆 bt to our utter horror it turned out to b a really badly executed faking/mocking scene.. 😆.. it looked too real to b fake.. 🤣

But we know tht both Aru and Mukhi r having such "ashleel" thots running in the back of thr mind.. hence such jhaghda abt it..😆 and we saw in yesterday's epi.. tht even Mukhi is not so dudh-ka-dhula-hua afterall.. 😆 deep down he does desire his wife's kissy...😆 and thrs nothing wrong in it.. we all fantasize abt lot of weird absurd eccentric even immoral things sometimes bt tht doesnt mean our conscience is not clear or tht our outwardly conduct wud not b appropriate.. human mind is meant to explore all possibilities (whether in fantasy or in real world) and only after tht experience and data gathering can it make a sound judgement call about life's important decisions, call right out from wrong, and buck itself up for its own future well being.

So when it comes to our conduct we always follow our heart while taking guidance from our rational mind.. i think Aru did the right thing by accepting her mistake.. she got carried away by both the bhang thing and Mukhi's mention of jhumkas bt in the end she understood tht her man cudnt b blamed.. he is sau tuch khara sona! And that her man loves her immensely to do anything wrong with her..

and yes i didnt like and dont like men or women or anyone for tht matter begging for something in any relationship.. may b its my thing and many ppl dont see it tht way.. thy see it more as an intimate haq or ultimate devotion in a relationship.. and anyways it didnt sound so bad when Mukhi uttered it bcoz Aru's reaction was genuine to it.. so i am really not bothered abt it anyway.. so let it b.. forgive and forget.. like our pyaara Mukhiji does.. ❤️

also song of the day...

Ajj din chadheya
Tere rang varga
Phul sa hai khila aaj din

Rabba mere din yeh na dhale
Woh jo mujhe khwab mein mile
Use tu lagade ab gale
Tenu dil da vaasta

Rabba aaya dar digaar ke
Sara jahan chod chaad ke
Mere sapne sawar de
Tenu dil da vasta

Ajj din chadheya
Tere rang varga


p.s.: did u all notice.. tht Mukhi kumar is now habituated with Aru's morning chid chid.. and has learnt how to work around it.. 😆.. our Mukhi kumar is becoming a typical hubby and Aru a typical chid chid karnewali nagging messy wife who doesnt like her hubby interfering in her daily morning routine or hindering her much-needed sleep with his untimely but utterly kind and lovable gestures.. this buddhukumar Mukhi reminds me so much of my hubby.. 😆 tho their intentions r right thy r so ill timed.. tht i get more frustrated and irritated than Aru.. bt his one genuine smile or some kind little words or awe-invoking gestures melt my heart.. and can easily forgive if he opens up the window for my good "sehat" even tho it disturbs my much-wanted restful sleep.. 😆😆

and btw.. we didnt know tht Aru has changed so drastically after being in amboli gaanv.. aisa chid chid vo ahmedabad mein to nahi karti thi... she was such chirpy rushed person in the morning.. lagta hai.. amboli gaanv ki vellapanti ne uss ke dimag pe asar karna shuru kar diya hai.. pata nahi dupatte ka kaam start kiya ya nahi. chalo at least ye toilet abhiyaan to shuru kiya.. tht wud keep her mind busy and we will not see her doing anymore chid chid..😆😆😆

p.p.s. Mannu said it cud b bhaang ka aftereffects.. which can stay for a couple of days.. raam jaane.. i have never tasted any such intoxicating drinks.. so i cannot really tell abt the lasting aftereffects of bhaang..

Chalo now back to answering some other posts.. @Miri @Radha @Sub will tell if I can update from next week onwards.. but u r doing a v grt job.. and I might jst continue to chip in with occasional posts.. how abt tht? 😳

Another super post on this topic Vio!

Excellent post as usual .

Originally posted by: malkasub

Another super post on this topic Vio!

I just replied to AD. Copying and pasting

Here's my takeon the teasing and maafi.

From Mukhi's side... it wasreal. He thought that there must have been something on the video that Aru is upset about and wants to leave. Wanting to leave obviously means that something really objectionable must have hurt her... that's what he's thinking at that moment. Thus the emotion, the tears, the maafi and finally the relief.

Another thing here is that she was already going hyper on him for any and everything... so when she started off on him...with proof...mind you, then what other reaction could we expect from Mukhi. Mukhi is a person with no superego to go all out on her for playing with his feelings... he is a genuine pure hearted soul, that just felt relief that she wasn't leaving him. Just love this man and enjoyed his genuine show of love!❤️

I'm someone who does not enjoy the candid shows or practical jokes or any other show which sometimes hurts the others sentiments for the fun of it. This is precisely the one and only reason that I did not enjoy Aru pulling his leg. But Aru being Aru, we can only expect the unexpected!

yeah.. Mukhi's reaction was so appropriate and totally in his character.. he is so self less and ego less tht he has no qualms in going down on his knees and begging for her forgiveness if he thinks he did the wrong thing.. jst becoz his wife is so much hurt from it.. ❤️❤️

thr is something very very adorable.. abt men who cant see thr wives cry.. and wud go any length to pacify thm.. accept any unjust accusation to jst see thm smile.. 👍🏼 tho we think tht such wives r misusing thr trust and genuineness via tears.. bt I think such wives jst need assurance tht thy r being absolutely loved inspite of everything.. and mind u.. such wives remain utterly loyal to thr husband till the end of thr lives.. and such relationships strengthen over time.. coz here thr love is not based on some proofs or facts.. its based on utter and absolute faith on each other.. 👍🏼

and I think Aru Mukhi r getting to tht point... ❤️

its jst tht bcoz mukhi is such a genuine and adorable person we are naturally biased towards him.. 😆 bt thr is a reason why he loves aru so much.. and we and sometimes even Aru forgets her typical characteristic traits.. 😆

I too don't support garnering sadistic pleasure by seeing someone suffer due to thr practical joke.. bt here I didn't find Aru doing tht.. tho I agree it was borderline bt still she didn't seem to cross the limit and jst held her reigns on time.. thankfullly

bt I don't know how wud Mukhi ever understand her fake tears out of her real tears if she acts so genuine.. 😆 kahin vo baagh aya baagh aya jaisa situation na ho jaaye.. wen she is genuinely in tears.. Mukhi wud think she is faking it.. if it happens, only Aru wud b blamed for it.. 😆

Jaisi karni waise bharni hogi tab.. aur kya.. .. 😆

So yes I disapprove of Aru's such weird idea abt joking on bhole Bhandari mukhiji.. 😆 bt I give it to her vella mind.. tht's jst wandering around aimlessly doing such frivolous stupid antics.. 😆 😆 😆

Originally posted by: mannu100

Excellent post as usual .

U said it all and exactly I don't know aru changed so much and my main problem was that..

Similarly rami and rami ke dekh sakti hai meri aankhein baba has return ...ummm not a good sign..

And top of it do you remember arus dialougue in mukhis and dharmishtas mehandi where mukhi challenges aru gayone kuch din bita ke bata tik payegi??

Aru main to tik jayongi lekin mujhe dar hai kagi apki bhagwan ki gaddi na chin jayey?

And mukhis the epic devil exp oh god I can't forget that exp till now.

And with this toilet issue things are moving in that direction

Suddenly its so stupid that mukhi got award from president and there is no toilet in his village...

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Do CVS want me to believe I am watching the show from the start..

And I remeber that the village as a common toilet in the market which was used by every body..

And suddenly lota leke kheto me agaya wah wah wah..

They are paving for the ultimate showdown btw aru and mukhi..

Matlab kuch bhi bakwasss..

And rami is there to blow the wind...like seriously???

dekh-sakti-hai-meri-ankhein baba is for our comic respite.. 😆 rest assured abt tht..😆

I have no fear from any Dharmi Anshuls or Raami.. our ArMu can fight thm all out.. remember the jalebi scene? And the dialogue? 😳 thy will pass all tests with flying colors.. ❤️ as I said bhatti mein tap kar hi koyla sona banta hai.. wats the fun in this life if not for trials tribulations and our constant adventurous courageous fight against it? Wudnt it b soo boring, monotonous.. its so relative dukh mein hi sukh ki value samajh aati hai.. thus.. aise agnipareeksha pass kar ke hi true love ki value samajh aayegi.. 😳

yeah.. I agree ke Mukhi shudnt get president's award if he doesn't have toilet suvidha in village.. bt when did he get the award? coz this toilet-zumbesh/abhiyaan is a more recent phenomenon.. and only recent governments r actively working on it.. bringing financial schemes in support of building toilets in all villages so its possible for him to get award without providing this basic necessity for his villagers...

bt yeah if it was mentioned tht amboli had a common toilet in earlier epis.. thn it surely is a blooper..

bt I m happy tht thy r addressing this vital issue in support of "jahan soch, wahaan sochalay" campaign..

even mahatma Gandhi said.. "Perfect sanitation makes an ideal village' " "A lavatory must be as clean as a drawing-room" so yes a Gandhi-bhakt Mukhi shud've followed his idol's preachings..
😳 I hope Aru invokes Gandhi in her arguments to disarm Mukhi...😉 😛

and do u know a really sad pratha in relation to this defecation.. in older times as even rich ppl didn't have this facility of toilets.. thr was this pratha of "mela dhona" where in the harijans or untouchables.. daily carried the defecation of the rich ppl to dispose of to faraway places.. thy did this most noblest thing and yet thy were termed untouchables bcoz of the fear associated with the disease acquired due to thm coming into direct contact with such unhygienic things.. while sanitation and hygiene issue was right reason for the "untouchability" in view of public health (which is termed as isolation and quarantization in today's world).. bt this inhuman "pratha" of untouchability is still continued today without any logical or medical rhyme and reason behind it.. 🤔

many such traditions r followed blindly even today.. the other being the untouchability or impurity of women in their monthly period phase..🤔

in no ancient scriptures its written tht women cannot enter a garb gruh of a temple to pray while in thr menstruating phase.. I wish thy take up this issue as well.. 👍🏼

I have boldly and proudly defied this tradition.. and no the sky has not befallen on me.. 😃 nor r gods angry on my poor soul! 😆

Where I live... around 20 years back it was blasphemy to have a toilet attached to the bedroom. No nothing about the tulsi in the angan. It was just a simple reason that was given. How can you sleep and defecate within the same space???

Originally posted by: violette

dekh-sakti-hai-meri-ankhein baba is for our comic respite.. 😆 rest assured abt tht..😆

I have no fear from any Dharmi Anshuls or Raami.. our ArMu can fight thm all out.. remember the jalebi scene? And the dialogue? 😳 thy will pass all tests with flying colors.. ❤️ as I said bhatti mein tap kar hi koyla sona banta hai.. wats the fun in this life if not for trials tribulations and our constant adventurous courageous fight against it? Wudnt it b soo boring, monotonous.. its so relative dukh mein hi sukh ki value samajh aati hai.. thus.. aise agnipareeksha pass kar ke hi true love ki value samajh aayegi.. 😳

yeah.. I agree ke Mukhi shudnt get president's award if he doesn't have toilet suvidha in village.. bt when did he get the award? coz this toilet-zumbesh/abhiyaan is a more recent phenomenon.. and only recent governments r actively working on it.. bringing financial schemes in support of building toilets in all villages so its possible for him to get award without providing this basic necessity for his villagers...

bt yeah if it was mentioned tht amboli had a common toilet in earlier epis.. thn it surely is a blooper..

bt I m happy tht thy r addressing this vital issue in support of "jahan soch, wahaan sochalay" campaign..

even mahatma Gandhi said.. "Perfect sanitation makes an ideal village' " "A lavatory must be as clean as a drawing-room" so yes a Gandhi-bhakt Mukhi shud've followed his idol's preachings..
😳 I hope Aru invokes Gandhi in her arguments to disarm Mukhi...😉 😛

and do u know a really sad pratha in relation to this defecation.. in older times as even rich ppl didn't have this facility of toilets.. thr was this pratha of "mela dhona" where in the harijans or untouchables.. daily carried the defecation of the rich ppl to dispose of to faraway places.. thy did this most noblest thing and yet thy were termed untouchables bcoz of the fear associated with the disease acquired due to thm coming into direct contact with such unhygienic things.. while sanitation and hygiene issue was right reason for the "untouchability" in view of public health (which is termed as isolation and quarantization in today's world).. bt this inhuman "pratha" of untouchability is still continued today without any logical or medical rhyme and reason behind it.. 🤔

many such traditions r followed blindly even today.. the other being the untouchability or impurity of women in their monthly period phase..🤔

in no ancient scriptures its written tht women cannot enter a garb gruh of a temple to pray while in thr menstruating phase.. I wish thy take up this issue as well.. 👍🏼

I have boldly and proudly defied this tradition.. and no the sky has not befallen on me.. 😃 nor r gods angry on my poor soul! 😆

Originally posted by: Mihrimah

"bt at least we shud give Aru credit tht she thot tht her husband was capable enuf of having such ashleel thots abt his own wife.."

jabki hum ummeed chodh chuke the🤣

I loved his pyaar hua iqraar hua sapna..arey humare Mukhiji jawan hogaye😳ashlil sapne dekhrahe hai aajkal☺️😎

"so the epi was overall good except of course the end scene.. which i had completely dismissed tht day thinking tht it was just mukhi's very bad dream..😆bt to our utter horror it turned out to b a really badly executed faking/mocking scene..😆.. it looked too real to b fake..🤣"

Dekho I was the one who said Aru was just pulling his legs..😎kyukii main ussko janti hu...😆she wont leave any mauka to tease him..but with Mukhi's confession it turned out beautiful

"@Miri @Radha @Sub will tell if I can update from next week onwards.. but u r doing a v grt job.. and I might jst continue to chip in with occasional posts.. how abt tht? "

no way! u must return as soon as possible..u give the best update..⭐️waiting for u desperately..more desperately than Aru waits for Mukhiji's ashlilta☺️😆

Dekha gaurani ke confidence ka asar.. siddha lips.. pata nahi aagey mukhiji kya kya sochenge.. waiting for him to do full ashleeltagiri... 😆

yaar Miri.. ye Aru ko na tu hi samajh sakti hai.. mere bas ki baat nahi.. na sir na per.. muh utha ke joke maarne chali gayi.. vo to accha hai.. ye hamare acche saache aur man se baache Mukhiji the.. jinhone pyaar bhi jata diya aur haq bhe de diya.. bas ab Aru ki baari hai..

De de De.. De De saiba ko uska haq tu de de..

na maange sona chandi na mange hire mote.. bas mange ek uska haq

jhumke tu pehen le.. haq unka de de..

de de de.. de de saib ko uska haq tu de de..

😎

chal jhutthi.. jitna intezaar Aru ko mukhiji ki ashleelta ka hai.. utna intezaar to kisi ko nahi hoga.. 😆 😆

haan agar Mukhiji jhumko se pehle meherbaan ho jaaye to kuch aur baat hai.. 😳

hi, great review of Aru's temperamental humour. The only show which until now (for me) had the realistic shades of emotions, was a bit shaky yesterday with Aru's weird humour at the wrong instance & Rami-Baba's black interlude of 'Amavas' coming up. I was just hoping I can get to the end of a single show without quitting..but now not sure.