What is an ABLA NAARI? POV on Why Anika Is NO Abla Naari![VB :pg 12] - Page 5

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Posted: 8 years ago
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@TM:

By bringing Om into this discussion you have just shown your bias against him, and I think you imply that people who are criticizing Annika for suddenly wanting to "fulfill" this forceful marriage because of the importance she gives to Mangalsutra and Sindoor are Om fans!


I think this is a very limited view. I gave my opinion as a fan of the show, not an Om fan. In fact, I am more a Rudra fan. But yes I like Om, because his character is "Real!". The things he faced have actually happened to people. I myself know such a person. I don't think that time in the pool he actually attempted suicide, he himself told that to Shivaay. But even if he DID, that does not make him an "Abala Mard", because, despite your flippant attitude towards it, depression is a real disease that a lot of people suffer with and some even commit suicide because of it. It's got nothing to do with mental weakness. Men are more susceptible to it than women. That is a fact. As for the Live in GF? I think that was poor writing. It was never implied at the start that Ridhimma had ever lived in London with Om. But suddenly they said they had stayed together. Poor writing to justify their track.


The SAME is happening with Annika. She was someone who never cared for traditions and didn't even really believe in God much. (Unlike Gul's previous heroines with their Devi Mayya and Allah Miya). It was a refreshing change. But suddenly she wants to teach Shivaay a lesson, so she is living in OM fighting for the Sindoor ki Haq? After being insulted so badly, if she wanted to FIGHT she should have called the Police on Shivaay! THAT is fighting for your rights. Not acting as his wife in the house, and fighting with a Vamp for her rights, while to the outside world Tia is Shivaay's wife and she is just an employee? How is that keeping her self-respect? Sorry, but they have shown Annika in a weak light just so they can get TRP by showing she is the Mahaan Bahu fighting the new Shagun!


@Toota-Shisha:

Even I enjoyed the scene where Om stood up to ACP, and that scene proved he is willing to do anything for his family too.
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#42
Om is a hypocrite...a class A hypocrite...kept shouting that he would choose truth over family when he had already chosen his sister over truth...there was no shame,no sense of hypocrisy in his eyes when he screamed to ishana that he would choose truth over family.
He never tries to understand anybody else...did not try to understand ishana...same should happen to him too.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Anika is a despo .omkara is a hypocrite
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: JaiJaiIraniMata

Om is a hypocrite...a class A hypocrite...kept shouting that he would choose truth over family when he had already chosen his sister over truth...there was no shame,no sense of hypocrisy in his eyes when he screamed to ishana that he would choose truth over family.

He never tries to understand anybody else...did not try to understand ishana...same should happen to him too.


I thought TM said this is not about Om.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Kudos to you for making this post ! Neha (If I can call you with your name).



People expecting a war should just wait and watch before jumping to premature conclusions.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: JaiJaiIraniMata

Om is a hypocrite...a class A hypocrite...kept shouting that he would choose truth over family when he had already chosen his sister over truth...there was no shame,no sense of hypocrisy in his eyes when he screamed to ishana that he would choose truth over family.

He never tries to understand anybody else...did not try to understand ishana...same should happen to him too.



The reason why Om is looking like a hypocrite is the same reason Annika is looking desperate. Character assassination! During the Ishana track they had never even thought of this Priyanka track with the hit and run! So when he said he will choose truth over family, it was true of their future track at the time. But then, they scrapped Ishana. Brought in this ACP-Priyanka and Om hit and run case. Suddenly Om is a hypocrite and it is true, he does look like one.


The same way Annika is looking like a weak desperate woman clinging to a marriage with no meaning with a man who doesn't respect her. The writers poor writing and changing tracks, change the "Truth" of a character at any given time. I can accept that is what they have done to Om. It's time to accept that is what they have done to Annika as well. There is no point of denying it and acting like Annika's character has not been butchered because it has. For TRP.


The only character who is still consistent is Rudra. I wonder what they do to him in the future? Maybe that's the day I will never want to watch the show again. ATM I am in WU mode. Can't actually tolerate the episodes these days. Time to face the truth, both Om and Annika have been butchered and I think Annika is getting it worse right now. Also this topic was never about Om. It was about Annika but TM chose to bring Om into it, in a totally irrelevant context!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Echo.of.Hope

Okay,So this topic has so many long posts. All I could get myself to read was the TM's post and that too just the first part.

We all know you hate Om and yet again you took an opportunity to disparage him.

So Abla Naari means a helpless woman which Anika is acting as. It goes against her beginning character which I actually liked. She has leverage against Shivay and she behaves helpless.

Om isn't Abla Mard. I know you said that to get away from pain he uses drugs but I don't understand how that make shim helpless. Yes, he hid the truth from everyone else because he promised Prinku and as a brother, he would do anything for his sister. She is family. We all have exceptions and the exceptions for ShivKara on their beliefs is family. I'm glad about that. Om isn't helpless.

Anyways, if you really wanted to take an example of Abla Mard then 'Raghav' of Pardes Mein... is an example that actually fits the title. I'm just saying.




I didn't even read wat all u wrote, ur first 2 lines are enough, and I don't need to justify anything to u...U can keep assuming that I hate Om and keep writing more on this post 😆 Peacequeen back at her work 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Toota_ShiSha

To each to their own I guess ...funny how our pov's never meet

About Om ...suicide and drugs were d easy option he took and his drug track isn't yet unfolded completely ...he might have taken d girl to a hospital ...there must be a strong reason y he's hiding dis fact ...And yeah Om wasn't a strong character previously his family conditions might have broken him but d accident might be d breaking point ...after his Bros rescuing him and he himself achieving his own name and fame through his art might have boosted his confidence ...Om is a Phoenix who has risen from d ashes of his own mistakes...He might be an abla previously but now he ain't one cause now he wants to fight d battles ( why he wants to take d blame ) ...He might be a coward once but now he's ready to face ACP

This is wat I've gotten from whatever was shown on Om I would love if his drug track is shown similar to dis but as he is an " sidekick" least expectations


Anika's character is depressing people cause she was shown as an alpha female now she doesn't look dat way ...although I would want her to become her previous self dis giving back to tia isn't d way ( for me at least ) ...coming to accepting the marriage and ur views on it I'll strongly disagree I for one have no trust in dis so called marriage system so even if I marry ( parents wish) if d guy is anywhere like shiv I wouldn't stick there a single day and make a living for myself and not going to my parents ...I've accepted dis part in my brain I'd rather stay single then being in such relation ...cause marriage too is a part of life I wouldn't let it define my whole life

My POV and I accept ur likes but d reason for d backlash on shivIka was showing these type is leaving a bad taste on some TV viewers ...on d contrary I can get wat Om went through I myself went in depression and yes d suicide thoughts did come up ...so people who did went through dis would know dat yes it is cowardly only if you've given up



Funny how u urself came saying to me on my posts and otherwise too, thrice, that our POVs on Shivika matched...anyway!

Thanks for replying calmly and just like u said, Om is like Phoenix, people believe the same for Anika too!

She might have been depressing for 2-3 days but now she is back and slowly will be completely her real self!

Our beliefs in the institution of marriage differ...we can agree to disagree!

I still don't believe the reason of depression for Om's behavior coz its not just the suicide attempt, wat he did with Riddhima, the way he is hiding the accident truth and many other small things for which he didn't take a stand!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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THIS IS NOT A BASHING POST AND THOSE WHO ARE COMING WITH WORDS LIKE HATERS< BASHERS MAY PLEASE STAY AWAY!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Divine-Pearl

As far as I remember abla naari means a helpless woman


Anika is not the one, she's pretending to be the one

Whatever you mentioned about om, he looks like a culprit, Anika was a victim. Since when culprit needs to fight back? It's victim who needs to take a stand.



She is not pretending to be a helpless woman! She is fighting for herself and and even if she was a victim of circumstances, now she is fighting back...maybe I see it differently but I can notice her standing up for herself wenever needed, not giving into unjustified demands anymore and that's wat is expected of her!

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