Originally posted by: MoonBow.
Wow sound so familiar. Politics - even Hopes & Ambitions was. But this had no blog...
Haha I actually hate writers who put on private blogs. Im the type of reader who will disappear for 2-3 months on you cos I cant seem to connect but may come back like anytime. So I need your blog virtual doors open at all times..
Oh that's just too much work and kudos to u for that. I had one similar incident before.. and I stopped reading all of the writer's stories.. I would somehow never wanna know a writer personally. That would spoil all my respect and adulation for their character. If they have a weird concocted tale about why their ArHi are a certain way..
Im a weird reader.. I cant predict what I will like as well.. But I know what I don't.. I absolutely hate it when they change some core aspects of Arnav.. Or khushi. I don't care if your Arnav doesn't like Red but he should be sensitive to Khushi's tears. Its a given for me. Like if u deviate from that, then u have lost me as a reader. Which is super easy..
I love stories where there is a lot of monologues and little dialogues. Like Anonymous's Making khushi mine 1&2. I think its still my top Arhi there. I adore them 😆
I know what you mean. I'm not the kind of person who takes sadness easily. For the longest time ever I was a super sad person myself. Things would affect me so quickly. It is only recently that I've grown onto the positivity around me and held onto it. It isn't very easy because I tend to latch onto sadness very quickly and so I have to consciously keep making an effort to tell myself to hold onto the positive vibes.
For 2 complete years my psychology teacher at school kept saying "You attract what you feel". It was something she kept saying when we would complaint about not liking a topic of study and hope it didn't come during the exam. At that time she kept saying "how about instead of saying you hope something doesn't come, say you hope something you like does come". It took me some time, but I had consciously kept telling myself these words and thinking in a different way, and that was when I grasped the concept of "you attract positivity by thinking positively"
So when I read sad stuff, I either prefer leaving it or if the deed already has been done and I can feel the sadness grow onto me, then I decide to pep talk with myself and tell myself that it was okay to cry over things but it is also important to stop letting things affect me the way they do.
I still struggle at times with the whole positive vibes things, and recently, with my best friend being diagnosed with depression, I've tried to be her backbone as much as I can. I tell her how its so important to stop crying over all the things you've gone through and start thanking and appreciating that they happened. It's important for experiences to be just that, experiences. We all have bad experiences, I've had so many in my life. I've gone through hell when I had a split with my best friend of 5 years over a guy who didn't even matter. But now that I look back, I thank that experience for teaching me that being emotionally attached to a person and being dependent on a person are 2 things that are poles apart. The things that I had once cried upon, I look back and smile, sometimes at how ridiculous they were and sometimes because each one of them has taught me something different that I will keep with myself for life
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