Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@Arshics if you read my first post, you will understand I was telling should men like Ravan be protected by chaste woman like Mandodari.
But if we have men like Raja Janak in life what is the harm in respecting or listening to them. They never take away our freedom. I only meant if men love and respect a woman, naturally a woman feels secure in the relation. She wont break the relation. If you see today large section of women not wanting marriage, divorces are related to lack of respect towards women. Society is blaming women's progression for this. But the fact is education has made women demand rights, while men are unable to move according to times.
And we also need to understand that for a stable society marriages has to work. And for that to work women has to defend themselves, choose the right men who are capable themselves and also know the value of the women in their life.
Women manage relations and it is in the success of a woman managing the relations the fabric of society lies. For that she needs to feel the relation not as bandhan, but as change.
I only meant Manu would have meant make women feel the relation as that of love and not that of bondage, then she will accept the relation and manage the relation for a better society
Not the way our current society intreprets. Subserviant women or abala nari. And you know me I am a hard core feminist and does not propagate abla naris and cry babies as the ideal womenππ
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