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putti77

@putti77

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Posted: 8 years ago

Now I am pissed off😡 with Appa. What is everyone's problem... They are blowing the things out of proportion... As he left her alone for an year...
Appa why you are calling Ranjan? He is not responsible for this situation...
Did you accept Ranjan's proposal when he propsed II for Dude...Nahi na...it is only when Dude proposed and you knew your daughter not going marry anyone else, you went ahead ahead with marriage..Then why he is answerable...

Go and blame your daughter...

You were ready to send her US but not to Paris.. She could have ended in home without job there...she can atleast work in Paris...

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taramira

@taramira

Goldie

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: dristi64
NISHA
So agree with you. When I opened the SOSY page today I felt Nivi's absence. I was wondering how's Diva doing and Doc S and her family. I missed those teasing conversations. And suddenly everything seemed so dull. It still feels like a bad dream.

SHRUTI

Thank you for those lovely words. They calmed me a bit. Your father must be quite a persona 👏Would you please give me the name of the books?

Most of them are in Urdu with the same poems translated in hindi script because not many people read Urdu these days. His latest collection of poems just released is called Baazgasht.

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

IF-Sizzlerz

Posted: 8 years ago

Namratha

Yes I did, thanks for religiously updating the index and Nivi's creations She wouldnt even be offended if we forgot her, bas aisi thi woh

I am unable to get over the fact that she will never talk or post again. I am not even related to her. I didnt even know her I am not sure why it hurts me so much, probably sounds filmy to some but I am unable to get over it

Everyone I work with know about her, I returned to work in a daze for some reason... every person was shocked. Envee you are right, its the most cruel thing for a young girl to get

I am just praying she didnt research and discover and kept it to herself while she lay in the hospital, she had a laptop with her

What a incredible agony it would have been to know... WHY HER?

I dont want to choose, but couldnt it have been being run over by a cab in Manhattan? it would have been over in a minute... the 12 or so days since she got the results... how did she get by?

She didnt sound negative IN ONE EMAIL

HOW DID she do that?

All those that say "cherish and live every moment" WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? HOW can u be happy knowing she is no longer here?

What is the meaning of saying "Live every moment?"

I go to work take care of my family and drive to the grocery store, and do laundry and make beds and chop veggies and cook, HOW do u "live every moment?"

How can u rejoice knowing she will never get married? Never go to India for wedding shopping

Writing a chapter is like smoking (havent ever smoked just drawing an analogy) I dont grieve she is gone, and when I come here to post I am back looking for her

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taramira

@taramira

Goldie

Posted: 8 years ago

Oh god! Appa in the mix now. As if BALA talking to him wasn't enough, Appas interference will anger the Dude even more, unless RAnjan has the good sense to not say anything to his son. Although this is exactly how APPA would have behaved, but I guess the iyers interference in this matter is now a bit much. Appa must have thought, perfect situation hai badla lene KA...Mauka bhi hai dastoor bhi, aaj to suna ke hi rahoonga...a big wala aiyooo.

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

IF-Sizzlerz

Posted: 8 years ago

Pritee

Our thoughts mirror each other, its like u read my mind. I dont know, I am agonized too, can u imagine her Mom now? She probably knows now that her daughter knew she would be gone

What a horrifying place to be in

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namratha

@NSB7

IF-Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

I don't know if it will help u to know nisha

But everybody at my office and home knows

My dad was so worried he had to drag me home to celebrate my bday

It's painful to know she won't post

Nouf keeps going back to reading old updates and cries when she sees her comments

She keeps awake at night thinking about Nivi and is unable to mention her name

Putti keeps remembering her everyday

Vani is unable to make conversations on the thread yet..she needs time

Diva might have been facing a hell of a time

And her parents and doc.s???

We are all facing it and its a huge blow

We can only be there for each other and be strong

Talk your heart out

We will listen

Don't keep it within you

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taramira

@taramira

Goldie

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Namratha
Yes I did, thanks for religiously updating the index and Nivi's creations She wouldnt even be offended if we forgot her, bas aisi thi woh

I am unable to get over the fact that she will never talk or post again. I am not even related to her. I didnt even know her I am not sure why it hurts me so much, probably sounds filmy to some but I am unable to get over it

Everyone I work with know about her, I returned to work in a daze for some reason... every person was shocked. Envee you are right, its the most cruel thing for a young girl to get

I am just praying she didnt research and discover and kept it to herself while she lay in the hospital, she had a laptop with her

What a incredible agony it would have been to know... WHY HER?
I dont want to choose, but couldnt it have been being run over by a cab in Manhattan? it would have been over in a minute... the 12 or so days since she got the results... how did she get by?

She didnt sound negative IN ONE EMAIL
HOW DID she do that?

All those that say "cherish and live every moment" WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? HOW can u be happy knowing she is no longer here?
What is the meaning of saying "Live every moment?"

I go to work take care of my family and drive to the grocery store, and do laundry and make beds and chop veggies and cook, HOW do u "live every moment?"
How can u rejoice knowing she will never get married? Never go to India for wedding shopping

Writing a chapter is like smoking (havent ever smoked just drawing an analogy) I dont grieve she is gone, and when I come here to post I am back looking for her

No one can rejoice, HOW can you, but you can't reverse what has happened. Give it time. Yes it is pure torture to think how she must have lived those 12 days, but you have to train your mind and brain to think that life has to go on. Aren't you going about doing your daily chores...yes not with the same enthusiasm but all I am saying is that you do these things with better awareness of the moment that you are in, because who knows what happens tomorrow. It's not about rejoicing it's about awareness. She's gone but we are here, we HAVE TO LIVE...acceptance and moving on is a healing process. Give yourself time Nisha...

nothing I say will make any sense right now because you are grieving...but this process will also teach you to cherish what you have. Have patience that's all I say.

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namratha

@NSB7

IF-Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

There are ppl like envee and dristi and nouf and Putti

And many names I haven't mentioned

They are trying to keep us all going

Imagine how it is for the ppl who are listening out to us and facing their pain too

Imagine vani...she delivered the news and heard out to all of us

We need to do better nisha

I might be crossing my boundaries but a smile is the first step

And let's do it with this little family here while we do so

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PriteeMisra

@PriteeMisra

IF-Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Pritee
Our thoughts mirror each other, its like u read my mind. I dont know, I am agonized too, can u imagine her Mom now? She probably knows now that her daughter knew she would be gone

What a horrifying place to be in

True. And we can't pacify her Mom by saying anything. Nothing in this world will justify whatever happened.

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namratha

@NSB7

IF-Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: taramira

No one can rejoice, HOW can you, but you can't reverse what has happened. Give it time. Yes it is pure torture to think how she must have lived those 12 days, but you have to train your mind and brain to think that life has to go on. Aren't you going about doing your daily chores...yes not with the same enthusiasm but all I am saying is that you do these things with better awareness of the moment that you are in, because who knows what happens tomorrow. It's not about rejoicing it's about awareness. She's gone but we are here, we HAVE TO LIVE...acceptance and moving on is a healing process. Give yourself time Nisha...

nothing I say will make any sense right now because you are grieving...but this process will also teach you to cherish what you have. Have patience that's all I say.

i totally agree with every word

I don't say everything will be fine this moment

But we take responsibility to make things better for ourselves

I'm so sorry I gotta go

Take care

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