Discussion: Do you think Suraj will ever Dream for himself?

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Discussion: Do you think Suraj will ever Dream for himself?

We have always seen Suraj living for others in the house, be it Bhabho-Bhabhasa, his siblings, his wife and now his children. Do you really think that if given chance, or if given motivation will he ever think or dream for himself?

Suraj is one gentle man who has completed other's dream making them his own.

Sandhya's Dream: Suraj as the husband of Sandhya has always supported her, though there was a time when he misunderstood her duty but he stuck by his wife and made her IPS Officer going against the orthodox culture and values.

Sibling's Dream: Be it Vikram's shop, Mohit's job, Emily's shop or Chavi's needs, he has completed everything which and where he was not even needed to. He has given that financial support to all which others would never give to their dear ones. He is not selfish. He is a family man.

Parent's Dream: Suraj completed his Parent's dream by becoming a successful businessmen and financially supporting his family. He never cheated like a selfish son, Vikram or Mohit.

Ved's and Vansh's Dream: Suraj has made plans to complete their dreams even though Vansh do not live with them but he as a father has thought about him and why not.

When Sandhya asked him about something, a dream which he ever wanted to do, he had no answer and only thing was in mind was Ved's birthday and so do you think that if Suraj is given huge and lots of Motivation from his family, so will he be able to dream for himself?
will he be able to complete and become something grand?

Of course he can do it, any one can do it. Do you not see the scenario like I see it from my view? or you can something to say? so let us discuss and talk about the track which was most awaited!

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zona. thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post...😊
every person wANts to progress in life... i dont thing there is any person who wants to be where he is...
may be he forgot every dream for supporting his family and later didnt have enough confidence...

and cvs have shown suraj character living for others so he is always thinking about others but he should have thought of buisness expansion earlier coz he can never always support his family by a small shop...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: zona.

nice post...😊

every person wANts to progress in life... i dont thing there is any person who wants to be where he is...
may be he forgot every dream for supporting his family and later didnt have enough confidence...

and cvs have shown suraj character living for others so he is always thinking about others but he should have thought of buisness expansion earlier coz he can never always support his family by a small shop...


Thanks.
That can be the explaination that he forgot in all this about his won dream. He too wanted to progress some day. He needs just motivation.
Yeah, that is what I think that Suraj should have thought of expanding his business. But he is there like he was always.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I dont think he will have his own dream to achieve something big
He is a self content man happy with what he have and as long as the others surrounded by him is happy he will be happy
As you have already mentioned he always thinks about others and his priorities are seldom shown
though once or twice he shared his dream of becoming a teacher with his wife
Sandhya's determination made him become the WTC
thus any motivation or support should come from others
as per the current track his son is going to push him forward
In that scenario he will excel in achieving
whether it is for himself or for his son
If he decides he will achieve
otherwise he will be happy with what he is...
my POV😊

BTW nice post and a relevant topic for discussion
Thanks Dev😊


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Posted: 11 years ago
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if we keep apart ips dream family should hv supported him when he won WTC... he must hv got offers at that time...but at that time IPS was main focus na
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Posted: 11 years ago
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He takes other's dream as his dream.
Which is nothing but feeling contented seeing others dream come true.
He thinks that bringing happiness to his family as a big achievement
nd he s contented with that. Now also if he progress in his career , it will be becoz Ved wants that
or maybe Sandhya ... Now Suraj has changed and his world is only Ved.
He is ready to do anything for him and now his progress is gonna be to make his son happy.

I find no change in Suraj's character from day 1 till now .. A person who is happy with other's happiness.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i don't think he will do that. i am sure SurYa will find a way to make ved understand that there is no wrong if someone born to be simple, i dont want Suraj to change himself only because his son want that, This will make ved do what he want always, No matter if it's wrong or right. This is not good at all..
Very Good Post Dev.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice topic for discussion...

this is my take...suraj actually had dreams, but all his dreams were not fulfilled because of his burdens & responsibilities...perhaps that's why he never dreams...

Suraj did express to sandy that he wanted to participate in a cooking competition long ago before WTC but he cancelled the plan because vikram was getting married...he also said he wanted to be a teacher, but it didnt come true because of family responsibility...

he is a person who is always happy with what he has in life...and his selfless nature, though it did good for others, I personally believe that selfless nature has become a reason for his lack of interest in personal growth...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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My POV... Suraj is not a very ambitious person, He is happy with what he own! His main happiness is to see his family happy! WTC he did only to make Sandhya happy! It was never his dream! I don't think he really had or has any dream about himself! All he can think of doing things which will make people surrounded him happy! Now if he does something to upgrade him will be for Ved happiness only!
Suraj character is very rare type of selfless human being👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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And forgot to mention... thanks Dev for bringing this topic!

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