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I hate to say it but Appa is a hypocrite😭 I love Appa but... Appa had vandu after 8.5 months. Isnt it weird how all the rules change wen the dude is not Iyer? But yes Appa has his own insecurities, more like ego problems. Its like he owns II right now and that R&B has not owned her yet. Or better yet he doesnt want such a dude that would consume her like a fire. He wanted a neutral marriage where she would still pine for her family. It seems she would be blissfully whisked by this punjabi into some dark corner and never return back. His kutti is slipping from his arms, his life. And when I think like that I just want to hold him tight.😭 Maybe R&B someday would be like him when his lil II gets married😳

Originally posted by: Scribble_Tweety

I hate to say it but Appa is a hypocrite😭 I love Appa but... Appa had vandu after 8.5 months. Isnt it weird how all the rules change wen the dude is not Iyer? But yes Appa has his own insecurities, more like ego problems. Its like he owns II right now and that R&B has not owned her yet. Or better yet he doesnt want such a dude that would consume her like a fire. He wanted a neutral marriage where she would still pine for her family. It seems she would be blissfully whisked by this punjabi into some dark corner and never return back. His kutti is slipping from his arms, his life. And when I think like that I just want to hold him tight.😭 Maybe R&B someday would be like him when his lil II gets married😳

All Indian Appas can be generalised into this character.👏 your book is the best medium to teach Indian culture and ethics.  

The dude is nonchalant always 😆

I forgot to mention Akka. She brings in the most logical points.😆 both sisters will get their lil siblings married 
Edited by Scribble_Tweety - 9 years ago

Akka is back ...yayieee 😃😃

Originally posted by: blue5sky

May be pre-wedding nerves????

😳

Originally posted by: kg1404

*****
Ashu, "what's gotten in to you, " well the answer is obvious

obsessed, stalking R&B.
You r all the time Chanting "om R&B namaha"

😆 🤗

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Aval panninaalum achriya padrathukku ille, KG

SHE MIGHT ACTUALLY DO IT😆

Ashu

Yenn di ipdi toongamla kottam adikkare?

KYON NAHI SOTI?😲

I am like II mujhe koi chhod de main saari raat saara din so sakti hoon, I wish I didnt have the worries though... Ashu this is the most worry free period of your life sokar khoob enjoy kar, phir tera R&B tujhe aadhi aadhi raat ko jaayega ya phir SONEY hi nahi dega🤣

N, I am not too sure of vandu's stand here. I mean, c'mon for any normal parent, it wouldn't be easy , to see a guy comes to his own house, lock his daughters room, and later gets informed that his daughter is now engaged, c'mon , that too right under his nose.
He is brow beaten by the ladies of his house, without giving him time to let go of his ideologies, beliefs, pride about his culture. Both R&B and II j, have not made it easy for him to handle the tsunami , in his life. He is feeling swallowed and swamped . He is self sympathizing , alone that none of the ladies in his life has worked their way around it. He has had to agree for a date to suit his to be son in law 's convenience!!

For Appa, whatever is happening is wrong!! I wouldn't push him this much. He needs to be given time to overcome his resentment. He is of an era where, societal Norms and approval mattered, he definitely is going to blow a fuse if his daughter, is acting contrary to the upbringing he has given.If II would announce that she was pregnant and would deliver the kid in in the nine months immediately after marraige, he would be the first person to drop everything and be with his daughter. As that's his belief of the chronology of things to happen as related to marraige , sex and childbirth.

Like any middle class parent, he is insecure of any scandal, why should he believe the bhallas, he does not have the power or the financial clout to get away like Ranjan did.

Well, if his own daughters do not cut any slack, how is R&B expected to. ??? There I go ranting!!

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

I have a easy trick to sleep, start reading War & Peace by Leo Tolstoy. That books just puts me to sleep in just 4-5 pages. 😆😆😆