shita herself carries an immense load of guilt for being the one responsible for Simmy's pain. She seems to be blaming herself for whatever has happened in Simmy's life.
Which she needn't coz it never was her fault . Param's character cannot be her fault or Simmi's fault or his mother's fault ...its simply a quirk of fate , the way he was made . He went after Sarika , checked Shagun out , tried to molest her , may even eye the maid servant . Simmi 'loves' a serpent . Too bad . Just like Shagun loves unscruplous Ashok who does not hesitate using his women to get business deals . Men like Param and Ashok r a sad reality and feminine strength is realizing you r NOT at fault , but THEY r made that way . Realising the truth , accepting it calmly and being unrepentant about your defence is the true strenght . Not these strategic rakhis to please a silly vulnerable nanand . Yes , the lovely compassion of a woman can be shown in helping her to stand on her own feet or even encouraging her to later settle her again in life ...but before that show her his true face by setting up a plant and getting him to pooh pooh his wife and let Simmo overhear it . But strength is not in any guilt complex but having a clear cut vision .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago