Why caring hurts always ???

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Posted: 11 years ago
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YHM has left me with this question which i would like to share. People say that a good heart will always be happy but I think a good heart most of the times get hurted very badly, bcoz it expect only good things from other. Relationships are so sensitive that its so tougher to maintain the relationships till the end with same care as it requires a lot of fights & sacrifices.

Lets take the example of Raman. He loves his son soo much that, he sacrificed everything for the sake of his happiness...He hurted ishita & rejectedhis family, stood & supported his wrong acts, even though he was against it... whyz these all happened...just bcoz he loves him... Its so painful when his own son does not accept me as his father. Though there are lots of reasons for this aditya's evil act, as he was brought by shagun ...still, thinking on the raman's side...He is so eager & greedy to hug his son that, the tragedy is "getting wounded everytime". So Some people are so lucky that they get so much of love even after hurting& very few are so unlucky that even after loving so much, they get hurt...Life is so ironical!...

Coming to Ishita's side,I really pity her soo much for being soo sweet...She is soo selfless that she loves everyone in the family so much, but gets badly hurted again and again...Her sacrifying nature & sweetness, maturity, forgiveness, way of handling the situations is just perfect& flawless. Her gradual acceptance & love & caring raman's family- the outcome is always aching...She never deserve this treatment ...But only a beautiful affection can give the deepest pain...But still, she finds her happiness in others smiles...really bow to this attitude of her...

Hurting someone who really cares for is as easy as throwing a stone in to the sea. We never know how deep it goes in & hurt them. But I like to conclude thattrue care will never go unrecognized, though one often makes mistake in valuing it, But one will definitely understand once they start missing it. Pain can only come from pure love...you feel it only for the person whom you love... And you will give it only to the person who loves you...

So this is our Yeh Hai Mohabatein ❤️Love IshRa ❤️

P.S: Its just my POV & no offend to any one. Would like to know all your views.

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malaxmi thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Each and every words said by you are so true. Good post.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very true and beautiful post.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well written post. Raman loves his son unconditionally but in return he gets hurt more often. Ishita too loves n cares Bhalla's very much but in return mostly she gets hurt by them but now they are changing . Both will get their dues one day. They started understanding her. How much you love the person that much you get hurt this is what happen in real life too.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: malaxmi

Each and every words said by you are so true. Good post.


Thank u 🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Very true and beautiful post.


thanks dear 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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First of all very nice topic with deep thought
It's not always happend that you get hurt by those people to whom you love and care but you feel hurt more by their actio either it was intentionally or not because they are close to ur heart so you feel more by their action either happiness or hurt

In ishra case both love shagun and subbu deeply and truly they were close to their heart. They were really happy but those same people hurt them badly because they were in ishra heart. Shagun and subbu rejection and ignorance hurt ishra badly but look at today they don't have any feeling for them and ishra don't get affected or hurt by their rejection or avoidance though they are same people for ishra but feelings change.

When ishra were against each other they made eachother angry but not hurt. Today both get hurt or happy by their action. Ishita was hurt due to shagun fiasco and raman was hurt due to subbu name and when ishita made fun of his card because today they made place in each other heart and their action make them happy or sad
Same goes with bhalla family first ishita didn't get affected but today she is attach to them so she feel their action
Raman still love adi he is his son and he will get affected by his rejection

As per philosophy and practically you feel hurt by other it depend that you gave them rights or not
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: felciya

Well written post. Raman loves his son unconditionally but in return he gets hurt more often. Ishita too loves n cares Bhalla's very much but in return mostly she gets hurt by them but now they are changing . Both will get their dues one day. They started understanding her. How much you love the person that much you get hurt this is what happen in real life too.


Exactly...Raman and Ishita - both deserves the happiness & both r hurted souls always...Yes, it every one would have expererienced this hurting...where there's a love, there's always a place of hurting...& relationships does nt have meaning without any pain...so there will be some sort of happiness in this pain too...which we can see this in ishita's character...

thanks dear for commenting on this thread...🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said, each and every word is true...beautiful post dear..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lata_ishra

Well said, each and every word is true...beautiful post dear..


Thank u dear 😳

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