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Originally posted by: bluemoon255

aap kitni achhi ligthi hai baisa.👏 totally agree with you. loved the post. we have to understand that paro is not a person who would give up easily on rudra. she is upset with the circumstances of the marriage and seeing rudra's pain but never upset that he married her. she did not look an ounce afraid when rudra put her in the bed. I have said this before, paro reminds me of this saying -'Raise your words, not voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.' just because she doesn't breakdown and cry or start screaming at rudra doesn't make her weak. she knew what she was getting into when she decided she wanted to marry him. she knew his anger and how broken he is but still wanted to be his wife and believed that she can heal him. then when why should behave differently now.👏

gosh did not realise i wrote so much. loved your post❤️

Originally posted by: Hope

You always bring such clarity with your posts. Always a pleasure reading them.

Yup, Paro is Paro and she does things her way and reacts in her own way. She is not us and we are not her. I kept telling everyone these same lines and asked them not to expect her to react the way we want  her to but for some unknown reason I almost did the same thing today. I was so eagerly waiting  to see her reaction today that when I didn't get it I was a bit, just a bit disappointed for few minutes. I thought, if only the CV's had given us a little insight into Paro's inner thoughts it would have been much better. But then again that was me thinking, my opinion. We can't relate to Paro because she is not us. Like you pointed she is pure white and whether we believe it or not she exists as a person.

Now coming to Rudra. It is really hard to hate him for what he did when he is actually doing the contrary of what he was saying. His heart tells him something else and his mind something else. That difference/conflict was very visible in his physical actions. When he came back to the gruhapravesh scene, I couldn't help but laugh and say,  'He is back already.' When he assures her that he is not that drunk to let her fall, I laughed more. CV's are really good in giving us these mild scenes to ease the intensity and also in the process telling us Rudra's conflict. Let us see what he will do tomorrow and how Paro will handle him. Also can't wait to see how he will react next morning when he finds out about his marriage. 😛

Originally posted by: CandYlicious_S

I am SO glad that our opinions match..!! 🤗 

 I posted this in pursuit thread today. 😳

The thing about RR which most of people here forget is that 'Paro is the NURTURER and Rudra is her PROTECTOR'..

The fact that she is NOT breathing fire at him is because she KNOWS that he is brutal with ONLY his words.. His actions are contradictory.. He can NEVER harm her.. She is guilty that her actions, unintentionally ended up hurting him the most. And thats the reason why she was not able to stop this marriage.. She was overwhelmed because of the hurt from which HE was going through and because of the fact, that unintentionally she was the reason of that hurt.


She was not kidding when she said she LOVES him,. She KNOWS what she is signing up for.. As I always say.. Paro's hope lies in Rudra's contradiction.. When his words are beastly, then his actions are that like a lover/ protector.. When he tries to scare her off with Suhaag raat and takes her to room ,apparently to punish her, then he puts her on BED and choses the floor for himself instead.. THIS is how Paro sees Rudra..


 If she had said NO, then it would have raised a question mark that whether her feelings were genuine or not..   Phir toh yehi lagta na that she was NOT ready to accept him as a HUMAN.. ?With his flaws.. ? If she would have ran away from this marriage as most people are suggesting, then all her talks of divine love would have lost their genuineness.. They would have meant nothing.. It would have meant that Paro only fell in love with his protector avatar.. By accepting this marriage, she ACTUALLY displayed to whole world and Rudra that she accepted him as a WHOLE package..! ❤️ 

I watch this show for a lovestory that provides me complexity of emotions.. Agar logic dekhna hota, then I would have changed my channel to a news channel instead of watching RR ..! 😃

Originally posted by: abracadabra

Your post was worth the wait. Running our version of RR will never keep us happy. But I do hope Paro's character is given the same kind of weightage that Rudra's has. What a performer Ashish is! Kudos!

Full marks to your post. I stayed up to read your post and then watched the episode. Thank God I did that. 😊

Originally posted by: Fadila55

loved your post