Is long hair only a prerequisite for a DIL?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sunil's mom commented on Prachi haircut saying it was a tradition in their family/cast that girls have long hair. She commented about the length of someone's DIL having hair down to her ankles or something ridiculously long like that and said don't worry your hair will at least grow down to your waist. So what about her "American" daughter...Her hair was cut...So does this rule only apply to DIL's of the family?????


I don't know what Sacchi is thinking allowing this relationship to go thru or why Prachi isn't seeing past her so called "love" for Sunil. If the wedding does go thru she's in for a rude awakening...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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well i agree with u
i guess they made up those things
they talk about parampara like things but at the same time they talk about fashion
they talk about long hairs but their daughter has short cut

so i guess all this for prachi

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ronshaan

well i agree with u
i guess they made up those things
they talk about parampara like things but at the same time they talk about fashion
they talk about long hairs but their daughter has short cut

so i guess all this for prachi



Ridiculous isn't it. One set of rules for the DIL's and another for their own daughters.😕😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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also did u notice
their daughter has the word at their home
mean she is married but she decides
and at the same time they ask DIL to stay silent and accept what elders decide
so funny
again ill say it
if the parents are like that
the sis like that
what about others

one by one dramebazz
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The rules are different for daughters and DIL's. We see that often in real life too.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I love this show as thy shw what actaully happens in real liufe and that too in the life of girl after marriaGE..
I have seen my oiwn friend going throo all this...

Just want cv's to stick to original conceopt and nt show some crap..due to low trp...

In india this kind of partiality stil exosts for any mil except a very very few dil is difft and their own daughter is difft...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Parm.



Ridiculous isn't it. One set of rules for the DIL's and another for their own daughters.😕😡


cant do much ..we may say we live in 21st century..but still prachis mil kind og people are there in plenty...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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honestly Sachi tried to stop prachi but she herself wants to go to that family & she can't lock her up .. so it is better to let her get what she wants to have :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Jes...

honestly Sachi tried to stop prachi but she herself wants to go to that family & she can't lock her up .. so it is better to let her get what she wants to have :)



I agree she can't lock her up but that doesn't mean that everyone has to go out of their way and face lots of financial hardships to get her what she wants. If she truly wanted to be with Sunil and Sunil with her maybe they could have eloped😆 (I know, probably not feasible but the best solution to this problem in my opinion. Too bad Sunil has no back bone when it comes to his parents unlike his sister it seems).
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Parm.



Ridiculous isn't it. One set of rules for the DIL's and another for their own daughters.😕😡


That is quite common in most Indian families! Hypocrisy, different sets of rules for DILs and daughters. Married daughter visits Maayka, parents say Beta, thodi der aur ruk jaa, baad mein chali jaana...same parents as saas sasur would tell their bahu not to visit Maayka all the time and only go for short visits!

So daughter can have short hair and wear western dresses as shes Amreekan now but bahu has to be full on Desi and have long hair touching her ankles (basically grow her tresses till she trips on her own hair 😆) and bahu has to wear saris with pallu covering her head all the time!
I remember as a new bride I was asked to cover my head for the first few months but I gave up after the first 2 days as pallu would slip down constantly. 😆 My sasural was also very traditional Old Calcutta type family but they gave up trying to change me after a while. 😆

In my mother's time and also a few rishtas in my time, prospective groom's family would ask would be bride to sing for them, to walk a few paces (to see if she limped or not) and open her hair bun or chotis to see the length of her hair.
Im so glad that my daughter grew up outside India and she would never have to face such "interviews" 😆

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