Whats wrong w/ women! - Page 2

Originally posted by: IBserenity

very well said u guys! I agree that the women should get credit for their very important roles in the household.
However, the way these women are trying to make the 2 brothers fight is wrong. I don't think they should do that and i don't rele c the point in that either... 🤢

i think that they are trying to break Mansukh's blind trust on his sons and suspcion on the bahus, by making the brothers fight Mansukh has to go back on his word that he is soo proud of his sons and that they would never do anything wrong because they are men.

i agree with all of you that i also don;t mind taking care of family but if you don't get respect for your work from your familymember and they only take you for granted that is very heart breaking
i am in family in older people think that women are"pair ki juti" and they don';t have any brain lucky my husband is not like that, in other way they think they are mordern but they don't like family's woman go out and work and they don't like young people go out with their freinds and enjoy pub and movie, and all the work done by women at house is just women's duty nothing like AHESAN, and they just order for all things and while servign food if you forget soemthign the way they react like you have made grave mistake for all thing you have ot ask permission oh my god that is torture because when i came in this family that was too much fo rme as in mymother's house i never ask for permission though we are responsible towords our duty but keep asking for anything and for money matter theynever give yo any freedom you have to keep asking for your nececity though it's reach family cannot buy what you want always you have to wear what they want
imegine horrible but lucky my husband gave me all freedom against all elders refusal now i take care of family work out part time and all freedom and take care ,though they think me rebeliouse
so inshort it is very difficult to live life where no body respect you andonly they keep singing their own praise song 😡

sorry to write this lone as i usualy don't come to this forum but when i saw tis discussion i could nto stop myself as this is my own experience

Originally posted by: simi1295

What is the matter with these women? why are they doing all this. I would love to be in thr place, nothing to worry about and staying home and not having to worry about how to handle your life. they have ppl taking care of them.

what rigts do they need? i would love to do what they do at home all day and its not like they are forbiden to go out, they can go out and have fun!

bottom like, i would love to stay home and take care of my husband and kids.

Really ????????? Without the love, respect and with the dhamki of being "SENT BACK" to your fathers place ? These women are just glorified cooks and bais according to the men in the household

"I would love to be in thr place, nothing to worry about and staying home and not having to worry about how to handle your life. they have ppl taking care of them. "

I think this statement is true so long as the decision is yours. How would you feel if this was your only option regardless of what you would love, or even like to do? It all comes down to a human being's freedom to choose how they would like to live. Whether they want to be a stay at home mother and wife, a working mother and wife (like Bhavna would like), or a working single woman (like Hetal would like), it should be a person's choice to decide what's best for them.

I would also love to stay at home and take care of my family, but I choose to work because the financial independance I, and my family have because of it outweigh my desire to stay at home. The bottom line is it's my choice. Oppression never was and never will be acceptable and the whole premise of this show is about women being oppressed.