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Episode 48

Life koi video player toh hai nahi ...

The Welcome crew ... A furious Nani ... An excitable Mamij ... A welcoming Di ... A pleased curious family ... all gathered to welcome an impassive ... insultingly disinterested ... distracted Chottay, bringing home his love ... Lavanay Kashyap ... Prettily attired in probably her most demure outfit ... nervously smiling... Blithely unaware that the man next to her is dreaming of another ...

Nani, the matriarch ... Tough without being harsh, Loving without being suffocating ... Religious without being superstitious ... Principled without being rigid ... Yet with Lavanya ... She is harsh ... Rigid ... Tyrannical ... Completely unreasonable ...

Lavanya ... The girlfriend ... A twenty something, normal, self absorbed, rich, indulged, twenty first century career woman ... Why would she be bothered with chai kasay banatay hai or Mali kofta mein kya jaata hai ... What ever for ??? That's what domestic help is for ... And really thats not what she went to college for ... But for the love of her life she will do her best and try to win over his overbearing, surprisingly traditional family ...

Naniji had compromised only so her grandson would not walk out of the house to set up home with a totally unsuitable ... Foreign bred ... Culturally ignorant ... Domestically challenged ... morally questionable girl he had chosen ... She may have compromised ... But has not laid down her weapons ...

How dare Miss Kasap flaunt their relationship in front of all ... Her old fashioned sensibilities ... Her sense of propriety rocked to the core, she wastes not time in setting the record straight ... She scathingly address them both ... How had they dared to think there was even a remote possibility of them sharing a room ??? How dared he insult the honor of this home ...

Clash of cultures, ideologies and generations ... Nani speaks of Izzat ... Maan ... Sanskriti ... Sabhyata ... and gets an unsolicited, matter of fact explanation on the exact definitions of a live in relationship ... Just in case Naniji is confused ... Really Naniji live in ka matlab live in ... In a matter of seconds ... La's little rebellion is crushed unceremoniously and she is ordered to the Mehmanno ki kamra like a rebuked wayward child ...

While all have been arguing about the semantics of Bahuria hai ya nahin ... Ya kal toh Bahu banagi ya nahi ... Live in or no live in ...our man clearly states Lavanay iss Ghar mein mehman ban kar aai hai ... He's had enough of this samaj ... Sabhitya nonsense ... His Nani is leaving him little choice than to walk out ...

The master mediator ...at work again ... Listening ... Agreeing ... Calming ... Advising ... He doesn't believe in marriage ... Wants to live life on his own terms and is incensed that he even is having this conversation about marriage ...

The true understanding ... the true cost of rejecting this Samaj ka thapa that he so disdainfully rejects now, will come to haunt him ... months from now ...

Agar anay Wally kal ko sawarna hoga toh Aja ka liya gaya kadam sooch samajh kar layna hoga ... Aja ki jaldi mein or zid mein Asa kadam mat utha lana ki kal ko paachtana paday ...

He has done ... exactly the opposite of the prescribed counsel ... Zid mein and jaldbazi mei liya hua kadam ... Here he is fighting for a cause he has no interest in ... Maneuvering himself into a corner with little wriggle room ... His aana wala kal looks pretty bleak ...

Salay sahib ... Kaman say nika hua tir aur juban say nikala hua shabad vapis nahi liya ja sakta. ... Aur zindigi koi videoplayer toh hai nahi ki rewind button dabahya aur galti sudhar li

If only he could turn back time ... His galati ... His apology ... all lost ... Never to be uttered ever ... She will live with it in hatred and he will carry this burden with unspoken Regret ... Painful remorse ... That night ... Sheesh Mahal ... Her teary fearful eyes as he salaciously ripped the pearl string off her blouse ... Why why why ??? Her panicked tight hold ... He had let go of her ... Her painful grimace as her breath was knocked out of her as she hit the cardboard boxes ... Her bloodied wrist ... His forceful hold ... Her slow fade into a dead faint ... What had he done ...

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgL6nl0dPGs&sns=em[/YOUTUBE]


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Posted: 12 years ago
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EPISODE 48

"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time'." Thomas Edison

This is the Quote I have in my class and is lingering at the back of my head today by watching this epi as all the main players are just doing exactly what this quote is screaming with the thunder bolt of Edison's words. 😊

Khushi is in her befuddled state calls Shyam to find out whether she can stay or not in her mind as Buaji tried to chain her thoughts [to apne dil ko manao na'] to try here as this is the best option.She just want one more time A reason to get back her routines in Delhi [as Delhi itni bi buri nahin hai'] as her heart is not letting her go , not giving up BUT her mind is saying YES you have to let it go.

That day her Jiji was insisting to go back Delhi but she wasn't, as her heart... her "Rakshus" was her savior regardless he did not want to see her face and summoned her to dungeon "guest house".Today she is persistant to leave Delhi as her heart her "Rakshus" got her summon to her heart regardless she told him he will not see her face as she is going to the dungeon "Lukhnow" by punishing themselve in this dungeon of "propinquity"

She told him a lie and wanted to make it truth by telling more lies to herself as"humain farak nahin parta"' She is so vulnerable at this state of proximity'.just love her so innocent yet childhish'.😊

"Jiji, pata nahin humnai sahi faisla liya hai keh nahin'. kash kahin sai humain koi aisa ishara milega jo hum sai kahega keh khushi tumne bilkul sahi faisla liya hai."'..Par aisa humsai khabhi koi bolta tou nahin hai''[Jiji I want some sign which can tell me whether I made a right decision or not'But nobody says this to me'..] Who do you want to deliver this sign to you Khiushi '.hmmm'DM or Arnavji'.😳😳

DM' move is brilliant this time as SHE hides herself from Khushi's mind to give her the SIGN as Khushi forgot her putting in her suitcase or must say she forgot considering her "Rakshus" to put upfront as she is leaving him in Delhi in befflement to just give her story a reality check...hmmm...I don't think so...because she can't get away from his SPELL as he saved her as well as her DM...as he is just by name her "Rakshus" but in reality he is her "Savior" now...

Pause here:[Shaitan is her Rajkumar turning into one "eik hi" now]


She is trying to give up all these hovering thoughts...


".As DM's Dupatta fell down as Dupatta is sad because Dupatta is only happy when Arnav is around but ..SIGN'is .As she is holding it with both hands and he was catching DM.It means she will save her Jiji's wedding and Anjali wedding and he will marry her but not with respect as DM's Chunari falls down.

Shyam as not giving up in diverting Anjali's attention with his "Jalaibis" tongue full of deceits as everybody loves his Jalaibis...,his lies... which is making him so nonchalanced and selfsatisfied.He seems "savior" to her but in reality is worse than "Rakshus"...😡

Pause here: Because of disconnection with Khushi ,it will be possible for Khushi to have sweet shop idea which will lead her to her "Rakshus".

La's entrance is a bit awkward as the girl has no idea of aarti's round round gives her round round around Naniji as she does not like this round round girl around Arnav or in RM doing her round round all around...She is not giving up as she is trying to win Arnav's family...

Pause here:La's character is unique as this gal has guts to come forward and do which is not her traits just for the sake of Arnav and at the top she knows he does not love her...not giving up just trying over and over...

During "aarti" the only one "Shakal" one face who has been snatched away from his eyes is doing round round infront of his eyes as so much to say in denial "sochna nahin chahta..Bhoolna chata hoon"...That Shakal is not giving up just trying to challenge go ahead and forget me over and over...

Pause here:[mein tumhari shakal dekhna nahin chahata... aap humari Shakal dekhna nahin chahte...Signal is RED and their train is not leaving or giving up the station...but trying to make them more irritate...


Arnav is watching and trying not to lose his temper infront of Nani."Bina bhiya keh eik kamre mein nahi reh sakat.."(Without marriage you can't live in one room...Naniji is not giving upon Arnav and trying hard to get him on track...

Naniji was bound to make everyone clear for not interrupting her and or helping La and Arnav in their decision living together as any elder in a traditional family can think and does.

Pause here:Fate is not giving up and Khushi will be in his room without proper marriage...

He storms up in his room,Throws off his layering clothes around hastily and not giving up his rage.ASR BG score...[My pondering point he wanted La to stay with him and has no problem and he also wants La to be treated with respect regardless they are married or not.It is evident he did have physical relations but in Sheetal track CVs changed it as Arnav said I was not that kind of boy...must be Channel and Viewers discretion .. If he was treating gals with this kind of respect then why my poor Khushi was always under attack dear ...]


Arnav said one thing is right "La is indeed a guest in RM...


JIjaji a wise guy "kaman sai nikla hua teer, aur zuban sai nikla hua shabd kabhi wapis nahin liya ja sakta..."(You can't take your words back as the arrow leaves the bow)..He grabbed ASR's attention and put him at the edge with "aur zindagi koi video player toh hai nahin keh rewind button dabaye aur galti sudhaar li."[and life is not like a video player in which you press a rewind button and correct your mistakes]



While standing his mind rewinded every pain he gave her from Sheesh Mahal to office ,from office to guest house because each time he did not want to see her face as he hates that aukat girl.But same exact words from her mouth which are written on his brain and infesting him , eering him over and over and her tears ,her pain is piercing him in his heart so sharply which is making unbearable for him to breath."Sansain ruk jayengi"

Which he denied to his Di is becoming reality as he is heaving with her pain...Just like her pearls and her tears which are not giving up making his heart and brain melt for her completely...


months later rehearsing the play

jab jo kiya, jab jo kaha uska koi matlab nahin
Jab jo boora kaha, uska koi matlab nahi,




One thing is commendable that Shyam surely knows how to tame a stubborn ASR with affection and softness and that's why at the end Arnav never believed him as he knew each word of Shyam is just a pure LIE.


"Barf sai ghire huwai pahar bhi garmi sai pighal kar jharnain ban jate hain"[mountains covered with snow melt like spring meaning stiff people melt with kindness]...No doubt you are giving Arnav so many ideas how to tame Khushi but he has to tame himself first in this process.

Arnav's belief in marriage surely connects some dots with his past as he does not want to be committed in that sense but he surely is comfortable to commit with this girl as he is not giving up in relation but trying to have one as Khushi left him "Hamesha Keh Liye" ..

"Nafrat hai na?aapko humse, hamaar shakkal se? to khush hojiye, kyu ki hum aapki nazron se hamesha ke liye door jaa rahe hai" her words still haunt him

His staring at space by clutching his fists and redeeming himself surely shows he is not giving up but trying to reel back those moments to get his Khushi back right infront of his eyes as he was staring at the sky on the other day in the rainy night feeling as he was doing something wrong just like today.That day he punished Red beauty and felt aching in his core and today she punished him with his own medicine and he is still aching and feeling something is going wrong but what and why...yet "Arnav Singh Raizada ko kissi larki sai Farak nahin parta..."

As the thunderbolt on that day during rain was not giving up to make him realize she has entered in your territory and today he is trying to get her back in his territory but HOW to change the attitude of these two is worth trying without giving up and that thunderbolt is going being done by DM...as she is constantly trying and never gave up on these two...

Edited by ArshiHamesha - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sorry I missed almost 7-8 DC in a row...and the loss is mine...I really missed the thread...but I am back again...
Ritz...thanks for all the mails...I felt so bad with myself that even after getting them everyday,i failed to read...
Poona & ArshiHamesha...U guys took me to the episode again...loved the analysis so much...thanks so much...
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@Poona, yet again an absolutely lovely post!

@ArshiHamesha, awesome insight into IPK!
Thanks, both. I'm really enjoying your analysis.
Can't help spotlighting Arnav's comment: "Vaise bhi mein shaadi mein vishwaas hi nahin karta. Sab ka nazariya alag, alag hota hai..." I don't believe in marriage! And note the camera angle here: the focus is on Shyam's face. And Shyam looks up at that remark, as though it's a moment of private epiphany for him - a new realisation, or as though, he'd have liked to say something to Arnav just then, at the very least. Yet he keeps mum.
What brilliant irony: here's Arnav shouting from the rooftops that he doesn't believe in marriage and all these stamps of social acceptance. Yet it is Arnav who will end up conforming to society when he forcibly marries Khushi and brings her into his bedroom.
And there's Shyaam, the much-married upholder of family honour, who's actually subverting society even as he speaks, or listens, for that matter. I can't help thinking at this point, that when Arnav spoke those lines, Shyam must have silently agreed with him.
He was probably thinking, "Saaley saab, you have no idea how much I agree with you. I don't believe in Marriage either. I just have a different way of showing it. After all, to realise your future you have to watch where you step today."
Edited by tvbug2011 - 12 years ago
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Ipoona,
A gold mine here, with your dazzling description we also get to read Arshihamesha and tybug2011

An amazing package, just the like the days of yore!

Reserving for now

Will be back with my thoughts, but hey!

Dil khush ho gaya
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Episode 48

Life koi video player toh hai nahi ...
This is the key dialogue...in his life to rewind

The Welcome crew ... A furious Nani ... An excitable Mamij ... A welcoming Di ... A pleased curious family ... all gathered to welcome an impassive ... insultingly disinterested ... distracted Chottay, bringing home his love ... Lavanay Kashyap ... Prettily attired in probably her most demure outfit ... nervously smiling... Blithely unaware that the man next to her is dreaming of another ..

Every action of this universe just takes him there where his heart is.

Nani, the matriarch ... Tough without being harsh, Loving without being suffocating ... Religious without being superstitious ... Principled without being rigid ... Yet with Lavanya ... She is harsh ... Rigid ... Tyrannical ... Completely unreasonable ...
Despite she is all what you describing in underlined...yet she wants a sanskari Bahu...with everything ...a complete package which La doesn't reflect at all..

Lavanya ... The girlfriend ... A twenty something, normal, self absorbed, rich, indulged, twenty first century career woman ... Why would she be bothered with chai kasay banatay hai or Mali kofta mein kya jaata hai ... What ever for ??? That's what domestic help is for ... And really thats not what she went to college for ... But for the love of her life she will do her best and try to win over his overbearing, surprisingly traditional family ...

She did try her best to comply with all the challenges for Arnav and that's why Nani stood up for her in front of Arnav...

Naniji had compromised only so her grandson would not walk out of the house to set up home with a totally unsuitable ... Foreign bred ... Culturally ignorant ... Domestically challenged ... morally questionable girl he had chosen ... She may have compromised ... But has not laid down her weapons ...

How dare Miss Kasap flaunt their relationship in front of all ... Her old fashioned sensibilities ... Her sense of propriety rocked to the core, she wastes not time in setting the record straight ... She scathingly address them both ... How had they dared to think there was even a remote possibility of them sharing a room ??? How dared he insult the honor of this home ...
Very nicely rules were laid out and no one could object...

Clash of cultures, ideologies and generations ... Nani speaks of Izzat ... Maan ... Sanskriti ... Sabhyata ... and gets an unsolicited, matter of fact explanation on the exact definitions of a live in relationship ... Just in case Naniji is confused ... Really Naniji live in ka matlab live in ... In a matter of seconds ... La's little rebellion is crushed unceremoniously and she is ordered to the Mehmanno ki kamra like a rebuked wayward child ...

While all have been arguing about the semantics of Bahuria hai ya nahin ... Ya kal toh Bahu banagi ya nahi ... Live in or no live in ...our man clearly states Lavanay iss Ghar mein mehman ban kar aai hai ... He's had enough of this samaj ... Sabhitya nonsense ... His Nani is leaving him little choice than to walk out ...

BUT he was right...she is a guest😊

The master mediator 😡...at work again ... Listening ... Agreeing ... Calming ... Advising ... He doesn't believe in marriage ... Wants to live life on his own terms and is incensed that he even is having this conversation about marriage ...

The true understanding ... the true cost of rejecting this Samaj ka thapa that he so disdainfully rejects now, will come to haunt him ... months from now ...

Agar anay Wally kal ko sawarna hoga toh Aja ka liya gaya kadam sooch samajh kar layna hoga ... Aja ki jaldi mein or zid mein Asa kadam mat utha lana ki kal ko paachtana paday ...

He has done ... exactly the opposite of the prescribed counsel ... Zid mein and jaldbazi mei liya hua kadam ... Here he is fighting for a cause he has no interest in ... Maneuvering himself into a corner with little wriggle room ... His aana wala kal looks pretty bleak ...👏
That is the point he is fighting within what he has done and now can't rewind it...and that is killing him...making him closing his fists ,how can he put all those pears of respect back to her...later he will but we have a NILE to cross for that...

Salay sahib ... Kaman say nika hua tir aur juban say nikala hua shabad vapis nahi liya ja sakta. ... Aur zindigi koi videoplayer toh hai nahi ki rewind button dabahya aur galti sudhar li

If only he could turn back time ... His galati ... His apology ... all lost ... Never to be uttered ever ... She will live with it in hatred and he will carry this burden with unspoken Regret ... Painful remorse ... That night ... Sheesh Mahal ... Her teary fearful eyes as he salaciously ripped the pearl string off her blouse ... Why why why ??? Her panicked tight hold ... He had let go of her ... Her painful grimace as her breath was knocked out of her as she hit the cardboard boxes ... Her bloodied wrist ... His forceful hold ... Her slow fade into a dead faint ... What had he done ...

These are the reasons which are making him restless and panic of losing her...losing his life...indeed he can't rewind it back but fate will start a fresh chapter of this story for them...

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgL6nl0dPGs&sns=em[/YOUTUBE]



Lovely Ipoona...👏

The ending is the key of this epi...and if he is in regrets, so is she why she didn't hear him...She is in Lala land where only her Rakshus/Rajkumar is every where who is stopping him to move on and over here he wants to hold a pause on those moments to key her back around him...

Thnx
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nishu_shorna

Sorry I missed almost 7-8 DC in a row...and the loss is mine...I really missed the thread...but I am back again...
Ritz...thanks for all the mails...I felt so bad with myself that even after getting them everyday,i failed to read...
Poona & ArshiHamesha...U guys took me to the episode again...loved the analysis so much...thanks so much...


Thnx nishu...I am honored with your words.😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tvbug2011

@Poona, yet again an absolutely lovely post!

@ArshiHamesha, awesome insight into IPK!
Thank You😊
Thanks, both. I'm really enjoying your analysis.
Can't help spotlighting Arnav's comment: "Vaise bhi mein shaadi mein vishwaas hi nahin karta. Sab ka nazariya alag, alag hota hai..." I don't believe in marriage! And note the camera angle here: the focus is on Shyam's face. And Shyam looks up at that remark, as though it's a moment of private epiphany for him - a new realisation, or as though, he'd have liked to say something to Arnav just then, at the very least. Yet he keeps mum.
What brilliant irony: here's Arnav shouting from the rooftops that he doesn't believe in marriage and all these stamps of social acceptance. Yet it is Arnav who will end up conforming to society when he forcibly marries Khushi and brings her into his bedroom.
And there's Shyaam, the much-married upholder of family honour, who's actually subverting society even as he speaks, or listens, for that matter. I can't help thinking at this point, that when Arnav spoke those lines, Shyam must have silently agreed with him.
He was probably thinking, "Saaley saab, you have no idea how much I agree with you. I don't believe in Marriage either. I just have a different way of showing it. After all, to realise your future you have to watch where you step today."
Excellent Point..yes Shyam is a deceit and honet tongue Shatir with layered personality...yet Arnav is straight forward yet complicated with nature of his personality but without any deceit and that is the biggest difference ...He does whatever he thinks is right...and in front of everyone...While Shyam plans hidden corridors of his movement.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arshics

Ipoona,

A gold mine here, with your dazzling description we also get to read Arshihamesha and tybug2011

An amazing package, just the like the days of yore!

Reserving for now

Will be back with my thoughts, but hey!

Dil khush ho gaya


Thnx Arshics...means a lot from some one like you...😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nishu_shorna

Sorry I missed almost 7-8 DC in a row...and the loss is mine...I really missed the thread...but I am back again...
Ritz...thanks for all the mails...I felt so bad with myself that even after getting them everyday,i failed to read...
Poona & ArshiHamesha...U guys took me to the episode again...loved the analysis so much...thanks so much...

Nishu !! Missed you all these days ... So glad to see you back!!! Thanks for your encouraging words always!!!😛

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