Smitar's:Finding Khushi #6 Part 21 Pg 116 (26/4) - Page 50

Originally posted by: hetaldave

Humbhi thoda demanding ho lete he Smitaji kya pilan hai aaj ki update kab hamri pyasi akhiyon ko milegi?


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Shaam hone ko de, update likhne to de, hum ik dusre ko milenge jaroor,😃

Tu mera hero..o..o..o hero...😆

Smita

Originally posted by: smitar

Shaam hone ko de, update likhne to de, hum ik dusre ko milenge jaroor,😃

Tu mera hero..o..o..o hero...😆

Smita

Wah! Wah! Ramji..

Mindblowing update Rashmi 😃

Finally all misundestandings are clear now.

Thnx 4 PMEdited by M1A1 - 11 years ago

Mindblowing update dear   😃

Thnx 4 PM

I have always been impressed by Khushi's impeccable logic, in fact the story is about her discovering reason and logic in the face of all the suffering ASR put her through ( so much so i have wanted to suggest that the title f this story be changed to Khushi's logic or Close encounters with logic of the Khushi kind) .

Khushi is an enormous person in her dignity and humility, but for the first time in this story I feel Khushi is beginning to stray towards the moral high ground basing her logic on a few simplistic assumptions in the last question that she posed to ASR.

The first being that men only play around with women while women invest all their emotional energies into a relationship. While ASR is undoubtedly an arrogant swine to towards the whole world including the women, one could never accuse him of being dishonest, one can assume he never promised the women love. So to hold him entirely responsible for their anger smacks of a naivety that will only cause her pain. If she wanted to be fair, she should ask the women why they were angry, if they were in love with him, if he had deceived them in any way.

 She has no claim over his past.


Secondly by assuming that Lisa and La's anger stems from the fact that they loved ASR who rejected by ASR, is not fair. They could be angry for any number of reasons- ego, losing the chance of having a share of ASR's wealth, love, anything. Even assuming they loved ASR, they cannot force him to love them back. Maybe they are not angry with him at all, she is the one who makes them feel lesser than themselves?

Also it denies women of agency, one which she has fiercely demanded for herself through her logic and actions. These women may have got into a relationship with him for reasons other than love.


In her innocence, she has not realised that she has now put ASR in a position where he will feels lesser than her,. A feeling, which even if he sets aside, will surface in those very difficult moments that she is anticipating.

Her insecurities are genuine and very understandable, this unfortunately was not the way to go about it.

But then this is her process of learning about life and relationships, so this conversation is a critical one, just wish she not strayed in the direction she has. What does she want him to say? Her last comments almost border on patronizing.

Her intentions are true and genuine, just as her love for him and she will stand up for him and their relationship. She needs to acknowledge and respect the fact that he too will. As Maverickmartin says in her post - trust is the key to it all.


Edited by Japonica - 11 years ago

The interpretation is superb.
Loved the way you described each and every feelings and emotions of their conversation.
Perfect name of the update.

Thanks for the pm dear.
Have a nice day.
Take care.

Originally posted by: Japonica

I have always been impressed by Khushi's impeccable logic, in fact the story is about her discovering reason and logic in the face of all the suffering ASR put her through ( so much so i have wanted to suggest that the title f this story be changed to Khushi's logic or Close encounters with logic of the Khushi kind) .

Khushi is an enormous person in her dignity and humility, but for the first time in this story I feel Khushi is beginning to stray towards the moral high ground basing her logic on a few simplistic assumptions in the last question that she posed to ASR.

The first being that men only play around with women while women invest all their emotional energies into a relationship. While ASR is undoubtedly an arrogant swine to towards the whole world including the women, one could never accuse him of being dishonest, one can assume he never promised the women love. So to hold him entirely responsible for their anger smacks of a naivety that will only cause her pain. If she wanted to be fair she should ask the women why they were angry, if they were in love with him, if he had deceived them in any way. She has no claim over his past.


Secondly by assuming that Lisa and La's anger stems from the fact that they loved ASR who rejected by ASR, is not fair. They could be angry for any number of reasons- ego, losing the chance of having a share of ASR's wealth, love, anything. Even assuming they loved ASR, they cannot force him to love them back. Maybe they are not angry with him at all, sheis the one who makes them feel lesser than themselves?

Also it denies women of agency, one which has fiercely demanded for her herself through her logic and actions. These women may have got into a relationship with him for reasons other than love.


In her innocence, she has not realised that she has now put ASR in a position where he will feels lesser than her,. A feeling, which even if he sets aside, will surface in those very difficult moments that she is anticipating.

Her insecurities are genuine and very understandable, this unfortunately was not the way to go about it. But then this is her process of learning about life and relationships, so this conversation is a critical one, just wish she not strayed in the direction she has. What does she want him to say? Her last comments almost border on patronising.

Her intentions are true and genuine, just as her love for him and she will stand up for him and their relationship. She needs to acknowledge and respect the fact that he too will. As maverickmartin says in her post - trust is the key to it all.

Edited by rulama - 11 years ago

Absolutely Amazing Update 😊

The way both their emotions are described is brilliant...

Thank you for the PM 😊

Originally posted by: smitar

<font color="#FF0000"><font face="Geneva, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="5">Shaam hone ko de, update likhne to de, hum ik dusre ko milenge jaroor,😃

Tu merai hero..o..o..o hero...😆

Smita</font></font>

             
O meri o meri Smitaji aaona,tarsaona chal koi nahi mehbooba shaam ko toh milegi. 😉
Edited by hetaldave - 11 years ago